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    Psalms, Hymns, and Spiritual Songs

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    Summary

    This passage examines the command to sing from Ephesians 5:18-21 and Colossians 3:16-17, revealing that singing psalms, hymns, and spiritual songs is not optional but a vital part of the Christian life. We are reminded that singing is a sign of being filled by the Spirit, a God-designed means of ministering to one another, and a powerful tool that shapes our attitudes and actions toward thankfulness and righteous living.

    Key Lessons:

    1. Singing is a direct result and evidence of being filled by the Holy Spirit with the word of Christ — a spirit-filled Christian is naturally a singing Christian.
    2. God designed music as a unique delivery system to embed theological truth deep into our hearts in ways that mere words cannot accomplish on their own.
    3. Singing is not just vertical worship to God but horizontal ministry — we are commanded to teach and admonish one another through psalms, hymns, and spiritual songs.
    4. A legacy of hymns stored in the heart provides an anchor during seasons of depression, anxiety, grief, and even at the point of death.

    Application: We are called to develop a personal and family legacy of singing by learning psalms, hymns, and spiritual songs — not just on Sundays, but daily. Fathers are challenged to lead worship in their homes. Each believer should invest time learning songs so the word of Christ dwells richly within, producing thankfulness and Christlike living.

    Discussion Questions:

    1. How often do you sing hymns or spiritual songs outside of Sunday worship, and what would it look like to make this a daily practice?
    2. Can you think of a time when a song anchored you during a difficult season? How does this connect to Paul’s command in Ephesians 5 and Colossians 3?
    3. What practical steps can you take this week to begin building a shared body of songs within your family or small group?

    Scripture Focus: Ephesians 5:18-21 and Colossians 3:16-17 form the central texts, teaching that Spirit-filled believers will sing to God and to one another with thankfulness. Lamentations 3:19-24 illustrates how song lifts believers from despair to hope. 2 Chronicles 20:21-22 demonstrates how praise and singing preceded God’s deliverance in battle.

    Outline

    Introduction

    Let’s start with a word of prayer.

    Father, it’s a privilege every once in a while to examine how we worship and to examine why we do the things that we do in worshiping you.

    Lord, we desire to do everything according to your word and worship in song. Although it’s only one part of the worship overall we offer to you, worship in song is part of worship.

    And Lord, help us as we look at these scriptures, as we examine our own worship, to see whether or not we match what you have laid out for us in your word.

    We desire to do your will and to have all the blessings that you’ve made available to us in song. I pray this in Christ’s name. Amen.

    The Power of Music

    Well, I’d like to start out today by asking you a question: who here has ever had an earworm?

    An earworm. One of you has had an earworm. Okay, that’s disgusting. No. An earworm is not a literal worm in your ear. Although, interestingly enough, there is a worm called an earworm.

    An earworm is a term that is used to describe a song that repeats endlessly in your head. Okay? It just gets stuck in your brain and has this sort of infinite loop quality. You sometimes can’t get rid of it. Some songs just seem to have this quality. Some of the canonical examples of this are the Macarena, which maybe if you’ve gone to a wedding and they play that, it just kind of plays endlessly in your head.

    Who let the dogs out?

    I remember when I heard that song, I just kept woofing.

    Or the all-time champion of all earworms: Baby Shark. Who said that? Baby Shark.

    That’s right.

    If you search up—don’t do this now—but if you search up earworms online, you will find a fascinating rabbit hole. How to get rid of an earworm, how to create an earworm, and even Spotify playlists full of earworms for your listening pleasure.

    Just goes to show though how powerful music is. And although many of you I’m sure do not want to be singing Baby Shark in your head all day, there are better songs that you could have in there. And that is really the whole message I wanted to get across today: don’t play Baby Shark, play something else.

    “God has lovingly created this tool called music as a critical tool to build believers up in this life.”

    In fact, God has lovingly created this tool called music, not only to entertain us or maybe sometimes annoy us, but as a critical tool to build believers up in this life. And the question I’d like for you to consider today with me is: are we using that tool as effectively as we could be?

    To consider this question, I’d like for you to turn with me to two scriptures.

    Psalms, Hymns, and Spiritual Songs Defined

    But first, let’s turn to Ephesians chapter 5. Ephesians chapter 5 on your pew Bible will be page 1173 if you are turning there. And I do encourage you to turn there. We’ll have it up on the screen, but it’s better to look at it in the text. I’ve entitled the sermon today Psalms, hymns, and spiritual songs because this is a phrase that appears twice in the Bible both from the Apostle Paul, once in Ephesians 5 and once in Colossians 3. In both command, in both cases, it is a command to sing. It is a command to sing. It’s not a suggestion. It’s not a recommendation.

    It is a command.

    “It is a command to sing. It’s not a suggestion. It’s not a recommendation.”

    Now, these two sections are parallel sections, which means they share similar context. They share similar structure.

    And we’re going to look at both verses today so that we can get a more complete picture of what the apostle has in mind when he describes this curious phrase, psalms, hymns, and spiritual songs.

    Let’s read Ephesians 5 first. I’ll read it for you. Ephesians 5:18.

    And do not get drunk with wine, for that is dissipation, but be filled with the spirit, speaking to one another in psalms, hymns, and spiritual songs, singing and making melody with your heart to the Lord, always giving thanks for all things in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ, to God.

    Even the father and be subject to one another in the fear of Christ. And we’ll flip over if you can just keep your finger there and flip over to page 11.

    I’m sorry I got the page wrong probably.

    Well that’s probably 173. This one is 1180 before one of those two. You can take a look. Colossians 3:16, it says, “Let the word of Christ dwell richly within you with all wisdom, teaching and admonishing one another with psalms, hymns, and spiritual songs, singing with thankfulness in your heart to God. Whatever you do in word or deed, do all in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks through him to God the Father.

    So, as we begin to break down some of the truths that the Lord has for us in these two passages, I first want to explain a little bit about this phrase, Psalms, hymns, and spiritual songs.

    What Are Psalms?

    The word psalms probably refers to the Old Testament book of Psalms, primarily written by King David. These are the songs that the Israelites themselves would sing from during their temple worship and their festivals and other events. They would sing corporately and they would sing with instrumentation most of the time. And if anything about the psalms that they were written to express a huge range of emotion. There’s joy, there’s triumph, there’s sorrow, there’s fear, despair, lament, depression, anxiety.

    And many of the songs we sing today are either borrowed directly from the Psalms or perhaps repeat the same themes.

    “The psalms were written to express a huge range of emotion — joy, triumph, sorrow, fear, despair, lament.”

    What Are Hymns?

    We did that this morning. Now, this word hymns, this word hymns is probably referring to songs that showcase and recite theological truths. Hymns have meat to them. There’s theological meat.

    And there’s examples of hymns scattered throughout of scripture. We’ve been going through the book of Revelation in one of our sermon series. And Revelation has six in that book alone of just hymns. Just one example, Revelation 4. This hymn is fascinating because it is sung by a mixed choir of angels and humans.

    And Revelations 4:8, very familiar hymn.

    Holy, holy, holy is the Lord God the Almighty, who was and is and is to come.

    Worthy are you, our Lord and our God, to receive glory and honor and power, for you created all things.

    Just these two verses of what they’re singing or what we will be singing in heaven is a theological treatise.

    Revelation 4:8: “Holy, holy, holy is the Lord God the Almighty, who was and is and is to come.”

    In fact, just looking at what it says just in these two verses, he’s holy.

    He’s thrice holy. God is eternal.

    There’s no beginning and no end. He’s worthy.

    He’s sovereign.

    He’s the creator.

    That’s incredible. Just in those two verses, you could preach six messages on that.

    What Are Spiritual Songs?

    And the last term, spiritual songs, refers to songs where God’s acts and his favor towards us are remembered and praised. This is probably a more personal type of song of song has a more personal feel sometimes might be even in the first person. And there are examples of this in the scripture as well. In Exodus 15, the song of Moses, that is the first song we encounter in the Bible.

    And the song of Moses remembers how God was faithful to Israel in delivering them from the hands of the Egyptians and parting the Red Sea.

    And Mary’s Magnific Magnificat in Luke 1 is another example of a spiritual song where she expresses her joy at God’s blessing. There are many, many others.

    “Spiritual songs are where God’s acts and his favor towards us are remembered and praised.”

    Why God Put So Many Songs in the Bible

    We could go all day. Hundreds, not an exagger, not an exaggeration to say hundreds of psalms, hymns, and spiritual songs packed into the Bible. And the question we have to ask is why did God put so many songs in the Bible?

    Well, the obvious answer is that God wants us to sing. Both in this life and as we saw in the life to come, God loves music that honors his name.

    “God wants us to sing — both in this life and the life to come. God loves music that honors his name.”

    In fact, singing, as we’ve gone through Revelation, it struck me that singing seems to be one of the primary activities in heaven.

    And it’s no exaggeration then to say that if you don’t rejoice in singing now, you may not have a lot to enjoy in heaven. Think about that.

    There is a lot of music and singing and praising the Lord.

    And so even now today as you sit here, I want to tell you that God wants you to be a singing people. He wants you to be a singing people.

    Singing Is a Sign of Being Filled with the Spirit

    So from our text today in Ephesians 5:1 18, I want I want to bring out for you three reasons why Christians such as ourselves are commanded to be a singing people. Three reasons why Christians are commanded to be a singing people.

    Commanded.

    The first reason number one is that singing is a sign of being filled with the spirit. Singing is a sign of being filled with the spirit.

    “Singing is a sign of being filled with the Spirit.”

    Verse 18, do not get drunk with wine, for that is dissipation, but be filled with the spirit.

    Speaking to one another in psalms, hymns, and spiritual songs. Paul says, “Don’t get drunk with wine.” We know why we are not to get drunk with wine. Because when we become intoxicated with wine, we yield up what? Our self-control.

    And we become controlled by the wine. We all know this.

    But instead of being filled by wine, Paul says to be filled by the spirit. Or put another way, came up with this myself, put down the gin and pick up the guitar.

    Whereas wine will lower your self-control and will tempt you to act according to your flesh.

    Being filled with the spirit actually has the opposite effect. It increases your self-control. It gives you greater self-control to think and act according to the will of God, which is what you want anyways if you’re a Christian. If you get filled with wine, you will do things that later you will regret. But if you be if you’re filled by the spirit, you’ll do things that later you rejoice over both in this life and the life to come.

    So what does it look like then to be filled with the spirit? What does it look like? And in our culture today a lot of people think this looks like rolling on the floor, foaming at your mouth, speaking gibberish, and it has nothing to do with this.

    If that’s happening to you, you should be worried that you might be filled by an evil spirit, not by the Holy Spirit.

    Filled by the Spirit with the Word of Christ

    So what does this mean? Well, it turns out that in the grammar, many commentators have commented that it might be better here to read filled by the spirit instead of with the spirit.

    That is, instead of the Holy Spirit sort of filling you in a metaphysical sense, the Holy Spirit is filling you with something.

    You’re being filled with something. And to see what that is, we can now turn over to our Colossians 3 sister verse for a clue. And let me just read that again to you, which is right there. I think I’ll put both of them up there so you can reference them. It says, “Let the word of Christ richly dwell within you.” So what are we filled with?

    We are filled by the spirit with the word of Christ.

    “We are filled by the Spirit with the word of Christ.”

    So what is the word of Christ? I think we talked about this a little bit in the Sunday school.

    It’s everything in the Bible.

    Everything in the Bible that has to do with God’s plan and the truth of Christ and what he’s done for you. What led to his coming. Everything about who Christ is and everything about what he will do.

    The Gospel Message at the Center

    Most critically, it’s this gospel message.

    The gospel message, as we talked about a little bit before during worship, is that although you are a sinner deserving of eternal wrath, of eternal judgment, your creator God sent his son, Jesus Christ, who himself was God in human flesh to live a sinless life for you that you should have lived. And then he died on the cross to pay for the death that you should have died.

    And if you confess your sin and you confess your guilt and you believe in the work of Jesus Christ, your debt is instantly paid and you come into eternal life.

    “If you confess your sin and believe in the work of Jesus Christ, your debt is instantly paid.”

    Or just as we sang, his robes were mine. A wonderful exchange. Clothed in my sin, Christ suffered neath God’s rage. Draped in his righteousness, I’m justified. In Christ, I live. For in my place, he died.

    Singing from the Heart

    A natural result of being filled by the spirit with the word of Christ, it says back in Ephesians 5:19, is that you will sing and make melody with your heart to the Lord.

    That’s the natural result. You will make melody. You’ll make music because music is the language of our emotions. You see, the truths of God’s word rightly understood ought not to just live here but it will touch your heart here.

    God designed music so that it can uniquely express a type of beauty and a type of joy and a type of emotion in a way that mere words would struggle to do.

    “God designed music so that it can uniquely express beauty, joy, and emotion in a way that mere words would struggle to do.”

    And don’t get me wrong, this is not talking about the mechanical act of producing the music.

    It must be with your heart. It must be with your heart. It must be heartfelt. In other words, God wants you to sing like you mean it. Like you mean it.

    Worship Requires Both Spirit and Truth

    True worship contains both logic and emotion and spirit and truth.

    It’s worship in spirit and truth. It’s not enough just to acknowledge the facts about your salvation or to acknowledge the facts about Christ. You need to feel the right way about them.

    “True worship contains both logic and emotion — spirit and truth.”

    In fact, if you don’t feel something about them, then there is something profoundly wrong with your spiritual state. I I once was talking to one of my close friends who we went to their wedding a long time ago, many years ago.

    It was a beautiful wedding.

    Unforgettable.

    Many years later, I was talking to the same friend and I casually came up how’s your marriage going? And let me be clear, there’s no obvious problems, but the he looked at me in the eye and he said something to me that I’ll never forget. And he he just looked at me and he said this. He said, “Well, look, at least I’m not cheating on her.

    That’s not love, is it?

    But that’s what it looks like when Jesus, but you worship with no passion.

    It’s not love. And neither is that true worship. A spiritfilled, truthfilled Christian is a singing Christian. That’s what what it’s saying.

    If you’re filled with the truth by the spirit, you can’t help but sing. It’ll burst out of your mouth.

    And remember, this is not something that I’m talking about that really only happens on Sundays. This is something that should be happening every day of your life.

    Singing Is a Mandated Means of Mutual Ministry

    So singing is a sign of being filled by the spirit. But there is more because the second reason we see from this text that we are commanded to sing is number two singing is a mandated means of mutual ministry. I’m quite proud of that. Got four M’s in there. It is a mandated means of mutual ministry.

    Look again at Ephesians 5:18.

    Paul is not merely commanding us to sing for our own benefit, is he?

    But he is saying to speak to one another.

    And likewise in our parallel verse in parallel verse in Colossians 3:16, it says to teach and admonish again one another.

    Colossians 3:16: “Teaching and admonishing one another with psalms, hymns, and spiritual songs.”

    Singing as Corporate Testimony

    So not only do we have a vertical component of singing where we worship up to God, there is a horizontal component, we sing to each other to encourage, teach and counsel one another. And here we realize how we sing, bringing back to Sunday mornings, how we sing to the Lord on Sunday mornings is a powerful testimony to those around us.

    If you are sort of barely moving your lips, that says something about how you feel about the Lord.

    Remember, the testimony is not about the musicians up here. We’re just sort of providing the music. What makes our time really special that really is unique that no one else in the world can do that only we can do is that Calvary Community Church, God’s church here, lifts our voices together and we give him praise.

    We sing to each other with one voice and we lift up that voice collectively to God. You are participating not only in an individual worship experience, but we are together worshiping God as a church.

    “We sing to each other with one voice and lift up that voice collectively to God.”

    Your voice is only one out of many in the choir.

    It is the church praising God.

    That’s one aspect of this. But this isn’t talking just about Sundays. Okay?

    The word Sunday does not appear in that verse.

    I think Paul has a deeper meaning in mind and I think this applies outside of our gathered worship.

    Paul’s Use of Song Lyrics

    And for a long time I think I struggled to understand this. I didn’t really understand what Paul meant here by teaching and admonishing until I noticed Ephesians 5:14.

    And I think there’s a slide here. You can go up in your if you’re in your Bibles just look up three verses.

    Look up at Ephesians 5:14. This is really cool to see. I was surprised.

    Look at Ephesians 5:14.

    Just to give you some context, verse 13, Paul is telling them to stay away from deeds of darkness.

    Similar to what we learned in Sunday school, actually, stay away from the deeds of darkness. Why? Because everything is going to ex be exposed to the light of Christ. Okay? So if that everything is going to be exposed to the light of Christ, you’re not going to be sneaking off doing deeds of darkness over here. Well, he wants to make his point. And how does he choose to make his point? Verse 14.

    For this reason, it says, “Awake sleeper, and arise from the dead, and Christ will shine on you.” Now, where do you think that quote is from? You can look through the Bible.

    It’s not there.

    Paul is quoting a song. He is quoting a hymn that they would have known, that they would have been familiar with. And you see, when Paul tells you to teach and admonish one another with songs and hymns and spiritual songs, he’s doing it right there.

    Ephesians 5:14: “Awake sleeper, arise from the dead, and Christ will shine on you.”

    He’s bringing out a song lyric that they would know.

    And he does this actually quite often.

    Once to look for it, you’ll find it.

    It’s not the only time.

    So what is he doing by reminding them of the lyric that they already have been singing, he causes them to hear the song in their mind, and they’ll sing it to them to themselves over and over and then they will remember his message.

    In other words, he’s tying his message to their version of an earworm.

    I think that’s cool.

    So, Paul says, “You do that, too.” Okay.

    Building a Shared Body of Songs

    Understand though that implicit in this command here is that there’s an expectation that the church will have a shared body of hymns or a shared body of songs to draw from so that when we reference a verse you’ll know it. Although when we come on Sundays we do try to teach you some songs, we probably don’t sing these songs often enough for you to really know them. You probably do need to take some time at home.

    In fact, there have been some studies on this that show it takes about 15 repetitions of a song not too far apart for you to really start to understand the tune and the words from memory. There’s just no way we can repeat a song that often just on Sunday mornings. I look through, and even the most overplayed songs we have, we do like five or six times a year. So you probably have some homework to do to truly learn these songs. And I do have a recommendation this morning.

    “It takes about 15 repetitions of a song for you to really start to understand the tune and the words from memory.”

    Just a few weeks ago, the Gettys, who we sing many of their songs, came out with the sing hymnal and we have a few of them in the book nook at a very discounted price because we had the launch price. If you want to pick one up, you can. We don’t make any money off of them. But the nice thing about it is that it has a lot of the songs that we sing as a church, both the older hymns and the newer ones that we sing today. And it’s also very beautifully done.

    As a personal testimony, my family bought a bunch of those copies for each person. Every night we make it a point to sing a hymn together, and it’s been a blessing to do that. I would actually encourage you to consider making that a practice in your own family as well because this teaches our kids the hymns and we should be teaching them to our kids because the alternative that they’re listening to is much worse.

    The Story of Joni Eareckson Tada

    And to give you sort of an idea of the impact this could have, I want to tell you a little story I recently heard by Joanie Ericson Tatada. Joanie became a quadripollegic at the age of 17 when she broke her neck in a diving accident and she lost the the use of all her limbs.

    After that, she spent many years in the hospital battling depression.

    But listen to how she describes what really got her through those years. She said, “My mother was always singing.

    Whether doing housework, unloading groceries, or driving in the car, the words of hymns were always on her lips.

    And during my long years of being in the hospital, she never spoke words of defeat or despair.

    She always borrowed words of hope from the stanzas of old hymns.” And she continues, “And so when I was in the hospital fighting back tears at night, I would sing these same hymns from my childhood. The stanzas were an anchor for my vacasillating emotions as I battled depression.

    Help of the helpless. Oh, abide in me.” Or, “Here’s my heart. Oh, take and seal it.

    Seal it for thy cords above.” These rock solid words kept me anchored whenever I felt my emo my emotions taking me down a dark path.

    “These rock solid words kept me anchored whenever I felt my emotions taking me down a dark path.”

    How did Joanie get those hymns in her heart?

    They were taught her by her mother.

    What a blessing that turned out to be.

    Fathers as Worship Leaders at Home

    And just want to make a quick aside, men. If you’re a man here, if you’re a father, you cannot leave it to the mother. I want to challenge you as fathers to be the worship leader of your own homes and take the lead on this, to teach your family some good songs. Amen.

    “Fathers, be the worship leader of your own homes and take the lead to teach your family some good songs.”

    I’ll borrow from the late Voddie Baucham. You either say amen or you say ouch.

    But I’m convinced that if the psalms and the hymns and the spiritual songs are in your heart, they will greatly strengthen not only your family but our church.

    Singing Affects Our Attitudes and Actions

    Well, we’ve seen so far we’re commanded to sing because one, singing is a sign of being filled by the spirit. Two, singing is a mandated means of mutual ministry. And lastly, singing affects our attitudes and actions.

    Look in verse 20 of Ephesians 5:20. After Paul commands to sing, he says this, “Always giving thanks for all things in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ, to God, even the Father, and be subject to one another in the fear of Christ.” Here the chain of events he’s laying out for us is this: you’re filled by the spirit. This leads to singing. This leads to thankfulness. This leads to righteous action. In this case, he’s going to talk about right living and submitting to one another and husbands and wives and all of that. But I want you to notice that it’s all connected. It all goes together.

    The parallel verse in Colossians is even more explicit than that. And it puts it in this way in verse 16 of chapter 3. Singing with thankfulness in your hearts to God. Whatever you do in word or deed, do all in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks through him to God the Father.

    Here, if you look at that verse, it says with thankfulness. That is how you ought to sing. You ought to sing with the attitude of thankfulness. And that’s the attitude that’s cultivated in you by the songs. And this thankful heart will then lead you to righteous action. In Colossians, it’s everything you say or do, you will do in the name of the Lord Jesus. That is, you will represent Jesus.

    “Sing with the attitude of thankfulness — and that thankful heart will lead you to righteous action.”

    You will do what he would do or say what he would say.

    And all this started in the beginning by having the word of Christ dwell richly within you. It all comes back to the word of Christ.

    Music as God’s Delivery System

    In this case though, that word of Christ is packaged into a song.

    You see, in the wisdom of God, music is God’s delivery system to get those truths to absorb into our hearts and to stay there.

    One preacher put it this way, and it resonated with me. He says this: it’s like you might be the best preacher in the world, but very seldom will people leave your church chanting your sermon, but they often leave your church singing your songs.

    “Music is God’s delivery system to get those truths to absorb into our hearts and stay there.”

    Singing Instead of Anxiety

    I want to bring you now to an idea that some of you might think is a bit radical, and you may forgive me if you do, but I do want you to chew on it a little bit. See if this makes sense to you. And that is that many of our modern problems—we have anxiety and depression more than ever—we’re trained by society to think that the answer to these problems lies in a pill.

    But we have to realize that these are not new problems in any sense. In fact, we are not the first generation to struggle with anxiety or depression, are we?

    Men and women of the Bible dealt with this all the time. And what did they do? Well, they seem to have done a lot of praying and singing.

    “Men and women of the Bible dealt with anxiety and depression — and they did a lot of praying and singing.”

    Praying and singing. Let me show you a few examples.

    Biblical Examples of Praying and Singing

    Just take Jesus the night he was betrayed. When he was afflicted with deep sorrow, it’s notable that he sang a hymn with the disciples and then he prayed in the garden.

    Paul and Silas in Acts 16:24 were arrested and tortured. And before they knew whether God would rescue them, what did we find them doing? They were singing hymns of praise to God and praying, singing hymns of praise to God. That’s verse 25 of Acts 16. And actually the words after that are also striking: the prisoners were listening to them.

    And you see, if you deal with your problems in God’s way with praying and singing, you can be a witness as well. In fact, when the world sees that you deal with your problems in the biblical way, they’ll want to know how you’re doing it. They want to know whether or not there is something to this Jesus thing.

    “If you deal with your problems in God’s way with praying and singing, you can be a witness as well.”

    Let me give you one other example.

    Jehoshaphat’s Battle Cry of Praise

    Earlier today in our very long scripture reading we read in 2 Chronicles 20. If you were paying attention you saw that King Jehoshaphat and the people of Judah at that time had a problem. And their problem was that they were anxious.

    They were fearful for good reason. They were surrounded on all sides by enemies, by nations, hopeless odds.

    And you see, God had not commanded them to suit up and pick up their weapons and go out and fight, but he actually commanded them to do the opposite. He said, “Don’t prepare for battle. Just go out there.

    Simply trust me to deal with your enemies.” Now, this is an insane act of faith. You understand? You’re surrounded by enemies. They’re all armed. They all have weapons. They’re all coming against you. They want to kill you.

    It’s not like hidden. They actually want to kill you. And God says, “Just go out there and stand there.” The people were fearful for good reason. I think I would be afraid.

    So, what did Jehoshaphat do? I want to remind you in verse 21, he appointed those who sang to the Lord and those who praised him in holy attire as they went out before the army and said, “Give thanks to the Lord for his loving kindness is everlasting.” And when they began singing and praising, the Lord sent ambushes against the son of Ammon, Moab, and Mount Seir, who had come against Judah. And so they were routed.

    Think about this. This was their battle cry. They went out there completely unprepared for battle. And God says, “This is your battle cry. Give thanks to the Lord. Give thanks to the Lord to remember that God will love them faithfully forever. Remember God could have destroyed their enemies at any time.” But the scripture says he waited for them to begin singing. He wanted them to sing that song. And that is the very same spirit of thanksgiving that Paul is telling us to have here.

    “God could have destroyed their enemies at any time, but Scripture says he waited for them to begin singing.”

    As a result of our singing and our thanksgiving, God will take care of your enemies.

    We are also at the front lines of a spiritual war. Don’t forget the enemies are aligned up against us also, are they not? The odds are hopeless.

    So when you’re up against it and when the chips are down, trust him. Turn to prayer and praise to supplication and singing.

    Well, so far we’ve seen three reasons that we are commanded to sing. First, singing psalms, hymns, and spiritual songs is a sign of being filled by the spirit with the word of Christ. Second, singing psalms, hymns, and spiritual songs is God’s mandated means for mutual ministry. And third, singing affects our attitudes and our actions to fill us with joy and thanksgiving and spur us on to live for Christ.

    To close our time today, I want to show you a few vignettes. I want to show you actually one of my favorite songs in the Bible and its legacy that it’s had.

    Jeremiah’s Song of Hope in Lamentations

    This is in Lamentations 3.

    When was the last time you read the book of Lamentations? Lamentations 3. Let’s see if I can get a page number.

    Let’s try to turn to it. If anybody has a page number, shout it out.

    Okay. 822.

    Lamentations 3. The book of Lamentations was written by the prophet Jeremiah.

    The context of the book is that he was overlooking the destruction of his home, Jerusalem, by the Babylonians. As he watched his friends, his family, his countrymen, including children, being tortured, enslaved, and slaughtered, while he was watching the young women of Jerusalem be raped. It tells us that explicitly in Lamentations 5. Jeremiah was struggling with grief and confusion.

    Why would God allow this?

    Jeremiah is sitting just outside the city watching all this happen and he is in a place of deep despair.

    You see this from the text in verse 8 of Lamentations 3. He’s expressing his frustration that God doesn’t seem to hear his prayer and even seems to be an enemy to him. He says, “When I cry out and call for help, he shuts out my prayer. He is to me like a bear lying in wait, like a lion in secret places.” This is graphic language to speak about God, isn’t it? I don’t know if I could speak about God that way without being a little afraid to be honest.

    Just skip down to verse 18. Verse 18, I think for me, is one of the most haunting lines in the entire Bible. He says this, “For I say my strength has perished and so has my hope from the Lord.” Jeremiah was in such despair that he says his hope, the prophet of God spoke to God, “My hope in the Lord has died.”

    Maybe you can relate to what Jeremiah feels.

    Now remember, I want you to know that this whole book of Lamentations is a song book. Did you know that Lamentations is a song meant to be sung?

    Chapter 3 itself is a song.

    So why would he include this in a song?

    Well, to get above his despair, I want you to look at what happens in verse. Sorry, I lost my place here.

    Okay, let’s see. Verse 24 or here we go.

    The Lord is good to those who wait for him, to the person who seeks him. It is good. Okay. Yeah. Let’s do verse 19. Remember my affliction and my wandering, the wormwood and bitterness. Surely my soul remembers and is bowed down before me within me. And then he says this, this I recall to mind. Okay, so that’s the turning point. I would think that if this was a song that maybe this is the moment where the music would change from maybe a minor key to a major key and the strings would swell and start to build. This I recall to mind. This I recall to mind. Therefore, I have hope.

    The Lord’s loving kindness indeed never ceases. For his compassions never fail. They are new every morning. Great is your faithfulness.

    Lamentations 3:22-23: “The Lord’s loving kindness indeed never ceases. His compassions never fail. Great is your faithfulness.”

    The Lord is my portion, says my soul. Therefore, I have hope in him.

    What happens to the hopelessness and the despair?

    Well, he recalled certain things to mind.

    As Israel sang this song in their worship, they would all be reminded that this is the way out of hopelessness.

    This is a biblical counseling session compressed into a song.

    And this is what songs can do for us.

    Great Is Thy Faithfulness

    They can remind us of the truth and it can drill deep into our hearts. In fact, this part of scripture is what inspired the modern English hymn known as what?

    “Great is thy faithfulness.” That song, by the way, was written by a New Jersey resident.

    Thomas Chisholm lived in Vinland, New Jersey in 1923, not that long ago. His problem is that he had a lifelong struggle with health issues and accompanying financial problems. Sounds familiar, right? Left him bedridden and in and out of the hospital and eventually forced him to step away from his ministry, which he was only in for one year.

    After that, he became a life insurance salesman to pay the bills. Not that long ago, but his real passion was writing poems and hymns. To counsel himself from all of these struggles that he was having, he wrote this hymn based on Lamentations 3.

    You see, the best hymns are just mini sermons pressed down, bottled up, and encapsulated for us into a compact song.

    “The best hymns are just mini sermons pressed down, bottled up, and encapsulated into a compact song.”

    This hymn went viral and became actually one of the top five most popular hymns today.

    Singing into the Arms of Jesus

    Incredible legacy. But I want to give you one last story about this hymn as we close.

    This story is one I once heard from Paul Tripp who says his mother had a legacy of singing hymns all throughout her life. She didn’t just know the hymns. He says she knew the number of every hymn in the hymnal.

    And when she was on her deathbed, her family was around her singing the hymns and they sang through the entire hymnal. He describes this moment when his mother was no longer responsive in any physical sense. She was basically unconscious. But as they were singing that song, “Great Is Thy Faithfulness,” he looked down at the seemingly comatose woman and she was mouthing the words. No song, no sound was coming out.

    And he says this: “Because of the legacy of hymns in her life, she sang her way into the arms of Jesus. She was able to sing the rest of ‘Great Is Thy Faithfulness’ to Jesus face to face.” Since hearing that story, I’ve often thought to myself, that’s how I want to go out.

    “Because of the legacy of hymns in her life, she sang her way into the arms of Jesus.”

    I want to go out with a song of praise on my lips.

    Conclusion

    So then brothers and sisters, how about you? Will you now develop a legacy of songs and hymns in your life?

    If so, here’s what you should do. You should get a hymnal. Doesn’t have to be that one. There are also great resources online.

    You should learn some psalms and hymns and spiritual songs. Pick good ones. Let some of those words burrow in your head.

    Do it with your family and friends. It’s more joyful together.

    And through those many songs, let the word of Christ dwell richly in your heart, filling you with thanksgiving and renewing you with the strength to fight.

    “Let the word of Christ dwell richly in your heart, filling you with thanksgiving and renewing you with the strength to fight.”

    And then on that day when it’s your turn to lie on your deathbed and you are just about to be ushered through that great veil that separates life and death, may you too have a joyful song on your lips and you can finish triumphantly as you greet your savior face to face.

    Amen. Let us pray. Father, we are so grateful for this word and we’re so grateful for even your gift of music. You have designed such an ingenious system.

    Lord, there’s so much of the world’s music coming through our ears all the time. Some of these things can be entertaining, but they can also be a corrupting influence on us. I pray, Lord, that you would help us to develop in our lives a legacy of good spiritual songs and hymns so that the word of Christ may dwell richly in us and that we would be motivated and inspired to thankfulness and obedience. We pray this in Christ’s name. Amen.

  • Group Participation in the Gospel Mission, Part 2

    Group Participation in the Gospel Mission, Part 2

    In this sermon, Pastor Joe Babij concludes his study of Colossians by investigating the apostle Paul’s final greetings in the letter. Pastor Babij explains how the final four groups of people Paul identifies in the letter serve as instructional examples for Christians, who together are to be going about the gospel mission. The final groups Pastor Babij discusses are:

    1. Two Letter Carriers (Information Squad) (vv. 7-9)
    2. Three Jewish Supporters (Encouragement Squad) (vv. 10-11)
    3. Three Gentile Coworkers (Warrior Squad) (vv. 12-14)
    4. Two Local Christians (Hospitality and Future Ministry Squad) (vv. 15-17)

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    Summary

    Colossians 4:12-18 reveals how every believer is called to faithfully participate in the Gospel Mission through their unique gifts and callings. We are reminded that the church functions as an interdependent body where Jews and Gentiles, people from all walks of life, work together for the advancement of the Gospel. Through the examples of Epaphras, Luke, and Demas, we see the importance of prayer warfare, faithful service, historical accuracy in Scripture, and the sobering warning against loving the world.

    Key Lessons:

    1. Agonizing prayer is essential to ministry — Epaphras models that much of the real work of ministry is accomplished through wrestling in prayer for spiritual maturity and discernment.
    2. God chose precise, faithful historians like Luke to record Scripture, giving us confidence that the Bible is accurate and trustworthy as the foundation for the church.
    3. Loving the present world leads to spiritual destruction — Demas’s desertion warns us that unfaithfulness can overtake even those who once served alongside great leaders.
    4. Every believer has a role in the Gospel Mission, whether through prayer, hospitality, encouragement, information, or direct ministry — no one is exempt from participation.

    Application: We are called to examine which “squad” we belong to in the Gospel Mission and to actively use our gifts, talents, and opportunities for the edification of the body of Christ. We must guard against worldliness, commit to agonizing prayer for one another, and faithfully fulfill whatever ministry God has entrusted to us without quitting.

    Discussion Questions:

    1. Epaphras agonized in prayer for the spiritual maturity of his fellow believers — how can we develop a more intentional and persistent prayer life for our church body?
    2. Demas deserted Paul because he loved the present world — what practical warning signs should we watch for in our own lives that might indicate we are drifting toward worldliness?
    3. The sermon listed many ministries within the church — which ministry or “squad” do you feel God is calling you to participate in more faithfully, and what steps can you take this week?

    Scripture Focus: Colossians 4:12-18 provides the primary text, highlighting Epaphras’s prayer warfare, Luke’s faithful companionship, and Demas’s desertion. Supporting passages include Colossians 1:9-10, 1:27-28 on spiritual maturity and completeness in Christ; 2 Timothy 4:10 on Demas’s love of the world; 1 John 2:15 on not loving the world; Isaiah 46 on God’s sovereignty over history; and James 5:16 on the power of prayer.

    Outline

    Introduction

    Okay, let’s take our Bibles this morning and turn to Colossians 4. I’ll be finishing up Colossians this morning as we go from verse 1 to the last verse in chapter 4. Colossians 4, we’ll be looking at verses 12 through 18.

    I’ve been looking at, in these last two messages, the group participation in the Gospel Mission. Paul, in these closing greetings, mentions 10 people who were, in their own right, faithful participants of the Gospel Mission.

    Group Participation in the Gospel Mission

    Now this means that the church, the body of Christ, each individual believer who is indwelt with the Holy Spirit of God, is called to carry out the unfinished work of Christ. The Lord ascended into heaven and gave a mission to His disciples, to His apostles, and His disciples. He really gave them a mission to be continuers of the work that He started.

    In the end greetings here in Colossians, it shows the interdependence of believers. Even though we are all insufficient in and of ourselves, as a body of Christ and by the Holy Spirit of God and the word of God, we can become holy, without blemish and blameless before Christ. When God brings that body together, it becomes a formidable force in this world, no matter how dark it gets, for the expansion of the Gospel.

    “When God brings that body together, it becomes a formidable force in this world for the expansion of the Gospel.”

    That human insufficiency, as I mentioned last week, is acknowledged alongside the all-sufficiency of Christ Jesus. All of us, every one of us, participates in the Gospel mission somehow or another, right? That’s what God designed the church to be.

    We are presented in this passage of scripture with living examples, real people. These living examples are imperfect models, but they are models that we can follow because we are all imperfect. The Lord is making us into the image of Jesus Christ. As we saw last week, we will continue to see that the character of these Christians is noteworthy, especially because they come from all walks of life. They are all different kinds of people: Jews, Gentiles, people who were in prison, people who are imprisoned, and people who have all kinds of spiritual gifts and talents God gave them. We can model ourselves after every one of them. In fact, maybe we see ourselves in one of these people mentioned in Paul’s greetings.

    Review of Previous Groups

    Again, the question we should ask ourselves is: could such things be said about me and about you that are said about these Gospel participants? So far, we looked at two letter carriers. I called them the information squad. The first letter carrier was Tychicus. He was a very strong individual, a leader, trustworthy, taking the information from Paul and bringing these letters to the churches of Ephesus and Colossae. The second letter carrier was Onesimus. He was a runaway slave, bringing a letter back to his master with instructions from Paul on what to do. We’ll see all that when we get to Philemon.

    After that, we saw three Jewish supporters. I called them the encouragement squad. Aristarchus was the first one. He was a willing sufferer. Than Justice, who was that comforter. Then there was Mark, John Mark, who was useful, then useless, and then very useful to Paul. He went from being immature to becoming mature. In the last part of Paul’s life, he wanted Mark right by his side. The Lord was working on all these people. The Spirit of God was sanctifying them as He is doing to us today. We see Jews and Gentiles working together in the Gospel mission, all kinds of people working together for the Gospel mission.

    “Could such things be said about me and about you that are said about these Gospel participants?”

    Today, we come to the third group, which I call the Gentile co-workers, the warrior squad. But let’s pray. Lord, this morning, as we look at these passages of scripture and glean from these individuals how You used them to strengthen the church, to encourage us, we know that some have failed in the beginning, but then You picked them up again. They grew in Christlikeness and became mature, useful participants of the Gospel. Lord, that can be us. I pray that every one of us would come to that place where we desire for the Spirit of God to use us in some way within the body to grow the church and advance the Gospel message.

    Lord, we can pass the baton to the next generation. They can do the same thing, Lord, until the day You come back. I pray we will be faithful in this task. Thank you, Lord, for the faithful people You have given us here in our ministry. I pray You continue to bless us with faithful people who will grow in their desire to know the word of God and become strong soldiers of Christ, unable to be moved by any kind of false teaching, able to stand in the midst and sometimes stand alone because they know what they believe from the word of God. I pray this for all of us and for the furtherance of the Church of Jesus Christ. I pray that in Christ’s name. Amen.

    The Gentile Co-Workers: The Warrior Squad

    Let’s look at this third group, the Gentile co-workers. I call them the warrior squad, and you’ll find out soon why I call them that. Notice that in these three Gentile co-workers, we have Epaphras, Luke, and Demas. I want to deal with each one of them.

    “In these three Gentile co-workers, we have Epaphras, Luke, and Demas.”

    Epaphras: The Hardworking Missionary Prayer Warrior

    Epaphras as a Discerning Pastor

    The first one is Epaphras. He is the hardworking missionary prayer warrior. The first thing about Epaphras is that he is a discerning pastor. It looked like Epaphras, the founder of the church in Laodicea and Hierapolis, was the lead elder and pastor of the church at Colossae. He reported to Paul about the troubling circumstances at the church, like the false ideas and the false teaching that were being dispersed among the believers in Colossae. Epaphras most likely sensed that an apostle needed to be confronted and brought this information about one false teacher and his teaching that was really upsetting the churches, especially the church at Colossae. Epaphras most likely felt unprepared to take this on himself, so he brought the information to Paul. To do that, he had to articulate to Paul what exactly was going on and what was being taught. That’s what he did. He brought to Paul the circumstances and the information that Paul needed so Paul could respond in the Epistle of Colossians and the Epistle of Ephesians in the right manner.

    That’s exactly what Paul does when he’s writing to the Colossians. He gives a threefold intention from the book of Colossians. First, he wanted to establish a rapport with the Colossian believers and express his pastoral concern for their spiritual health and well-being. Why did Paul want to do that? Because Paul never visited the Colossian church, and neither did he have any part in founding it. Epaphras was his main connection to this church. This included strengthening and confirming their adherence to the Gospel that they had already received. If you look at chapter 1, verse 4, you see these phrases:

    Since we heard of your faith in Christ and the love which you have for all the saints.

     
    Then in chapter 1, verse 8:

    And he also informed us of your love in the Spirit. 

    This is information coming to Paul, and he’s getting it right from the one who was part of the Colossian church and understood everything that was going on. He is interested in them and in the true Gospel among them.

    “To be able to bring information to Paul, Epaphras had to articulate exactly what was going on.”

    Counteracting False Teaching

    Another thing that Paul got information about is how to counteract the clever false teaching that had arisen in the church and confused the believers. The false teacher and those who follow him were claiming for themselves an unusual degree of knowledge, learning, and insight. In fact, the false teachers had a most complicated system. Most false teaching is complicated. Try to unravel much of it. It’s got a lot of ins and outs, a lot of doors to open, and a lot of things to figure out. It even leads into mysticism where you really never do figure it out. When you put complicated false teaching alongside the Gospel, the Gospel of Jesus Christ seems clear and much more simple.

    They were teaching, these false teachers, that between man and God there was this whole series of angelic beings who acted as intermediaries between God and men. If men and women wanted to have any kind of communion with God, they had to go from one of these to the next, the next to the next. At the top of the list was Jesus, who is the highest go-between between man and God. That was the false teaching in a nutshell. Paul had to be able to refute that, and that’s what he does in the Epistle to the Colossians.

    “When you put complicated false teaching alongside the Gospel, the Gospel seems clear and much more simple.”

    Warning Against Wrongheaded Approaches

    And then a third thing that he got information to be able to write about is to warn the believers in Colossae about the several wrongheaded approaches to the Christian life and ministry that were the result of false teaching. False teaching will always lead to false practice. True teaching from the word of God will always lead to correct thinking and behavior.

    That’s why when you read through Colossians, what do you read? You read things like this. In chapter 2, verse 8:

    See to it that no one takes you captive through philosophy and empty deception. 

    You read things like in chapter 2, verse 16:

    Therefore no one is to act as your judge in regard to food and drink and in respect to a festival, a new moon, or a Sabbath day.

    And then again in chapter 2, verse 18:

    Let no one keep defrauding you of your prize, delighting in self-abasement and the worship of angels, taking his stand on visions he has seen, inflated without cause by his fleshly mind.

    That’s the false teacher. He’s saying, “Don’t let these things capture you.” Why is that? Because they give an appearance of wisdom, but they have no value to overcome fleshly indulgence. Only true teaching can give you the ability to say no to your sin and no to the indulgence and the temptation that will come to your flesh, because you want to please the Lord. Plus, you have the Spirit of God living in you, and you have the word of God to tell you what are the things that please the Lord and what are the things that do not please the Lord.

    “False teaching will always lead to false practice. True teaching will always lead to correct thinking and behavior.”

    Epaphras as a Fighting Prayer Pastor

    You see, the first thing about Epaphras is that he was a discerning pastor, able to bring information to Paul so Paul could write Colossians. Secondly, Epaphras was a fighting prayer pastor. If you notice in chapter 4, verse 12, it says:

    Epaphras, who is one of your number, a bondslave of Jesus Christ, sends you greetings, always laboring earnestly for you in your prayers. 

    In other words, the word, to always labor earnestly, is the Greek word “agonism,” which means to agonize in your prayers, to fight in your prayers, to struggle in your prayers. Do you ever sense that when you are praying, that it is a battle? It is a struggle to do that because we are struggling for biblical truth. We are struggling to dispel doubts in Christ’s disciples. We are struggling in prayer for one another.

    Colossians 4:12: “Always laboring earnestly for you in your prayers.”

    What does he wrestle for in his prayers on behalf of the saints? The scripture tells us what he’s wrestling for. It says here that you may stand perfect, complete, and mature. In other words, he is wrestling for their spiritual maturity. That’s what he’s wrestling for. We should be wrestling for each other, that we would all grow and become spiritually strong.

    Another thing he’s wrestling for is so we would stand, so that no false teaching will come along and push you around or cause doubts in your mind. We need to know where to go in scripture to understand that is not the right way to look at things. This is because I see it right in scripture. I can read it myself. He also wrestles for their full discernment in the will of God. In verse 12, it says:

    That you may stand fully assured in all the will of God.

    That is what we want to be assured of in our lives: the will of God. What is God’s will for you? What is God’s will for me?

    Wrestling for Spiritual Maturity and God’s Will

    That when Paul mentions in Romans 12 that we are to give ourselves over to God as a living sacrifice, holy and acceptable, so that we would not be conformed to the world but be transformed in the renewing of our mind, we would know the good, acceptable, and perfect will of God. It’s found in the word of God. We prayed this morning: “God’s will be done on earth as it’s done in heaven.” Well, we’re actually putting into practice this morning the will of God. You’re here because it’s God’s will for you to be here. We’re looking at the word of God because it’s God’s will for us to be preaching the verses and the words in scripture so we can all grow and understand what God has done. That’s God’s will. If we lay aside the word of God or if we don’t preach the word of God, then we’re not doing the will of God. We’re out of the will of God. If we’re not taking what we’re hearing, understanding it, meditating upon it, and practicing it, then we’re not doing the will of God. We’re not being pleasing to the Lord.

    I thought, when I was reading this, maybe the Apostle Paul learned how to pray from Epaphras. Maybe that was his example. But maybe they taught each other, because if you go back to chapter 1 of Colossians, verse 9, Paul’s prayer is very similar to what Epaphras prays. It says:

    For this reason also, since the day we heard it, we have not ceased to pray for you and asked that you may be filled with the knowledge of His will in all spiritual wisdom and understanding.

    With all Bible-based facts and information about the knowledge of God’s will, you and I become enabled to take all the information and the facts that we learn from the word of God and actually be useful with them. We can joyfully construct in our life, from the knowledge of the word of God, a life that pleases God, a life that learns how to overcome sin, a life that learns how to minister and use our spiritual gifts. He enables you and me to reach the goal of being filled with all spiritual wisdom and understanding. That is the goal for Paul’s prayers and the goal for Epaphras’s prayers, because even as we read in chapter 1, verse 10:

    So that you may walk in a manner worthy of the Lord, to please him in all respects, bearing fruit in every good work and increasing in the knowledge of God.

    “We become enabled to take all the facts we learn from the word of God and construct a life that pleases God.”

    To have a true knowledge of God is to grow in a personal and intimate knowledge, where God is real to you and you are conscious of His presence every single day of your life. You wake up, and your mind immediately goes to the presence of the Lord in your life. He knows all that’s going on in your life. He knows what you’re doing in your life. To know a person means something beyond a casual acquaintance. Knowledge means an intimate, personal, and special knowledge of God the Father that comes from an understanding of scripture and being familiar with the scripture.

    The Price Tag of Discipleship

    As a Christian takes in the truth, both understanding and heart are expanded, and moral power is multiplied. That means we begin to bear fruit that truly accomplishes a greater knowledge of the word of God. The Christian grows by knowledge. Only a steady diet of spiritual food from the word of God will continue this growth.

    As soon as you lay the word of God aside, as soon as you back away from it, you stop growing because that’s your spiritual food. If you decided that you are not going to eat any food for a month, you would have problems, right? You would have problems. The same thing applies to the word of God. If you allow whatever reasons or circumstances to pull you away from the word of God, don’t let it happen. To be disciplined, to be in the word every day, to be reading it every day, to be faithful in listening to the word of God, and then meditating upon the word of God will always help you grow. It will make you strong. As you continue to grow, you will mature more and more into the likeness of Jesus Christ. That is the goal of the Spirit of God.

    “Only a steady diet of spiritual food from the word of God will continue this growth.”

    One commentator said this, which I agree with: “He said the price tag of making mature, focused disciples of Christ is the agonizing labor of prayer.” However, I don’t think we always put the emphasis on prayer that we should. We tend to take it or leave it. I’m talking about corporate prayer too, where we meet together to pray. Is this not a prayer request for all of us that we would grow in this way as we pray for one another?

    “The price tag of making mature, focused disciples of Christ is the agonizing labor of prayer.”

    Epaphras as a Deeply Pained Pastor

    This is the kind of man he was: to pray for his people because he was fighting against false teachers. He was fighting for the truth. He was fighting for their maturity in prayer before God. That means something. It means that he believed much of the work of ministry is accomplished in prayer. I think we ought to believe that. I believe that’s the example we can take from him this morning.

    In verse 12 of chapter 4, he was also a deeply pained pastor. It says, “For I testify,” and in verse 13,

    For him that he has a deep concern for you and for those who are in Laodicea and Hierapolis. 

    Deep concern. This word, deep concern, is used three times in the New Testament: this here and twice in Revelation. In Revelation, it is translated as pain. In Colossians, it is more like he had a burden in prayer. It was hard. It was exhaustive work, and it produced stress because of what he was praying for. His exhaustive work for the people was in his prayers.

    Didn’t James say the same thing? That the effectual prayer of a righteous man accomplishes much. How much doesn’t get done when we don’t pray? But things get done that we can never do in prayer. God takes care of things in prayer because we’re seeking His face. We’re agonizing before Him. We’re bringing our requests, our petitions, our intercessions before God. That’s what we’re doing. Believe me, when we do that, you can see how Epaphras was a true soldier of the Gospel Mission by just the way he lived, how he thought, and how he prayed.

    “He believed that much of the work of ministry is accomplished in prayer.”

    We need prayer warriors in the church. We need people who are going to bring things before the Lord every day. You need people to pray. I need people to pray for me. You need people to pray for you. We can take that example from this man here this morning.

    Luke: The Beloved Physician

    But that leads me to the next person in our passage, and that’s in verse number 14. That’s Luke. If you notice, it only says,

    Luke, the beloved physician, sends you his greetings. 

    I believe this is the only place that it tells us Luke was a physician. We know that Luke was right there with Paul through most of his ministry. He was there through the thick and thin, through the ups and downs, through the good and the bad, through the dangers and the attacks of Satan. At the same time, while experiencing God’s grace and mercy to protect and deliver his servants in difficult ministry, Luke was there. In other words, on normal days, he was there, also on miraculous days. Luke reminded Paul often and remained with him right to the end. He came alongside Paul to be an encouragement to him.

    “Luke was there through the thick and thin, through the ups and downs, through the good and the bad.”

    He was a physician. When you’re reading the book of Acts, you’ll find that he uses very medical terms. He calls things dysentery and mentions diseases because he’s writing the book of Acts. He was a faithful companion. In Philemon 1:24, it says,

    As do Mark and Aristarchus, Demas, Luke, my fellow worker. 

    We see that he accompanied Paul and was a traveling companion, mostly on his second and third missionary journeys.

    Luke as a Biblical Historian

    And we cannot miss that Luke, most of all, was a historian. He was a biblical historian. If you turn your Bibles to Luke 1, you’ll find that he had a threefold method in his gathering information. It says in Luke 1:1-2, the first thing he does is he gets sources. It says:

    In so much as many have undertaken to compile an account of the things accomplished among us. Just as they were handed down to us by those who from the beginning were eyewitnesses and servants of the word.

     
    What did he do as a historian? He gets eyewitnesses from the beginning and then he gets servants, not just anybody, but servants of the word of God, people who were in the work. He gathers their information.

    Notice in verse 3, there’s a method he uses in being a historian. It says:

    It seemed fitting for me as well, having investigated everything carefully from the beginning, to write it out for you in consecutive order. 

    In other words, he gave careful investigation to write out everything in consecutive order. Isn’t that the kind of historian you want? To make sure that he gets all the facts right, looks at them, analyzes them, and then writes them down.

    “He gave careful investigation to write out everything carefully in consecutive order.”

    The Accuracy and Purpose of Biblical History

    What we have the book of Acts today because of Luke. This encourages us to know that if this was the kind of historian he was, then the Bible that I read is accurate because that’s who God picked to write the book of Acts. Remember, the book of Acts is a history book. It’s a history of the church.

    All of this means that pure history has a purpose. It is a demonstration of God’s intervention in history. The meaning of history is in God’s work: God reaching down into the mass of fallen humanity, saving some hellbent men and women, and bringing them into the new fellowship called the church. He begins to work in them in such a way that they would bring glory to God and Jesus Christ.

    “Pure history is a demonstration of God’s intervention in history.”

    The Church Must Not Be Divorced from History

    That means that Luke, the physician, the faithful worker, the accurate historian, the author of the book of Acts, does not merely give us a history of the early church. He tells us that there is a plan to history. God is unfolding history. He is in control of it.

    But what about today? Today, the church is being recreated in many different ways by diverse groups. Those groups are deciding on their own what the Christian church is. They are deciding what the church ought to be with the mindset that divorces itself from the past and often from scripture itself. In other words, they are saying, “We don’t really care what happened 2,000 years ago.” If that is where they start, they will just add to the confusion and the bewilderment already present concerning the Christian church today. In fact, they will never find out what the church is or what Christianity is all about. It’s a very slippery slope to an atmosphere already of no hope.

    “If they divorce themselves from the past and from scripture, they will never find out what the church is.”

    Christianity is a historical faith. Therefore, it must not be divorced from history. Even though today history doesn’t seem to be a very big thing. Even our own country, our own history here in the United States gets pushed aside. In fact, the common dictionary definition of history is that it’s a chronological record of significant events, usually including an explanation of their causes. History is indeed a little more than the register of crimes, foibles, and misfortunes of mankind.

    When one develops a biblical perspective of history, they find themselves concluding that the Bible emphasizes history as events relating to the acts of God and to the acts of men, rather than history as documents and research or reconstruction. In other words, history is His story: the hand of God in the dealing of fallen men.

    The Biblical View of History from Isaiah 46

    We read Isaiah 46 this morning. The reason I had that read is that in that chapter we get information about the biblical view of history. For example, in that chapter, without going there, we find that history is really rooted in God’s eternal, sovereign decree. It says in Isaiah,

    Remember the former things, long past, for I am God and there’s no other. I am God and there is no one like me.

    Also, history is linear. It has a beginning and it has an end. Biblical history is not circular; it’s linear. What does it say in Isaiah 46:10?

    Declaring the end from the beginning and from ancient times things that have not been done.

    So history is a story with a well-defined plot. It begins with creation and it ends with the consummation of the ages.

    Isaiah 46:10: “Declaring the end from the beginning and from ancient times things that have not been done.”

    History Is Linear and Theological

    Who picks this up? Peter picks it up. For Peter says this:

    but the day of the Lord will come like a thief in which the heavens will pass away with the roar and the elements will be destroyed with intense heat and the earth and its works will be burned up.

    Then you read Revelation 21:

    Then I saw a new heaven and a new earth and the first heaven and the first earth passed away. And I heard the loud voice from heaven saying: ‘Behold, the Tabernacle of God is among men and I will dwell among them and they shall be His people and God himself will be among them.’” Then He said to me: “I am, it is done. I am the Alpha and the Omega, the beginning and the end.”

    See, the Bible teaches that biblical history is linear. It’s heading somewhere. That means time flows into eternity, never to return again. But history is also theological. It has a design. It has a purpose. Isaiah 46:

    I have planned it. Surely I will do it.

    Later on, in the last chapter of Isaiah, we find out that history is also doxological. It glorifies God. For it says in Isaiah 66:19:

    And they will declare my glory among the nations.

    “History is also theological — it has a design and a purpose. And it is doxological — it glorifies God.”

    The Book of Acts and the Holy Spirit

    If you want to know what our hope is, you must go back to the very beginning and rediscover how the church started and what she did. You must stand on the authority of the word of God to find out the origin of the church and the phenomena of Christianity. It’s like no other category of religion. It is completely different from every other standard that is out there. This means that the book of Acts, written by Luke, is the acts of Jesus Christ through the Holy Spirit. It may be more accurately called the acts of the Holy Spirit, who worked through people to advance the Gospel Mission.

    In the book of Acts, we have an accurate history of the establishment of the church, the extension of the church, and the expansion of the church. Luke is an essential team member in the group of faithful participants in the Gospel Mission. Do you realize that if we didn’t have the book of Acts, we wouldn’t know where to go? We wouldn’t know what to do. We wouldn’t know how it happened. Thank the Lord for someone like Luke, with this kind of personality, this kind of exactness, and this kind of desire to get it right. If he gets it right and puts it in print as God had him do, today, all these years later, we can know this is exactly what happened and be confident of it because of who He chose to do it well.

    “The book of Acts may be more accurately called the acts of the Holy Spirit, who worked through people to advance the Gospel.”

    Demas: From Useful to Useless

    That brings us back to Colossians 4. We look at a third person: Demas. I call Demas the useful to the useless. If you notice what it says here:

    And also Demas sends you greetings. 

    He was a fellow worker. It tells us also in Philemon 1:

    My fellow prisoner in Christ Jesus greets you, as do Mark and Aristarchus, Demas, Luke, my fellow worker. 

    During the composition of this letter, Demas appears to be in good standing with the Apostle Paul and with the church. He was a fellow coworker.

    But mark this on your calendar: love is risky and relationships can be complicated. There are no guarantees that people will not disappoint you. There are no guarantees.

    Demas is one of those people. He went from being faithful to being faithless. We said, “Well, how do that, Pastor Babij?” I want you to turn your Bible to 2 Timothy 4:10. We see here that the real love of Demas’s heart came to the surface. I believe Paul recorded with great discouragement his report about Demas in 2 Timothy 4:10. Look at what he says:

    For Demas, having loved this present world, has deserted me and gone to Thessalonica; Crescens have gone to Galatia, Titus to Dalmatia.”

    2 Timothy 4:10: “Demas, having loved this present world, has deserted me and gone to Thessalonica.”

    The Love of the World

    What’s happening here is, you’ve heard the saying: “What you love, you will do.” Now you may ask, “Well, what really happened to him?” The Bible tells us what happened to him: his love was not the Lord. His love was this present world, the present world that he lived in.

    In fact, if you go to other places in scripture, you might wonder, “Whatever happened to him? Did he just walk away and maybe come back?” We hear nothing else after this. All you have to do is go through a few scriptures. What does it say in James 4:4?

    Listen, you adulteresses, do you not know that friendship with the world is hostility with God? And whoever wishes to be a friend of the world makes himself an enemy of God?

    Then in 1 John 2:15:

    Do not love the world nor the things in the world. If anyone loves the world, the love of the Father is not in him.

    Now I ask you the question: If the love of the Father is not in somebody, then where are they spiritually? Are they a believer? It doesn’t sound like it. It sounds like they have forsaken what they know. The idea of the world includes man in rebellion, especially men hostile to God. It also includes a way of life, especially a way of life opposed to the purposes of God. The world system involves the values, pleasures, pastimes, and aspirations of the world. It didn’t just say that he went into the world and did his own thing. It said he loved it. His heart was there in it.

    1 John 2:15: “Do not love the world nor the things in the world. If anyone loves the world, the love of the Father is not in him.”

    People who love the world are in rebellion to God. They don’t know him. Actually, 1 John 3:1 goes even further. It says:

    See how great a love the Father has bestowed on us, that we would be called children of God. And such we are. For this reason, the world does not know us because it did not know Him.

    Then 1 John 2 says:

    For all that is in the world, the lust of the flesh, the lust of the eyes, and the pride of life, 

    All these view the world system in a self-sufficient independence of God and a willful opposition to God, coupled with a disregard of the judgments of God, the standard of God, and yes, the very existence of God. I can live my life the way I want, and I’ll love and pursue what I want.”

    People who love the world do not love the Father. If you don’t love the Father, you don’t love the Son. If you don’t love the Father and the Son, you don’t have the Spirit.

    The Danger of Walking Away

    So you conclude where Demas ended up. Demas did slip. He lost enthusiasm. He failed in the faith. He left the battlefield for the glitter of the world. That’s what he did. He started out strong but crashed and burned in the end. We don’t want to end up like that.

    But when people walk away and give really no reason or purpose for why they walk away and don’t come back, I don’t know. It’s a sad story. We all know people like that. It breaks my heart to see people walk away like that. Where have you been? Have you been learning anything? Has it been getting down into your heart? No. Some people just walk away, to their own soul’s destruction.

    “He started out strong but crashed and burned in the end. We don’t want to end up like that.”

    The Hospitality and Future Ministry Squad

    Well, let me finish up with the last couple of people. I’ll not spend a lot of time on this, but two local Christians. Colossians 4:15-17, I call this the hospitality and future ministry squad. The first one is in verse 15. It says:

    Greet the brethren who are in Laodicea and also Nympha and the church that is in her house. 

    If you have a King James, it doesn’t say her. It says his. That means something happened. It looks like in the New Testament manuscripts, the New Testament manuscript evidence was divided on whether this is a feminine or a masculine noun. The difference being that only an accent mark would change it, which was not included in the earliest manuscripts.

    So it’s easy to make the mistake. But that’s not the point. Whether it’s a her or him, the point is this person was hospitable in character to the point they were willing to use their home to have a church meet there. And believe me, a home had to be big enough to fit people, right? You have to realize if people are coming to your home, even today, when you have like 20 cars suddenly show up in front of your house, people say: “Hey, what’s going on here? What’s going on over there?” Well, you think that didn’t happen back then when there were all these people suddenly in your house, and you know they were hostile to the Gospel. There’s a certain level of danger too in having people come to your home.

    So here, this particular person, whether it was a he or she, was someone who had the means that God gave them, mostly wealthy enough to use their home for Gospel mission.

    “This person was hospitable in character to the point they were willing to use their home for the church.”

    Archippus: The Substitute Pastor

    Can see that this is the hospitality squad. The last person is Archippus. I call him the substitute, upcoming pastor. Most likely, Archippus took Epaphras’s place when Epaphras went to tell Paul what was going on. He kind of took over there in the church. He was probably Philemon’s son and pastored there and in the region. He probably even had something to do with Hierapolis and the other places mentioned.

    Where it says in verse 17:

    Say to Archippus: ‘Take heed to the ministry which you have received in the Lord, that you may fulfill it.’” 

    That sounds like a mild warning. It could be just a push, a prod. Come on, Archippus, get in there. Ministry is not easy. Go in there and do what God called you to do. Don’t quit. Fulfill the definite purpose God called you for.

    “Fulfill the definite purpose God called you for.”

    The thing is that we know he wasn’t sloppy. Why do we know that? Because of what it says in Philemon 1:2 about this individual, Archippus. It says:

    And Apphia, our sister, and to Archippus, our fellow soldier, and to the church in your house. 

    We know that he was no pushover. He was a strong individual. But even strong individuals need a little push sometimes when they see things are getting tough and it’s not as easy as they thought it would be.

    The Challenge of Ministry

    When young guys come to me and say, “Pastor, if this doesn’t work out, I’m going to go into the ministry,” I say, You better hope that other thing works out because you don’t want to go into the ministry unless God called you there, right? Because it is no easy place.

    Some people say, “Well, Pastor, how did you stay so long?” I tell them, “I quit every Monday, and Tuesday, I’m back at my office, back studying the word of God.” It’s really the word of God that I think about when I sit there and say, “I have the privilege to study the word of God. David and I have the privilege to study the word of God and make, in a sense, a living out of that. There’s no higher calling. Where am I going to go? Where do you go when you’re at that point? To me, it’s one of the highest callings that anybody could be called for. I take it very seriously. I always have. But it’s no easy place.

    I think any young man who desires at all to go into the ministry has to be really counseled that that’s where he ought to be. I was in seminary with guys who dropped out left and right because they shouldn’t have been there. I could have sat down with some of those guys in five minutes and said, “You need to go somewhere else. You’re not going to be able to handle this.” But thank the Lord, he does call young men. He does gift young men. Yet sometimes we need a push, and we need to be prodded to go and fulfill the ministry God gave you to do.

    “I have the privilege to study the word of God. There’s no higher calling.”

    All Believers Participate in the Gospel Mission

    This final observation in Colossians is that we have all kinds of people: Jew and Gentile, from all walks of life and all backgrounds, closely interacting with specific God-given gifts and talents, working hard for a common goal to faithfully participate in the Gospel Mission and to carry out the unfinished work of Christ. That’s all our jobs, no matter who you are. If you’re a believer, you’re part of that.

    That’s why even in our prayer time on Wednesday, we pray for our ministries. Pastor Dave put the ministries in there, like all the people involved in our church in ministry. We have the adult Sunday school, the teen Sunday school, the children’s Sunday school, the membership class, the greeter ministry, the kitchen ministry, the nursery ministry, the worship team, the audiovisual team, the security team, the decoration team, the finance team, the administration team, the book nook, the lending library, the nursing home, the Iron Man Ministry, the side-by-side women’s ministry, the Zoom ministry, the young adult ministry, the biblical counseling ministry, and mall evangelism. I probably missed something.

    All those things are designed for us to do what? To faithfully participate in any way we can in the Gospel ministry. I should include the Zoom prayer too in that. We’re all needed. In other words, we’re all needed to fulfill our ministries through Jesus Christ. There’s really no: “Well, I’m taking a break now, and I can’t do it right now.” Do something. Do something to be part of this commission that God has given to all of us.

    “We’re all needed to fulfill our ministries through Jesus Christ.”

    What Squad Will You Join?

    What squad are you going to be part of? Are you going to be part of the information squad, accurately dispelling information to people? Are you going to be part of the encouragement squad, coming alongside people to comfort them, to prod them, to lift them up? Are you going to become the person who goes from immaturity to maturity because you are growing in Christ Jesus? Are you going to be part of the warrior squad? God has grown you to be a warfare operator in the church. That means you pray agonizing prayers. You’re not going to be like Demas, who stepped aside and became a discouragement not only to Paul but to everybody who reads that passage. Say to yourself, “I don’t want to be that person.”

    Or maybe you are part of the hospitality, future ministry squad, willing to open up your home and be hospitable in any way you can for the encouragement of the church and the building up of the body of Christ.

    “What squad are you going to be part of?”

    The Overall Goal: Complete in Christ

    And what is the overall goal from Colossians for these things? Well, we already mentioned the word of God in Colossians 1:27-28:

    To whom God will to make known what is the riches of the glory of His mystery among the Gentiles, which is Christ in you, the hope of glory. We proclaim Him, admonishing every man and teaching every man with all wisdom so that we may present every man mature in Christ. 

    That is the goal.

    Colossians 1:28: “We proclaim him, admonishing every man and teaching every man, that we may present every man complete in Christ.”

    The last verse in Colossians is where Paul says:

    I, Paul, write this greeting with my own hand. Remember my imprisonment. Grace be with you. 

    To think that Paul got all that work done in prison and won many people to the Lord there is remarkable. No man could do that unless God calls him to do that, gifts him to do that, and gives him His spirit and the word of God to do that. When he does that, then he fulfills his ministry. Paul can go to the chopping block, have his head cut off, and be fine with it because to be absent from the body is to be present with the Lord, right? Only truth could do that. Only God’s word could do that.

    I pray this morning you are encouraged to be used by God in whatever opportunity, circumstance, gifts, or talents God has given you. Use them for the edification of the body, the building up of the church, and the advancement of this Gospel Mission that we’re all called to. Amen.

    Closing Prayer

    Let’s pray. Lord, thank You again. You have been so faithful to us. Even the very fact that we have the word of God, all the word of God in our hands right now, means we don’t have to wonder about anything. We may not understand everything, but Lord, it’s all here in scripture. All that You’ve done, all that You will do.

    Knowing that history is linear, it’s all heading somewhere. It all has a purpose. Just to think, in this day, we are part of that purpose. Our church ministry here in New Jersey, in Somerset, in East Millstone, is part of Your purpose. It’s amazing to know that, and it is exciting to know that is the case.

    So, Lord, continue to grow us, bless us, and protect us. Continue to make us like You so we can be useful and profitable for You in ministry. Whatever You’ve given us to do, help us do it faithfully. I pray this this morning in Christ’s name. Amen.

  • Group Participation in the Gospel Mission, Part 1

    Group Participation in the Gospel Mission, Part 1

    In this sermon, Pastor Joe Babij examines Colossians 4:7-11 and the first part of the apostle Paul’s final greetings in the letter. Pastor Babij explains how the final four groups of people Paul identifies in the letter serve as instructional examples for Christians, who together are to be going about the gospel mission. The first two groups Pastor Babij discusses are:

    1. Two Letter Carriers (Information Squad) (vv. 7-9)
    2. Three Jewish Supporters (Encouragement Squad) (vv. 10-11)

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    let’s take our Bibles this morning and let’s turn to Colossians I’ll be uh preaching this message and next week in Colossians and then I’ll be finished with Colossians and then I plan on going because Colossians is connected to phiman to do phiman just a few messages there and then my plan is to go to Revelation and do Revelation in a long time I’ve done that but there’s a lot of questions today about it and uh and we notice in our membership applications that people don’t know anything about eschatology and so uh and that’s understandable if you never heard it then how could you know right and so that’s my plan then Pastor Dave will continue to do the Gospel of John uh in and out and uh so both WR by John Revelation and and gospel so let’s let’s pray and we’ll look at Colossians Lord this morning as we get into your word and Lord as we look at what it says in the in the final greetings of uh of Paul to the church at Colossians uh at colosi I pray Lord that you would just uh allow us to see ourselves in some of these people and that we would real realiz that all of us all of us everyone who’s called in the name of Jesus Christ we are all to participate in the Gospel Mission that there’s no one who can sit on the Pew sit in the pews and just fold their arms there’s no one who is in the stands we’re all in in the game and so I pray Lord that you would always make it clear to us where in the part of that mission do we function the best and I pray Lord that you would make us those people that have the character and conduct that can be able to be used by the spirit of God and I pray this this morning asking you to help us and guide us give us Clarity in your word in Jesus name amen so we’re going to look at Colossians chapter 4 verse 7- 11 but let me just back up a little bit I’ve been saying that a Spirit-filled word filled Christian will begin to see that transformational power of the Gospel in each part of their experience as they Journey Through This World With its ups and downs its ins and outs and as they see that transformation they will realize the only reason why they have a transformation is because they have believed the Gospel of Jesus Christ the spirit of God now indwells them and he is gradually making them into Christ he’s gradually making them into the image of Christ and it starts the instant we are Justified and it’s not complete of course until we get the glory so this gospel transformation is revealed in in our conduct it’s revealed in in character it’s revealed in our putting off sin putting on righteousness it shows us that we’re putting off our dirty clothes we’re putting on the clothes of red redeem children and of course it’s revealed in our relationships in our everyday walk in marriages between wives and husbands and families between children and parents and fathers and children in our conduct and in our speech and we notice it in how what we are now devoted to how we use our time and opportunities and how we see and consider one another so this Lord’s Day we will see the transformation of the Gospel in the Christian’s Duty and performance and that is that the faithful group participation of the Saints to the Gospel Mission no one could do this work alone not no one can and that’s really what Paul brings out in these this last section of Colossians he he had to depend on a lot of people to make sure everything got done and but what kind of people there were certain kind of people that he used all right not perfect none of these people are perfect but he used them so we see that the gospel was never meant to stay in one place or to to be confined and it’s because the Gospel of Jesus Christ is a message that is to be sent out and to be sent out by people so that means the faithfulness of the Gospel the advancement of the Gospel is always maintained that the letter of the Colossians was read publicly in order to have an impact Beyond its immediate audience like it says in verse 16 of chapter 4 when this letter is read among you have it also read in the Church of the leans and for you for your part read my letter that is coming from lead deia so there’s an interaction between churches to advance the message and to advance the growth of those people who participate in the gospel even Paul the Apostle Paul’s chains and imprisonment which he’s writing this epistle from he’s in jail for the gospel he’s doing it all for the sake of the Gospel as he says in chapter 1 verse 24 now I rejoice in my sufferings for your sake so Paul is doing this for the sake of the advancement of the gospel and then he of course ends the epistle in verse 18 chapter 4 he says remember my imprisonment so remember that the Apostle Paul was apprehended in Jerusalem and brought to Rome while he was imprisoned in Rome he was allowed to live by himself with minimal soldiers guarding him in fact Paul was able to receive visitors while he was in Rome he was able to teach and preach the gospel while he was in Rome and in jail and he wrote four letters to the churches while in Rome Ephesians Philippians Colossians philimon so Rome is also of course where Paul’s Mission ended and he was beheaded as a martyr in Rome when God was done with him that was it right but he used Paul to the fullest right and we would think that someone in jail couldn’t do anything but not not the case matter of fact in that prison cell in that jail cell he was protected by guards all right he was given food he was giv visitors every it was like a it was almost like a a uh not not an apartment like we would see today but a place where he can do his work and he could Minister and use his gifts to advance the gospel and that’s what God has intended right remember when Paul went before some of the people and he was tried they said listen if he didn’t heal to Caesar and Caesar and Rome he’d be a free man but it was God’s will that he would go to Rome and the reason why is because Paul would do his most important work there and so in the closing greetings here in Colossians Paul mentions 10 people who were in their own right faithful participants to the Gospel Mission and this means that the church the body of Christ each individual believer who is who is indwell by the holy spirit of God is called to carry out the unfinished work of Jesus Christ the lord Jesus didn’t finish the work Paul didn’t finish the work in fact today this work is still not done people are still getting saved the gospel is still going out all over the world so Believers are continuers of Christ work now there’s a there’s a lot of material available on motivation to get started creative ways to spark initiative but what about the material about continuing and sticking with something until it’s done you know hanging tough when the excitement and fun has faded into discipline and guts that’s the kind of Believers we actually need not losing heart even though the project lost some of its appeal and people dropped off that you originally started with it was a a book that was written by Eugene Peterson who the name of the book was obedience in the in the same direction he he he commented in that book our attention span has been conditioned by 30 second soundbites that our sense of reality has been flattened to 30 page AB rements it’s not difficult in such a world to get a person interested in the message of the Gospel it is terribly difficult to sustain that interest millions of people in our culture make decisions for Christ but there is a dreadful attrition rate in our kind of culture anything even news about God can be sold uh and packaged in the right in a fresh way but when it loses its novelty it goes on the garbage heap just like everything else there is little enthusiasm for the patient acquisition of virtue little inclination to sign up for the long apprenticeship in what earlier generational uh Christians called holiness godliness takes a long time for the spirit of God to make us holy it is a long distance R it it run it’s not a short Sprint that’s the Christian Life right and it’s got its ups and downs so today let’s understand that we are continuers for Christ that all Christians should check their priorities and tighten Down the Hatch for the Long Haul and we do that together Not Alone Together and for sure we can have a lot of meaningful experiences serving the lord Jesus Christ together as we already have in the process of God moving us from uh in levels of spiritual growth and interacting with people sharing the gospel discipling people all those things are very meaningful and very helpful and Advance the church so in this end greeting it shows the interdependence of Believers insufficient in themselves but as a body as the body of Christ they become holy without blemish and blameless before Christ and a formidable steadfast Force for gospel expansion now if you just go back to chapter 1 for a minute look at verse 21-2 2 3 I want to show you something in that passage Colossians 1 vers 21 it says although you were formerly alienated and hostile in mind engaged in evil Deeds yet he has now reconciled you in his fleshly body through death in order to present you before him holy and blameless Beyond reproach then notice verse 23 if indeed you continue in the faith firmly established and steadfast and not moved away from the hope of the Gospel that you have heard which was proclaimed in all creation under heaven and of which I Paul was made a minister so human insufficiency is acknowledged alongside of the all sufficiency of Christ we all participate in the Gospel Mission are you doing that so we’re presented this morning with living examples and these living examples are models for all believers to follow all kinds of different people here and you will see that the the character of these Christians are noteworthy they are people from all walks of life but they should be people that we model ourselves after and the question that we can ask ourselves as we think of these groups of people could such things be said of me that are said about these gospel participants that’s what we want to ask ourselves well let’s let me just give you where I’m going and then we’ll get down to the details here this is what we’re going to see we’re going to see two letter carriers I call them the information Squad then we see two Jewish supporters I call them the encouragement Squad then we’re going to see three Gentile co-workers I call them the war Warrior Squad and then we’re going to see two local Christians and I call them the hosp hospitality future Ministry Squad now today we’re just going to be looking at the first two groups and that of course the first group and is going to be um that of the letter carrying squad or the information Squad and so I want you to notice in chapter 4 verse number s it says this these are this is the first letter carrier and this is uh to kikus now some people have have pronounced it tius but I went to the Greek and I says listen the only way I’m going to figure out how to pronounce this name is how the Greek actually pronounces it and uh and of course it’s kikus and this person was Paul’s partner on his third missionary journey and he was a native of Rome in the province of Asia and when Paul left Ephesus he was accompanied by seven other believers among them to kikus and it says back in uh Acts chapter 20 and he was accompanied by um saer aristarchus scus gaas Timothy teus and then one other man so these men what they were doing back then is they were helping Paul deliver the love offering from the Gentile churches to the poor Saints in Judea eventually teus shared Paul’s imprisonment and was a great help to him in many ways now if somebody’s going to bring information to you especially es during these days now information today we know we have overload information and the information how do you know the information you get when you read here and there on different media sites is actually true it’s very hard to actually find out is this true or not because people don’t even document what they even say today so when information is going to come to somebody you have to have someone who has a great character someone who is strong who’s a leader who’s going to carry out the mission and this is the mission that Paul gave to him that was to carry this letter to the church at Ephesus and the church at colassi all right and but notice what it says here about his character Colossians chapter 4 verse number s it says as to all my Affairs now that’s Paul’s Affairs to kikus our beloved brother and faithful servant and fellow bonder servant of the Lord will bring you in information so that’s what he that what that’s what his job is is to bring information but why would you pile up the character qualities well because the people who are receiving what he has the information that he has they have to know it’s not disinformation right that it’s not fake news but it’s accurate truth about Paul’s Ministry so the people know how to pray for him and meet his needs that’s why the information is so important but look what it says about him his character our beloved brother now why is he a beloved brother because he was connected to this new family because of his faith in Jesus Christ he was the kind of brother in Christ who was willing to stay with Paul even in his difficult situation it’s not easy to be associated with a jail bird because Paul had a lot of enemies and a lot of enemies who wanted to kill him if you link yourself to him you’re a Target too and so he didn’t really care about that he just went on and he did what he had to do so this kind of brother you want in your family this is the kind of brother you want in your I’m calling it our family Foxhole when the bullets start flying you want teus with you because he’s the kind of brother that’s not going to run when the times get tough how encouraging to have a Christian at your side when everything seems to be against you and he did not take the easy way but he did take the right way and the right way is usually the hard way and it’s usually the way many times that you may walk alone so he is a a beloved brother and then secondly it says he’s a faithful servant meaning that he was a worker he rendered Dependable help wherever it was needed and then it says also he was a fellow Bond servant or slave in the Lord a minister in other words who related in service together under the lordship of Jesus Christ and remember if you remember back when we were looking And discussing about bondslaves Bond slaves were they were willing to give up their rights they were willing to be defrauded they were willing to endure hardship they were willing to have no rank or titles they were willing even to lose their life and isn’t that what happens when we become real Christians we move from being slaves to sin to being slaves slaves to righteousness because we are now enslaved to God who is our good and loving master so if we consider ourselves willing Bond slaves of Jesus Christ no matter what we are to do or wherever we are go going to end up there is certain behavior and demeanor for our Earthly Mission and I we already learned that Colossians gave three things important things about Bond slaves number one B bom Bond slaves of Christ are to do their work with obedience in Colossians chter 3:22 slaves in all things obey and then Bond slaves in Christ are to do their work from a single and a sincere heart as it says in Chapter 3 of Colossians verse 23 whatever you do do your work heartily as for the Lord rather than for men and then a bondslave of Christ has an inheritance slaves really don’t have an inheritance neither are they in the place to receive an inheritance that is true however unless you are Christ slaves then it says in chapter 3: 24 knowing that from the Lord you will receive the reward of The Inheritance is the Lord Christ whom you serve so that means means that as you go out and serve as you go out and you become a bond slave it is the inheritance that Believers will receive a fair recompense for their faithful service that the slave of Christ has an unceasing line of thought that looks past this Earthly life with all its difficulties and looks beyond their immediate circumstances to the Lord and his reward as Paul told the Galatians therefore you are no longer a slave but a son and if a son then an heir through God so the promise of an inheritance for slaves transforms their status to those who are legitimate heirs in the household of God that’s a great motivation to keep going to know that this life is not the end and the Lord has something for us not only in this life but in the Life to Come an inheritance that we are to receive and then back in Colossians chapter 4 notice his mission his mission it says in verse 8 for I have sent him to kikus to you for this very purpose that you may [Music] know about our circumstances and that he may encourage your hearts so the message that was coming back from Paul was to encourage them to lift them up to comfort them and so they were functioning as mailmen to the letter bring the letter to the Ephesian church and the colossian church so teus was this strong faithful Dependable leader that made sure the mission was accomplished that’s the kind of person you want to dispel such important information like the Gospel of Jesus Christ and how the gospel was doing things all over the place not just in your local area it was doing things all over the known world at that time and that was very important information to know that the Colossians their little Community Church and the Ephesians little Community Church they weren’t alone in this there this was happening all over the place God was doing something he was building his church and he was using people like to Kus to do it and then a second letter carrier we notice in our text in verse number nine chapter 4 is onimus now onimus who is he he was a runaway slave it says in verse number nine and with him onimus our faithful and beloved brother who is one of your number they will inform you of about the whole situation here so this the past character of onimus was dubious he was unfaithful to his master and bolted to get his freedom and he ends up where does he end up he ends up in prison right by Paul what a place to be right if you’re going to end up in jail be end up in jail in a PL in a place with somebody like Paul the Apostle Paul so that’s where he ends up so he has a runaway slave who belonged to phiman and who had been one to Christ through Paul’s Ministry in Rome I guess that’s one place that um when I was on an aircraft carrier and I became a Christian in road to Spain one thing that you know is there’s not many places to go when you’re at Sea you know and so when you have a Bible study you really get locked in and you you spend a lot of your time studying the word of God and I thank the Lord for that it was kind of like being in prison uh there was nowhere to go and but I really got established in the basics of the faith there and that that always helped me just to continue to build on that and so here we see onimus who has a dubious past meets Paul and what does Paul say about him he only could say this about him if there was a change in his character and demeanor that Paul recognized after coming to Christ it says he’s a faithful he says here a faithful and beloved brother so that means that he was trustworthy he was another way to say that he was full of faith and that he was very much loved by the Apostle Paul and then he says this he’s one of your number meaning that at one time none of us were part of the number of the chrisan body right we were outside that number now we’re in the number and so Paul says he wasn’t one of your number but now he’s one of us he’s one of us and so he not necessarily delivers the same information that to Kus was delivering he was delivering his own letter to his former owner and so their mission together was to distribute information that encourages encourages its recipients and as it says in uh the passage that I just read and they will inform you about my whole situation here now what was that whole situation that whole situation was how he met F how he met onimus and how he discovered where onimus was and that he was a runaway slave and that now he was incarcerated with Paul and the whole thing had to be done and put together so Paul sent onimus back to his master with a letter to phiman and what was that letter what did that letter say phiman please receive him as I did please forgive him as I have please forgive him as God has all right now that could have been a very touchy situation but if you would like to turn to philimon which is first 1 2 Thessalonians 1 2 Timothy Titus phiman all right look there in philimon chap of course there’s only one chapter but it says in chapter one verse number 10 a philimon he says I appeal to you for my child onimus whom I have begotten in my imprisonment now that’s of course language that Paul is saying I’m the father spiritual father of onimus I Shar the gospel with him and I begot him as a spiritual child that’s what he is saying to him and he he said that happened in my imprisonment then in phimon verse 11 it says who formerly was useless to you but now is useful both to you and to me and then look at verse 16 of the same chapter it says no longer a slave but more than a slave a beloved brother especially to me but how much more to you both in the flesh and in the Lord that’s very interest interesting how he puts it like that and we’ll look at that when I get to fiman but today we see that this is the situation and fimon is delivering the letter to his own P saying listen this is what Paul says about me this is what happened to me and here’s all the evidence so of course that becomes a very important thing and in a very real re real way we all understand what it means to be a Slave at least a slave to sin right where you are in bondage to your sin nature that you people say free will know your Will’s in bondage to what your sinful nature dictates and so to be set free not only physically but spiritually is a important part of the Christian walk so those are the ones that we see this morning who were mail carriers and they were reliable loving Brothers in the Lord the second thing that we’ll notice this morning back in Colossians 4: 10 and 11 three Jewish supporters three Jewish supporters I call them the encouragement Squad not only could takus and fimian be part of that Squad but we have here first of all in verse number 10 aristarchus aristarchus was Paul’s traveling companion he was a also a fellow prisoner most likely he was a prisoner with Paul in Ephesus and also so in Rome and he was definitely someone who was willing to suffer that with Paul and it says in verse number uh 10 aristarchus my fellow prisoners sends you greetings so he was with Paul during the riot in Ephesus and if you remember in that particular Riot as is recorded in the book of Acts uh it says that the whole area was filling with confusion and they rushed with one Accord into the theater dragging along gais and aristarchus Paul’s traveling companions from Macedonia so he got dragged into this uh situation in which people were rioting and uh of course that was in Ephesians that that happened Ephesus that that happens in the Ephesian area and and so what happened here that this this particular man was willing uh to experience with Paul the most most difficult times of ministry when you preach the gospel and hostility breaks out and you don’t run for the hills you end up getting dragged in uh to jail and of course that all that worked out and Paul was even held back from getting involved with that because they knew they would just probably just kill him and he wasn’t ready to be killed and then back in Colossians chapter 4 verse number 10 we see another person well if you go down to verse number 11 I’m going to look at the next one first Justice and come back to mark because I want to spend some time with Mark and let you know who he is but in verse 11 of chapter 4 it says and also Jesus who is called Justice these are the only fellow workers for the kingdom of God who are from the circumcision and they have proved to be here it again is is again an encouragement to me so again the these individuals have this demeanor of encouraging people now not just by their words but by who they are by their conduct and so Justice uh is the Greek form of his Jewish name Jesus and his Latin name Justice also means a soothing medicine and so the the word that we have encouragement in the passage here actually means to bring Comfort or to bring a soothing environment so it’s a blessing to have Christians who have a proven comforting effect on people and not for the purpose of self gratification but for the purpose as it says here for the growth of the kingdom of God that means that that this person must know what they believe they must know what the mission is and they must be faithful to that mission and they also come into a group of people and they Comfort them they encourage them they prod them on to love and good works so you have this whole Squad of encouragement coming from aristarchus and Justice uh into the church at Colossians and Ephesians and then we go back to verse number 10 and we see this in verse number 10 aristarchus my fellow prisoner sends you his greetings also barnabas’ cousin Mark about whom you received instructions if he comes to you welcome him now all of us from time to time have experienced painful incidents incidences right that in some ways changed us and for some of us it even altered the direction of our lives but often for Christians it has been it has in the end at least say it like that a time of serious spiritual growth and maturity in christlikeness I don’t know about you but those events come into your life and you start taking things way more seriously than you ever have and you begin to realize this is no game uh this is something to be this is the most serious life that anyone could ever live on this Earth and not only that but I am actually responsible for other people not just as an elder or as a deacon but just as somebody who is parti has participated in the gospel you’re responsible for the person next to you you and the person in front of you and behind you how you live how your character and conduct comes forth so this painful incident that I’m going to mention from acts chap chapter 15 that we read this morning shows us that all of us need much more work to be done on us in order for us to grow in christlikeness in order for us to respond properly to things and within the particular Twisted twists and turns of life and at the same time while we’re dealing with that Desiring to live in a manner which is pleasing to the Lord both things going on at the same time well if you just take your Bibles for a minute turn back to the book of Acts and I want you to notice some things that happened concerning mark because Mark is an interesting character I put him in the squad of encouragement but I say this about Mark delayed encouragement because he had to learn a lot of things before he actually can encourage people back in Acts chapter 15 notice in verse number 34 it says but it seemed good to Silas to remain there and then acts 15:35 but Paul and Barnabas stayed in Antioch teaching and preaching with many others also the word of the Lord after some days Paul and Barnabas said let us return and visit the brethren in every city in which we proclaim the word of the Lord and see how they are so Paul just and Barnabas want to go back to the other churches that they’ve already ministered in and see how they’re how they’re doing all right now notice in verse number 37 of Acts 15 it says but and Barnabas wanted to take John called Mark along with them also and then in verse 38 but Paul insisted that he did not want to take John marcus’ but Paul kept insisting that they should not take him along who why because he deserted them in panila and had not gone back with them to the work now I don’t know about you but that is very discouraging when something like that happens and Paul because really past performance reveals character right it serves as a basis for judging stability for f future service so so Paul did not want to risk a reoccurrence of this failure to hang tough for the sake of the most important work on Earth of preaching the gospel and going back and strengthening the churches so he decided that at this time John Mark was not fit for the difficult task he proved to be a quitter now let me refresh your your memory concerning this past incident it took place on Paul’s and Barnabas first missionary journey and in Chapter 13 you don’t have to turn there it says now Paul and his companions put out the sea from papos and came to perga and in panila and John left them and returned to Jerusalem but going on from perga they arrived at pidia an anoch so Paul Barnabas and John Mark had good Ministry together on the island of Cyprus and the Holy Spirit was directing them North toward pran an Antioch which is really modern day turkey and about 150 miles by boat to the coast of Asia Minor and then once they got off a boat they were to travel through the most dangerous rugged mountains of that region where it was known that notorious ambushes and bandits and robbers were there constantly now scripture tells us that the young assistant John Mark deserted Paul and went back home to Jerusalem now it was clear well other considerations could uh have caused him to leave the great work but the word of God does not really tell us why he left some have speculated as to the reasons why he took off and went running running home Mark was young his mother’s house seemed to have been the center of the Jerusalem Church Paul and Barnabas took him with him on on their first missionary journey and Mark was a relative of Barnabas and in the middle of the journey he turned in hight tail at home now it was one uh commentator who ventured off into some speculation and and he he said well why why did he take off well he says perhaps he was afraid of the proposed Journey up into the pl toe of Antioch for it was one of the hardest most dangerous roads in the world and he knew it all right also perhaps because he came from Jerusalem he had his doubts about preaching to the Gentiles also perhaps at the this stage he was one of those who are better beginning things than finishing things or actually historically the church father christum said long ago he wanted the lad wanted to go home to Mommy but whatever the reason was he deserted he deserted and so what happened Paul and Barnabas had a sharp disagreement right back in Acts 15 verse number 39 right a sharp disagreement now remember these were not Paul and Barnabas were not cheap men with hot tempers and razor tongues that easily spewed insults and bitter words towards each other that’s not what took place here these are men who were controlled by the Holy Spirit and filled with wisdom wisdom and passion for the work of God to see the church expand and grow and be strengthened and yes both Paul and Barnabas were men of strong characters and convictions in fact Barnabas was known as to be the son of encouragement only this time their convictions were opposite and proved to be incompatible and the only solution was separation from each other that is what they agreed to do but it also gives us a bit of a lesson here it is possible for Christians to disagree with one another on certain things and to do it in a way that is Honorable and that keeps the relationship intact so it tells us in Acts 15:39 and they separated from one another Barnabas took Mark with him and sailed to Cyprus and Paul chose silus and left so God doubled the workforce through this separation Paul and Silas uh Silas took the place of Barnabas not John Mark Silas was faithful proven to be a leader in the church he was also a dispenser of divine revelation known to be a prophet and he knew how to handle the word of God Barnabas because he was the relative of John Mark and the man of uh encouragement son of I think he was he’s mentioned in scripture as to be the son of Thunder too they split company with each other Paul uh and over good at least um over this event and it’s possible again to agree and disagree without losing your testimony or your usefulness so past history could disqualify you for present opportunities but it doesn’t need to be like that it is possible to overcome the stigma of past sins by living a holy life in the power of the holy spirit of God so all of us are rescuable there’s no Christian needs to stay the way they are it is not easy to overcome the title of deserter someone who leaves his post for no good reason in fact if it wasn’t for the Holy Spirit of God’s work of sanctifying each and every one of us we could never be able to remove the stigma of our past present and future sins only God can do that and and keep you a testimony and keep you a significant participant in the Gospel Mission so whatever happened uh to Mark and Paul we really don’t know uh what happened to Mark during this separation he did go to Barnabas now now what we do know is that the holy spirit of God never stopped working on both of them all of them and he continues to sanctify and grow his children to Bear the image of Jesus Christ and even though flawed and weak and inconsistent vessels of baked dirt like we all are with remaining corruption God continues to advance this church so there is hope that each one of us are needed and useful for our master and Savior Jesus Christ tradition tells us that after this event Mark kind of vanishes off the scene at least we don’t hear anything about him for some 20 years it’s a long time some sources say that he found at the church a church in Alexandria and in Egypt um and there’s one thing that that is for sure that the holy spirit of God moved from him from being a child to a mature Christian from being someone who was useless to someone who was very useful so that’s why I say delayed encouragement because you know what that’s a lot like us I think Paul I think Mark is a lot like us we have those ups and downs and all arounds in the Christian Life right and sometimes we back off and we’re kind of like want to want to be invisible and we don’t want to be involved anymore you ever feel that way you want to kind of just be left alone all right there’s times that I’ve went through those times I know you do too but the spirit of God don’t leave you alone he says no no you need to get back into the race there brother you need to Sister you need to get back in there all right and use your gifts because you are part of this group of people that are going to encourage other people to advance the Gospel of Jesus Christ now if you look back to Colossians chapter 4 verse number 10 notice what it say here says here that Mark became a serious worker it says aristarchus my fellow prisoners sends you greetings and also barnabas’ cousin Mark about whom you received instruction if he comes to you welcome him now what was that instruction most likely that was instruction was we all everybody heard that Mark deserted me but that’s all changed that’s all changed and the reason why is because nobody can fight a war alone even Mark could not fight this war alone and it’s ridiculous to even think that way as a Christian to fight a battle which you intend to win you need many a a really a multifaceted loyal Workforce who know their mission objectives and have counted the cost and if we look back at Fan Mark became a synergistic worker where it says there in phiman Aus my fellow prisoner in Christ Jesus greet you at as do Mark and then it says my fellow workers so it uses the word fellow worker for Mark and that word in in the Greek is really a word that we get synergism from meaning a helper or someone who has learned to work together with other servants in order to get the greater work done which is the gospel so he learned to work together with other people now this could give us a sense on what his problem was he could have been a young man filled with pride thought he knew better and now the spirit of God leveled him off and now he is profitable and then if you’d like to take your Bibles uh turn to Second Timothy chapter 4 this is a very interesting verse about him Mark became a profitable worker in 2 Timothy 4:11 it says only Luke is with me pick up Mark and bring him with you for he is useful to me for service so he is not only he not only became useful to Paul in his work but to God and to the greater Church even today it’s because of John Mark who was used by the holy spirit of God to pen the gospel of Mark and you know the overall theme of The Gospel of Marcus Jesus Christ is servant so he learned his lesson about being a servant from the greatest servant of all the Lord Jesus Christ and that’s why he could pen such a verse as Mark 10:45 for even the son of man did not come to be served but to serve and to give his life a ransom for many so by the grace of God the man who once was a deserter a discourager of Believers became a writer of the gospel and an encourager of Believers and at the end Paul wanted him by his side see that could be any one of us any one of us could have been any of these people and I I hope you saw some of yourself in one of them but he ends his greeting want wanting us to to focus in on who these people were because we’re just like them we’re just like these people and so that means that all of us if you can see yourself in one any one of these characters good or bad because we are to be part of this this group participation to the Gospel Mission you are to do something for the Lord and really the goal is to be an encourager to be an encourager by your manner of life to be an encouragement because it is your desire to please the Lord and become like Christ and you want to allow people to see that and you surely do not want to be a discourager because it’s really easy to discourage people and you know what one way you do it just by being inconsistent you’re you’re not consistent with your coming and being regularly with Believers you’re not consistent in serving the church body in some way with the use of your spiritual gift you’re not participating uh and practicing a Godly holy life lifestyle you’re just not Dependable that’s got to change and I believe the spirit of God’s going to change that because you know what the greatest tool in Satan’s toolbox is discouragement in fact I ran across this story and the story went like this it it was it was titled the devil’s favorite tool and It Go went like this I read once that the devil was having a yard sale and all of his tools were marked with different prices they were a fish lot there was hatred and jealousy deceit lying Pride all at expensive prices but over to the side of the yard on display was a tool more obviously worn than the other tools it was also the most costly it was labeled discouragement when question the devil said it is more useful to me than any other tool when I can’t bring it down bring down my victims with any of the rest of these tools I use discouragement because so few people realize it belongs to me so let’s not discourage each other let’s encourage each other and we do that by our Christian growth our usefulness in the advancement of the gospel and the church and our ability to be able to be a comfort to people and P them on in a good way to keep serving the lord and don’t quit right were in it for the long haul amen those are the first two groups next week the next two let’s pray Lord thank you this morning for the examples that were before us knowing Lord that in in each one of these groups of people we can see ourselves we can see the flaws we can see Lord the time that we wanted to Desert we wanted to step aside or we thought of ourselves as unusable because of something that happened in our life but Lord we know by your spirit that you are making us like you and Lord we want to give ourselves to that sanctifying process we surely don’t want to resist the spirit of God in this manner but we want to be people as Colossians says to learn how to please se you in all things knowing that you are our master and Lord and we want to be servants that are Faithful Servants that are Dependable servants that are encouraging to others by our very conduct our manner of Life by our very speech and how we grow in Christ and I pray that you would do that in every single one of us so Lord the go Gospel Mission is not hindered or left to just just to a few to accomplish and I prayed this this morning in the precious name of Jesus Christ amen let’s Stand Together

  • The Imperatives for a Transformed Lifestyle, Part 2

    The Imperatives for a Transformed Lifestyle, Part 2

    In this sermon, Pastor Joe Babij examines Colossians 4:5-6 and explains more of how a truly Word-filled and Spirit-filled person is transformed to walk in greater Christlikeness.

    1. Gospel transformation changes what we are devoted to (v. 2-4)
    2. Gospel transformation changes the way we think and act (v. 5)
    3. Gospel transformation changes the way we speak (v. 6)

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    and uh I was under the weather so it may be in my voice Colossians chapter 4 we’ll be reading verse 1 through 8 1- 7 actually 1 through six that’s Colossians chter 4: 1-6 Masters Grant your slaves Justice and fairness knowing that you too have a master in heaven devote yourselves to prayer keeping Alert in it with an attitude of thankfulness or Thanksgiving praying at the same time for us as well that God will open up to us a door for the word so that we may speak forth the mystery of Christ for which I have also been imprisoned that I may make it clear in the way I ought to speak conduct yourselves with wisdom toward Outsiders making the most of the opportunity and let your speech always be with Grace as those seasoned with Saul so that you will know how you should respond to each person let’s pray Lord this morning as we again come to your word we want to um humble ourselves because Lord your word is available to us and um I pray Lord we would take full advantage of it and as we do Lord I pray the word of God would change and transform our mind and move our Wills to actually examine ourselves with it so we can practice what it says until we get good at being a Christian and Lord thank you for the Holy Spirit who enables us to do it who gives us the insight and illumines the word to us so we can understand it it’s no longer foreign to us and the word of God becomes and reading it becomes like breathing we have to have it or we die so Lord today teach us your word again and encourage our hearts with it and I pray in Christ’s name Amen in our membership class uh we asked uh people who attended to give a testimony uh and let us know uh about their their life before they became a Christian the actual conversion event and also a little bit after they’ve been saved what’s happened since and uh one of the words that I uh asked I asked them to give one word that described your life before Christ and one word that describes your life now after Christ and I shared with them that uh when I became a Christian one of the words that described my life before I became a Christian was Restless I was had everything I wanted I was on the top of the world and my heart was restless and then the one word that would describe me after becoming a Believer is the word peaceful I was no longer Restless I was peaceful and um because I met the prince of peace and I understood the gospel and the Holy Spirit of God made it clear to me and so since that time the Lord is going to do for you and me a transformation and that’s what we’ve been looking at in scripture here a Spirit-filled word filled Christian will begin to see transformational p power of the Gospel in each part of their experience as they journey through this complicated world and as a Believer grows in the knowledge of the word and in their knowledge of Christ and are led by the holy spirit of God transformation surely does take place and then you know you’re different I didn’t like I didn’t want to be around God’s people before now I do I didn’t want to read the word of God now I do and I want to know what it says and I wanted to put into practice I didn’t uh really know who Christ was but now I do I didn’t really know much about God and the things I didn’t know my about God were wrong and now I want to know about them and be correct who does that the flesh doesn’t do that the world doesn’t help you do that and Satan surely will not encourage you to do that it’s it’s the holy spirit of God who does that using the word of God to make visible in your life the very practical things that are going to take place and the first thing that takes place is is justification that you are pronounced just by God you’re in dwelt with the Holy Spirit and You Begin this gradual process of sanctification and that process goes on until the day you die and when you re receive the up into Glory then that process will be complete and how is this all revealed it’s revealed as I already mentioned in our conduct it’s revealed uh in our Behavior it’s revealed in our character and according to Colossians we’re putting off sin those sin stained garments we’re putting on the new clean clothes and it’s also revealed in our relationships as a result of being word filled and being controlled by the spirit of God and submitting now to Christ and doing doing what the will of the Lord is we see transformation in our everyday walk in our marriages between wives and husbands and families between children and parents and fathers and children and we see it in our conduct and in our speech and we notice it where that what we’re devoted to once we once we’re not devoted to it and of course the use of our time and opportunities and we begin to see it uh and other people begin to see it and then we know that something has happened to us that we truly are Christians and we are so glad we are I don’t know never met a real Christian who regretted becoming a Christian I never met him um so this this Lord’s day we’ll continue to see the transformation of the Gospel in the Christian change in lifestyle and what is is very interesting is that part of that change in lifestyle as I began to look at it last week is that of our speech the way we communicate the way we act and so as a Christian grows their language is transformed I heard one preacher say that a bunch of bikers got saved and um they started talking with each other and there was an older woman there and he says that the bun her bun started unraveling as they started communicating because they weren’t using language that they these ladies were used to and but they did started growing they started recognizing those things are not proper for Christians and one of the highest forms of speech a Christian could have is that of being uh devoted to prayer so the first thing that I mentioned the first major area of gospel transformation changes in a believer’s life is the gospel transformation changes what we are devoted to all right and what are we devoted to in verse two of chapter 4 it says this we are devote yourselves to prayer to keeping Alert in an attitude of Thanksgiving so we are devoted to having talks with God speech that is focused on the character of God and now the believer is transformed and has their dependence on God and they now they feel this and know this real need to communicate with the Living God about everything that’s going on in their life because life is hard and complicated there’s many twists and turns in it and it’s hard to find out what is right and that’s why you seek God’s face out so regular and continual prayer shows where someone’s priorities and concerns and passions are placed and so I want to implore you as Believers to make prayer always first it should always be regular and it should always be taking place and especially prayer together as a church body uh as we meet together uh on Wednesday to pray if you haven’t gotten on that Zoom prayer time it is time we have a coming up to a new year it’s time to um get on that prayer call and pray with each other right you don’t have to drive anywhere all you have to need is a computer a cell phone and sit behind a desk and you meet with one other person and you pray about we have a prayer list so we follow the prayers if you never done it before that’s what you ought to be doing and make it a practice a habit make it where if you miss it you’re guilty you feel guilty we want to be praying as a church so that’s what he says here in scripture and there’s two actions when we’re connected to devoted prayer the first one is we’re keeping alert we’re not falling asleep at the switch and also we are the second action is we have an attitude of Thanksgiving we’re coming to prayer with a very thankful heart we know what God has done for us we know we never would have deserved salvation but that’s the way we’re coming and that’s what pleases the Lord and then also the direction of our prayer is that we are asking God in verse number three praying for us praying for other people in this case Paul Timothy a papus to open a door wide for the word of God so that’s what we ought to be doing we if we don’t carry through and pray for God to kick open doors for speaking the gospel then uh if we don’t then it won’t happen it won’t happen and that is where we’re to pray and then we’re also to pray for clarity Clarity in speaking and proclaiming God’s word in verse number uh three and four it says for so that we may speak forth the mystery of Christ for which I have also been imprisoned that I may make it clear in the way I ought to speak and remember Paul was definitely writing this from prison it even ends he even ends Colossians in the last verse I I Paul write this greeting with my own hand remember my prisonment Grace be with you so Paul is in prison but he’s not praying to be released from prison he is praying that he would have an open door and Clarity of speech so he can witness to those around him and we found out last week or the week before that in the last verse of Acts that prayer was answered Paul was witnessing to people he had visitors every time he was he had open doors nobody was preventing him from giving the gospel not even the soldiers and I’m sure some of those soldiers got saved from hearing Paul speak and so prayer was answered because the church at Colossians were persistent to keep praying because they were that necessary thing that is important for prayer to take place that we actually do pray and so what is the content of the message that we do preach and that content from Colossians is we preach Christ in Colossians 1:27 it says there which is Christ in you the hope of glory that is he is the hope of glory Christianity is Christ he has he is at the center of it all and so your attitude and my attitude and relationship to this person Jesus Christ is of significance significant importance Christ can bring you to God because he is God as Corinthians tells us for we do not preach ourselves but Christ Jesus as as Lord and it’s all about Jesus his person and the facts concerning him in him are all the treasures in wisdom and knowledge in him the fullness of deity dwells and the Apostle Paul is saying things about Jesus that no one else is saying and this attack on Jesus that people are saying that he’s just a good teacher or just a good example or just a good man to follow he’s a a distinguished prophet and even often conclude that Jesus is not Divine and not God these attacks on Jesus Dei is nothing new this Doctrine has been fought for and defended in the past Aras of Alexandria in 3818 ad use Colossians 1 verse1 15 which says he is the image of the invisible God the firstborn of all creation but he used it not from scripture itself but from a hymn that was written on the supremacy of Christ to undermine the doctrine of Christ de deity however it was vigorously defended from scripture and uh to be sound Doctrine that Christ is God and at the Council of NAIA in 325 or 3 uh 25 ad they pronounced it to be sound Doctrine then again at the Council of Constantinople and 381 ad again pronounced to be sound Doctrine so people stood up for this Doctrine because it was so vigorously fought against and Satan has his tentacles in all religion ious systems so he will try very hard to convolute and pervert this doctrine of the deity of Christ but he can’t do it because Christ once known by those who are his realized that there is no one no one else we can go to for salvation for forgiveness of sins for being right with God for a place in heaven for the promises that he gives us that where he is we may be also and that is praying and interceding for the Saints in his position as seated at the right hand of God no one could do that there’s nowhere else to go but Jesus Christ so when it comes to devoted prayer we have access to the father through only one person and that is Jesus Christ there is a second major area of gospel transformational change in the believer’s life and it’s found found in verse number five and it’s this that gospel transformation changes the way we think and act and I want you to notice in verse number five we’ll pull three things out of this and just break it apart a bit it says conduct yourselves with wisdom toward Outsiders making the most of the opportunity and I’m going to be looking to Ephesians so you have to go back to uh pass Philippians Ephesians because Philippian Ephesians says very much the same thing and encouraging encouraging the Ephesian church that the holy spirit is cleaning us up he is making changes in our lives he’s bringing us into Conformity to the will of God and this Conformity happens inside of us and it comes out of us so conduct is at the center of sanctification and conduct shows us what is or is not going on in the inside that the holy spirit is inside of us to produce good fruit and how does he do that by changing our mind by Transforming Our mind also the spirit uses uh the convicting his convicting power to show us what is wrong and what is evil he also the Holy Spirit also convinces us of the knowledge of what is right and good and pleas pleasing not just generally but in the sight of God how can I live in the sight of God that pleases him once I’m a Believer so the Holy Spirit addresses your mind and informs your understanding with truth and that means the truth of God’s word brings about transformation and change from the text this morning there are changes in in three areas and notice the first one in the beginning of verse number five that a Christian is transformed from foolish conduct to wise conduct now notice what it says it says conduct yourself with wisdom now that means that wisdom came with conversion it didn’t happen before conversion people are not wise before they come to Christ not in the sense that scripture teaches so we once conducted our life according to the passions our passions and our desires well if you go back to Colossians 3 verse number five what were they it says therefore consider the members of your Earthly B body as dead to immorality impurity passion evil desire and G greed which amounts to idolatry for it is because of these things that the wrath of God will come upon the sons of Disobedience and in it and in them you all you also once walked when you were living in them and then it says in verse 8 and now also you also put away aside anger and wrath and Malice and slander and Abus of speech from your mouth so that’s the kind of Earthly desires we had which were not wisdom so we could not please God in that uh capacity but now uh so we were we were pagans and we walked around in Hopeless Confusion And as Ephesians 417 says in the futility of our mind and futility means to walk around in moral purposelessness or uh emptiness uh pointlessness the mind of a pagan is unable to reach its intended goal so its mental con condition results in a state of moral recklessness and disgrace a mind saturated with foolishness that’s all it was and the Mantra what is the mantra today follow your heart even on the Hallmark channels if you’re watching the Christmas ones every single one of them saysf follow your heart and I just go oh you know that’s such horrible advice you’re corrupt sinful deceitful Wicked ungodly heart follow that it’s going to lead you to disaster is where it’s going to lead you but that’s the montra that’s the good advice that they’re giving but as for you and me as Christians it says we are to conduct ourselves in wisdom and this word this uh actually the Hebrew word translated wisdom is not similar to the Sophia the Greek word which really refers to wisdom more like an intellectual wisdom and that’s what the false teachers were pursuing in their gnosticism they were pursuing Superior knowledge well Superior knowledge doesn’t bring you the lifestyle that you should have in fact all of Colossians is telling us especially this section that no false teaching or false belief can produce this conduct in someone’s life no nothing can produce this conduct no no amount of intellect can produce this conduct that he’s talking about here not not only being devoted to the right things but here the second thing is is how we act and think is being transformed by the holy spirit so this Hebrew word uh the Hebrew word is Hoka it speaks of wisdom as skillful living and this is the way Paul is actually using it he’s using it in a very uh practical way like the Old Testament Hebrew word the ability to nag navigate life in this world in a god-honoring way and this is the kind of wisdom that scripture imparts to God’s transformed people so that means that these false teachers and these uh this secular teaching cannot produce a transformational change in conduct it just cannot happen and why can’t it happen well Colossians answers that question in 2 uh chapter 2: 23 where it says these are uh these are matters which have to be sure the appearance of wisdom in self-made religion and self-abasement and severe treatment of the body but are of no value Val you against fleshly desires it just can’t change you who you are unless the spirit of God is doing it and so if we just consider the Book of Proverbs Proverbs is is an appeal to a child and usually a child around teenage years because they were trying to get young men and women ready for the to serve in in the king’s Kingdom and so they needed the king wants wise people and of course we know this is the uh Kingdom of the king of kings but here uh to choose wisdom over Folly would be the goal of a young person wisdom and Folly are portrayed in Proverbs as a woman who is trying to entice a young person to eat at their respective or her respective banquet where it says in proverb Proverbs 9 I do like to turn to Proverbs Chapter uh we’re going to look there at several passages chapter 6 ver 22 but in chapter nine in verse number one and two it says wisdom has built her house she has uned out her Seven Pillars she has prepared her food she has mixed her wine she has set her table another words the table is said and it becomes an enticing picture to a young person to eat there at not the table of God’s wisdom but but at the table of foolishness and that’s what happen so the young person must choose where will they dine his wise parents can counsel him but they cannot force him to dine at wisdom’s table although the person is Young his choices are very important and do choices show who a person is well if you look at Proverbs 20 and verse number 11 this is a very interesting passage of scripture because it is showing that reputation is based on decisions in Proverbs 2011 teaches even a child makes himself known by his acts by whether his conduct is pure and right so here’s a young person known by their acts known by their conduct and of course you can tell very quickly whether the conduct of a young person is pure and upright so is the young person going to dine at the table of foolishness which is always very enticing and is always pictured as something very desirable or are they going to dine at the table of wisdom in which they are making decisions uh that will show they have are growing in skillful conduct on how to live life so the call to obedience is really not to forget the comprehensive faithfulness of wisdom once you learn it and that’s in Proverbs chapter 6 in verse number two 22c specifically because right there it displays three regular movements of life where obedience to the teaching of wisdom becomes Paramount and it kind of shows an all encompassing nature of God’s wisdom that it’s it’s going to be with you whatever you’re doing in in Proverbs uh 6 verse 22 notice what it says the first thing has to do with roaming around it says when you walk about what it will guide you wisdom will guide you so when you roam around wisdom will lead you and when you make your way from place to place and Traverse through this strange world and find yourself in different situations wisdom will be there it will be your map and Compass to help you navigate through the most difficult obstacles and circumstances in order to avoid the path of danger and to take the path more safe see it will be there when you’re roaming and then notice secondly in verse 22 of Proverbs 6 when you sleep they will watch over you in other words when you go to sleep wisdom will be in your mind and when it’s in your mind it will protect you it will be it will be a faithful mate at your side it will be a friend and helper in other words wisdom will always be faithful to supply to your mind find what is needed to rest in truth and when you rest in truth you will truly rest so it’s you and me that will be unfaithful and give up wisdom to foolishness but wisdom will be constant it will be in your heart and mind as a referee of what is true and what is false what is God’s good way and what are the other ways that lead to trouble and destruction that’s what wisdom will do and this is what God imparts to Believers once they believe in the gospel and have the spirit of God and the word of God they will begin to live wisely they will recognize very quickly how foolishness looks and it doesn’t look pretty it doesn’t doesn’t look pretty at all and notice again one other thing in verse number 22 of Proverbs 6 it says and when you when you awake they will talk to you this is interesting that when you wake up wisdom advises you it’s already in your mind biblical wisdom is not like a dream in which you cannot recall it is a strong consistent voice that constantly reminds you of what is Holy and what is good good and what is right and what is uh well pleasing to the Lord so you see a different kind of conduct than your old lifestyle your mind is changed to know the difference between foolish living and wise living do you know that because we really are are never at a point where we don’t need to know more wisdom at the different stages of life we need more wisdom when your kids grow they’re small and you need wisdom there when they get to be you know in uh middle school and then in high school you really need wisdom right you need the wisdom that is going to show them what the difference is between foolish decisions and foolish uh wise decisions and not only that if you read ever read through Proverbs the first chapter says is talking about wisdom when the foolishness foolish friends call in the street come with us come let’s uh we’ll put our money together we’ll have a good time and it ends up being will be a disaster are they going to listen to them or are they going to listen to the voice of wisdom and sometimes wisdom is not as enticing as foolishness but it is it Bears the fruit of a safe and a good lifestyle and a lifestyle that pleases the Lord all right just to show you wisdom let’s go back to Colossians and uh a second thing in Colossians not only that uh the Christian is transformed from foolish conduct to wise conduct but notice in verse number five of chapter 4 of Colossians the Christian is transformed from a self-centered conduct to a considerate conduct notice what it says conduct yourself with all wisdom and then it says toward Outsiders so living carefully toward those outside the faith wait a minute am I responsible for people who don’t believe the way I live is that what a Christian responsibility is yes it is I’m responsible you’re responsible that wherever we find ourselves that as Ephesians 5:15 says therefore be careful how you walk not as unwise men but as wise so in other words look carefully to see if you are conducting yourself properly in Ephesians and here right here in our uh this passage of scripture that we are to conduct ourselves carefully uh in in Ephesians it says look carefully at how you walk and that word in in light really if a Christian is light and walking in the light they will see if they are conducting themselves wisely or foolishly the word there actually is acrobatic or acrobatically and it means careful it used to to have ACC accuracy with care so and from this word we get the word today acrobat which brings to mind someone who does difficult and hard moves with precision and accuracy like a trape act or a Highwire or a balancing beam all those need much practice or the moves could be fatal to that person so that means that Believers are to show their obedience by living carefully and walking wisely in their conduct and as they walk in through this world in front of the unsaved and your lifestyle will show the unsaved the difference not just your verbal speaking the gospel but your lifestyle will show the difference and and of course this is not a new theme in Colossians in Colossians 1:10 he says so that you will walk in a matter worthy of the Lord to please him in All respects and then in Colossians chapter 2: 6 therefore as you have received Christ Jesus the Lord walk in him and then in Colossians 3:7 it says in whom in them you also once walked when you were living in them so this is the way you walk now but once upon a time once upon a time you walked differently and he is saying to us as Believers as members of the Christian church and members of the general Society Christians are to walk as children of life as Paul said in in Ephesians for you were formerly Darkness but now you are light in the Lord so walk as children of light and of course walk is just a word to show as you Traverse Through This World As you move through this world that’s that’s another word you could we would use as lifestyle how you live your life how you present yourself in your actions and in your demeanor uh to others who see your life so the fruit of light consists of three Cardinal truths from Ephesians 5:9 and it says there in that passage for the fruit of Life consists of all goodness and righteousness and truth that these qualities fill the heart and the mind they are rays of Light which make us children of light and they shine forth our walk they shine forth our Deeds and a part of our Deeds is we’re not participating in the unfruitful works of darkness but instead we’re Discerning those unfruitful works and exposing the darkness for what it really is and that is evil staying awake so that spiritual laziness and indifference and sleepiness does not take place in our life so that’s what a Christian is you just the way you once were this is the way you are you should be now as a Believer and part of that is that you not only are uh conducting yourself uh towards Outsider with wisdom but you are actually a person who is conducting yourself with not foolishness but as a wise person since you come to Christ and then there’s another thing in Colossians chapter 4 and verse number five and it’s a third uh area a Christian is transformed from careless use of time to a careful use of time where it says conduct yourself with wisdom toward Outsiders making the most of the opportunity so wise Believers know that they are working against the clock that the time is irreversible and it marches uh it Marches On unwillingly to wait for anyone so what are we to do well in verse uh 16 of e Ephesians chapter 5 it tells us that we are to make the most use of time it’s the same here in Colossians the most use of opportunity because this old there’s an old word used for opportunity and it means toward the port it suggests the ship taking advantage of the wind and tide and to arrive safely in the port so wisdom is specifically manifested in reference to time that the wisdom of the believer’s Walk is uh becomes clear in their careful Endeavor to seize upon every uh fitting season for doing good and uh being giving a careful effort to let no opportunity pass unused it’s like the passage we read in uh Psalm this morning and Kal it was Psalm not Matthew uh this morning but thank you for at least announcing the passage so found and this is the prayer of Moses in the middle of Psalms and that prayer of Moses was so teach us to number our days uh that we may present to you a heart of wisdom right and remember when Moses was in the wilderness there was a lot of funerals all right a whole generation died in the wilderness and there was a lot of people that died and I’m sure there was several funerals a day uh maybe you know we don’t really know the number but the thing is that he’s writing this and he’s saying listen God may give you 70 years he may give you 80 years all right live those and offer to him a heart of wisdom a heart that reflected that what he said you believed and you practiced see that’s what that’s the way we want to live a wise believer is well aware of the preciousness of time and the shortness of this Earthly uh life as compared to Eternity so if we are going to be aware of that then Ephesian brings out another item is that we’re aware of the shortness of time and to redeem the time because the days are even evil and believe me if you don’t recognize that uh well you ought to that there’s wickedness in high places and that the evil one is active and fighting the battle of the mind he is fighting the battle of the wi mind today and he’s winning over every aspects he’s defeated uh in Generations gone by the breakup of the family he’s distorted the definition of marriage and what marriage me he’s distorted the difference between male and female he’s distorted and now children could you know uh Lop off body parts without even telling their parents and the state’s going to he’s he’s got his tentacles in everything and he’s doing that to destroy the fabric of a Nation but to destroy uh just truth itself that truth is being uh put aside and he’s making a real effort that the real evil that we ought to be concerned about is the evil of ignorance about God that there there will be a judgment on people that it does matter the way you talk and the way you act and the way you live and so Satan just wants to continue foolish Trends he wants to put people in there even in high levels of leadership to just be morons and have no common sense at all and then he’s also stirring up circumstances uh to which people succumb to and just deepens their ignorance and inflames their passions and desires to have substitutes for satisfying their so Soul instead of the true and living God that’s what he does and so the church needs to be the example that when people look at a real believer when they look at real Christians that’s not what they see they actually see normal see they see wisdom they see common sense they see devotions in areas that really do matter in life and not only that but even in our past life a lot of the things when it came to time what did we do all right we worked all week to party on Friday and Saturday that’s what a lot of friends of my friends did and um and yet when you come to Christ you realize you know partying and and uh just all that kind of stuff really doesn’t matter it’s really not important at all and it finally Fades out of your life and then you start doing the important things you know I really love that passage of scripture in First Peter when I was there in chapter 4 1 Peter chapter 4 and verse 2-5 where Peter is writing there uh in almost in a similar vein in 1 Peter 4:2 so as so as to live the rest of the time in the flesh no longer for the lust of men but for the will of God and then verse three for the time already passed is sufficient for you to have carried out the desires of the Gentiles having pursued a course of sensuality lust drunkenness carousing drinking parties and abominable idolatries in all this they are surprised that you do not run with them into the same excess of dissipation and they malign you they’re surpris hey you used to party with us we used to have a good time together what happened well what happened is that you went from becoming foolish to becoming Wise from not being a Christian to being a real Christian that’s what happened all right and that’s a good thing that happened so the Christian is is to let you are to let your life unfold before Outsiders that is those who are outside the Christian faith those who are non-Christian and why are you to do that because Christians are able to be Salt and Light and have the wisdom that comes from their lord from the word of God from above that makes advice and counsel you give them much different than they’ll get anywhere else in the world because the wisdom is in Christ Jesus let the word of Christ richly dwell with you new with all wisdom so false teachers only have apparent wisdom with no substance they cannot produce this kind of Lifestyle false belief cannot produce this kind of Lifestyle so there is uh a third major area of gospel transformational changes in a believer’s life and it’s found in verse 6 of Colossians chapter 4 and it says this and what is it the gospel transformation uh gospel transformation changes the way we speak the way we speak so it will be revealed in our language Let Your speech always be with Grace as though seasoned with salt so that you will know how you should respond to each person so Brethren this is where being word-filled and Spirit-filled brings us and it is it is a strong indicator that one is maturing in the word and growing in Christ likeness to be in control of your thoughts before they get out of your mouth that is the power of the spirit of God and James mentions that often and what kind of speech are we to have well we’re to have in verse number six let your speech always be gracious or with Grace gracious speech it’s kind of a a quality that as delight and pleasure and attractiveness and charm to what you say it means that our speech is controlled by love and the purpose of our words being benef to benefit people and help them not to hurt them or speak down to them so this this kind of speech is is not vindictive or abusive but truthful and loving gentle words is another way uh Proverbs puts it a gentle answer turns away wrath so this kind of great gracious words is words that really don’t raise its voice it it doesn’t use harsh words it doesn’t use manipulative words it doesn’t bring insult or mock or lie but it brings tones of uh gentleness and it listens with patience and it it speaks and listens respectfully to others and speaks kindly uh and even with appreciation with courtesy and and being considerate of people that’s what it does that’s what the spirit of God does with our language do we fail here do do we fail at this point we all fail at this point we all have our bad moments don’t we we all have our down days where we said things I shouldn’t have said that but you said it and where did it come from it didn’t come from anywhere else except your own heart that’s where it came from so don’t fool yourself that you know the devil devil made me do it all right it came from your heart and see that’s what we have to face that our speech needs to be gracious but another thing it says here in Colossians about our speech it needs to be seasoned speech it says let your speech always be with Grace as though seasoned with salt salt does several things salt preserves corruption it’s a preservative it keeps back decay and it and it provides to a a situation something that is is helpful and longlasting and also salt adds flavor doesn’t it it provides zest to taste so in another words Christians are to grow in speech which gives flavor to the discourse as well as speech which preserves from corruption that’s the kind of speech we we should have and why why are we to do that well verse number six gives us the reason Christians uh are to mature in gracious and seasoned speech look what it says in verse number six the last part of it so that you will know how you should respond to each person now this says something here to us and what it says is that we must speak with selfcontrol actually we must speak under the control of the Holy Spirit and when we do we will have well timed speech because well-timed speech also means you’re a good listener and that you gather the facts before you speak and then you speak to that particular person each person in the way that you believe they would respond to in a way that would be pleasing to them and pleasing to the Lord that’s how we’re to speak to one another our sister passage of scripture in Ephesians says something similar but it says it in uh in a way of not using this kind of language and word where Ephesians chapter 5 and verse number four it says and there must be no filthiness and silly talk or coarse jesting which is not fitting but the rather of rather giving of thanks and this this word uh a word used here for course jesting is is a word that we would use uh inuendo and and it’s it’s the word literally that carries the idea of turning a uh it is a person who can cleverly twist language in order to either have a double meaning or in order to slander or belittle someone else and they don’t even know it’s happening that people are that skilled sometimes with language to be able to slice someone to and dice them to Pieces by their words that is not to be someone who’s a Believer so it is saying that Christians in their social life are to actually avoid laughing and joking and thoughtlessness and recklessness that is apparent in the age in which they live that living as uh people who instead living as as people who have common or uncommon wisdom in in an age that is is perishing again if we draw the wisdom of Proverbs it says this is one who speaks rashly like the thrust of a a sword but the tongue tongue of the wise brings healing death and life are in the power of the tongue one person put a little diddy out there and and it went like this a gracious word may soothe the way a joyous word may light the day a timely word may lessen stress and a loving word may heal and bless and do you know that for your information and mine do you know how many words you speak a day well astronaut Michael Collins was speaking at a ban one time and he did his homework uh and he found out that the average man speaks 25,000 words a day and the average woman speaks 30,000 words a day that’s a lot of words now he said to his audience back then the problem that I have with that is that by time I get home from work I spoke my 25,000 and my wife just started her 30,000 so if I do my math correct men in one year will speak approximately 9,1 125,000 words and women will speak approximately 10 million 950,000 words that’s a lot of words now if we put that up against what the Bible says about judgment where in Matthew 12: 36 and 37 it says but I tell you that every careless word that people speak they shall give an account for it on the day of judgment and by your words you will be justified and by your words you will be condemned see that’s just to take for us to take more seriously that everything that comes out of our mouth you know you know after the sermon you may be speaking less that’s what I’m saying right because really our words do matter and and uh we you feel terrible as a Believer when you use words incorrectly because you’re having a bad day and you have to repent of that because that is sin see our words should be like proverb says in Proverbs 2511 like apples of gold in settings of silver and then it says a word spoken in right circumstances that’s how it looks can your can you say that your words look like uh apples of gold and settings of silver that’s Pleasant to look about look on as a a visual picture but it’s also Pleasant to hear that you’re able to speak a word at the right time in the right circumstances boy we have a long way to go on this one we really do but it is part of what God is doing to comprehensively transform you and I into images of Christ right that’s what he is doing so which transformational changes can you can be readily apparent in your lifestyle and observed by others today which are they do people know what you’re devoted to prayer and and evangelism if those two areas are given from the page do people see clear change in the way you think and conduct yourself is it foolish or is it wise is it are you more concerned about yourself or more concerned about others is there noticeable is there a noticeable difference in your speech is it gracious is it flavorful does it preserve and hold back corruption is it well timed uh these are the things that we all look for in our life to say how are we maturing how are we growing and I and I just pray that you see them and um if you don’t see any of it that’s that’s a real problem because it may be that you are not a Believer at all and that’s that’s probably the uh the most important thing is that if you don’t see that uh and you say I believe these things but I don’t see those things well then uh you may have to come believe in Jesus Christ you’ll need to come believe in Jesus Christ Christ as your lord and savior and repent of your sin of unbelief and Trust in Christ and then things will change as the spirit of God will fill you and the word of God will fill you and you will bear this kind of fruit that’s what the scripture says and no false system no religious system no false thinking can produce this in someone’s life but the Holy Spirit through the word of God that’s it you’re not going to find it anywhere else let’s pray Lord this morning we we thank you again for your word we thank you that we find in it the Practical everyday things that we go through and what to look for Lord we want to submit to you we want your will to be done we want these transformational things to take place in our own life we do want that Lord and Lord when we do fail and we will and we fall on our face and we say the wrong the wrong things in the wrong way at the at the wrong time lord make it make us aware of it quickly that we may repent and turn from it but Lord I pray the spirit of God would help us to think before we speak so when we do speak it and we do practice speaking the right way that it would be in a way that honors you and honors the pering people who are young in the Lord uh to come alongside them and show them some of the things that need to change in their lives so they can honor you in in these things and we can give you praise and and uh and just give you thanks for all the good things that you bestow upon us and so I just thank you this morning Lord sanctify us

  • The Imperatives for a Transformed Lifestyle, Part 1

    The Imperatives for a Transformed Lifestyle, Part 1

    In this sermon, Pastor Joe Babij examines Colossians 4:2-4 and the apostle Paul’s exhortation there as to how all Spirit-filled, Word-filled Christians must devote themselves to thanksgiving and prayer, praying especially for the faithful going forth of the saving gospel message of Christ.

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    all right this morning we’re looking at Colossians chapter 4 and I want to read verse 4-6 this morning Colossians chapter 4 verse 1-6 Masters Grant to your slaves Justice and fairness knowing that you have a master in heaven devote yourselves to prayer keeping Alert in it with an attitude of Thanksgiving praying at the same time for us as well that God will open up to us a door for the word so that we may speak forth the mystery of Christ for which I have also been imprisoned that I may make it clear in the way I ought to speak conduct yourselves with wisdom toward Outsiders making the most of the opportunity let your speech always be with Grace as though seasoned with salt so that you will know how you should respond to to each person let’s pray Lord this morning as we come to your word and we thank you Lord for the authority of the word of God we we’re not and we never desire to preach men’s words but your words because this is what we need for our soul this is what we need Lord to know how to live uh to know how to please you to know where we stand with you so we can have confidence and boldness in our life to live the way uh the way it pleases you and and Lord as we do that we know Lord we we maintain our joy and the peace of God that you’ve given us and then we can do the things we have to do even though those things may bring us through trials and persecutions and trouble um Lord we can we can do it in a way where we respond to our circumstances in a way that honors you and not allow our circumstances is to control us so thank you for the word of God teach us this morning and I pray in Christ’s name amen a Spirit-filled word-filled Christian will begin to see the transformational power of the Gospel in each part of their experience as they make this their Journey Through This World and as a Believer as a Believer grows in the knowledge of the word of God and Christ and is led by the Holy Spirit transformation takes place and that’s really a great evidence that you are a Believer now where’re where does that transformation become visible because we do want to see it these foundational truths uh lead to a more practical thing the spirit of God is doing in The Believer and when we become Christian the first thing that takes place is that we are Justified we are pronounced just by God indwelt with the Holy Spirit in which it begins this gradual process of sanctification change in me and you starts to happen when we are really Believers it starts the instant we are Justified but it is not completed until we are received up in into glory and in the presence of God so the holy spirit is cleaning us up he’s making changes in our lives bringing into our lives Conformity to the will of God and this Conformity happens from the inside out we are changed from the inside out also God wants to see your fruit he wants to see the fruit of the spirit and what the spirit is doing inside of of you and you ought to see want to see that too so the goal of the Christian Life is righteousness we are being Sanctified so that we will know what the right thing to do is so behavior is at the center of concern in sanctification Behavior shows what is or is not going on in the inside so the holy spirit is inside of us to produce good fruit now what are the major aspects the spirit uses to change us well there’s several areas he uses to change Us number one repentance he brings repentance a change of mind heart and will that we would see things God’s way that’s even the gospel and then even as we grow in our Christian Life he’s changing our mind we just don’t repent once we repent we repent all the time about what’s going on in our life and we repent of sin and he convicts us of that sin and conviction is about what is wrong and evil in our life and then he convicts us of righteousness that conviction of the knowledge of what is right and good and pleasing in God’s side so we are we are convicted about those things now how can you do what is right and pleasing to God if you have no idea what is right and pleasing to God well that’s where the scriptures come in that the Holy Spirit addresses your mind and informs your understanding with truth the spirit is not only the Holy Spirit he is the spirit of truth that’s what it says in the Gospel of John where when Jesus was before Pilate pilate said to him you say you are a King Jesus answered you say correctly that am a king for this I have been born and for this this I have come into the world to testify to the truth everyone who is of the truth hears my voice so the spirit Bears witness about Christ and not about himself about Christ and of course Romans tells us that we’re transformed by the renewing of your mind so God doesn’t bypass your mind he transforms your mind and then Corinthians tells us Brethren do not be children in your thinking yet in evil be infants but in your thinking be mature so the holy spirit is making this change in us through the truth the word of God in your mind and the word of of the word and the spirit go together they cannot be separated remember it is the spirit of God who’s given us the word of God so they can’t be separated the word word of God transforms us so we develop deep biblical convictions and then when we do that when that happens then our conscience will not allow us to live against those biblical convictions once we’re convinced by the word of God no one can change your mind because you see it in scripture and when that comes there will be a transformation of your your mind so that you will desire to do what is right and you will desire to live in a pleasing manner before the Lord Jesus Christ so the holy spirit is working on our conduct in order for us to to Bear the image of Jesus and bring us out of the baby nursery and baby bottles and diapers and of course move us into self-control and spiritual maturity resulting in a progressive transformation and an increasing christlikeness and then ultimately the gold the glory of God in our own life so there’s a definite result that you may see when the word of when the word of God in the Holy Spirit is working in your life God wants you to see that however the results of the filling of the word of God and the filling of the Holy Spirit may not be what you think or what you have heard because if you heard that the filling of the holy spirit is speaking in tongues or seeing visions or having dreams or having feelings of euphoria where someone loses their self-consciousness and self-control which manifests itself in swooning and chanting and clapping and barking and laughing laugh in and stamping the feet and stuff like these if you have heard these are the things that results from being filled with the spirit of God you would have missed the details of scripture because the scripture records that the results of being filled word filled and spirit filled reveal are revealed in your conduct what does it say in the word of God be like the holy one who called you be holy yourself also in your behavior see that’s where it shows up also you’ll have the mind of Christ you’ll be obedient to the word of God you will be prayerful you will be thankful for everything to God and you will separate yourself from the powers that are in the world so you don’t want to be pressed into the world’s mold old but you want to be separated and dedic a dedicated child of of the Lord Jesus Christ and then also you will be very concerned about souls where they’re going it’s also revealed in your character as Colossians has been teaching us this will be revealed in our appearance in not the way you physically dress but the way you spiritually dress how we dress as Kingdom kids are we putting off sin those sin stained garments are are we putting on new clothing see only the Christian has the capacity to consider themselves dead to sin and alive to God and with the ability and will to serve and please God loving God’s word and loving God’s sin will also include hating sin and Desiring to pursue righteousness therefore salvation is not a matter of improvement or Perfection of what has previous exist previously existed in your life it is a matter of comprehensive transformation it is a matter of progress in Christ likeness it’s also revealed in your relationships we saw that in verse number 18 onwards our relationships that we will see it there a result of being word filled and being C controlled by the holy spirit is submitting and that means that that’s the Supreme condition of the filling of the spirit of God is submission to Christ the knowing and the doing of the will of God this is where we see transformation we see it in our everyday walk in our marriages between wives and husbands in families between children and parents and fathers and children we see it in our conduct and our speech we notice it in what we are devoted to in how we use our time and our opportunities and how we see and consider other people it’s also revealed in our response to the world or our in response to circumstances that come into our life once we’re a Believer so this Lord’s Day this morning we will see the transformation of the Gospel in the Christian changes in lifestyle which has to do with Duty and performance and what is very interesting in uh to notice in our text this morning is how the Christian is to continue to grow to spiritual maturity and christlikeness which includes speech how we talk how we communicate as the Christian grows their language is transformed into forms of speech that will be god- centered word focused other focused and needs focused that these forms of speech will edify and build the people in the body of Christ it is how the word filled Spirit-filled believer talks and walks in this world unfortunately unless you are under the control of the Holy Spirit our words will most likely hurt and not heal the Epistle of James informs us of that little member in our body how evil it could be where he says in James 3 for every species of beasts and birds of reptiles and creatures of the sea is tamed and has been tamed by the human race but no one can tame the tongue it is a Restless evil and full of deadly poison with it we bless our Lord and father and with it we curse men men who have been created in the likeness of God from the same mouth comes blessing and cursing my brethren these things ought not to be of course there is someone who can tame the tongue it’s the Holy Spirit and the word of God right so there’s going to be a change in the forms of our speech the first form of transformed speech which I’ll kind of Park on this morning and possibly the highest use of the gift of speech well let’s take a glimpse at verse number two do and here is the first thing under the the major heading is the gospel transformation changes what we are devoted to and notice the first form of transformed speech found in Colossians chapter 4 in verse number two notice what it says devote yourselves to what prayer all right so that is the highest form of speech language because now we are actually talking to God and we know we’re talking to God because now we have entrance into the throne room of God through Jesus Christ so we know that in fact in the Greek it says there the prayers it includes the definite article that speech had has its focus on the character and the person of God it shows that a Believer who is being transformed has a dependence on and a need to communicate with the Living God who Delights to hear from us and he Delights to answer our prayers but this deafen article that is really not mentioned here but it’s assumed it stresses that it stresses something all believers are to be do devoted to this is not just for the pastors and the deacons it’s not just for those who are leading it’s for every single Christian devote yourself to the prayers in other words that means it always means from acts chap 2 verse 42 it also means that we are to pray together we are to be busily engaged the whole body of Believers to be busy busily engaged in prayer together so we Christians are to give a constant attention to prayer we cannot individualize what God is actually meant to be corporate that what people are devoted to that is what they will do now we have to ask ourselves the question this morning as a congregation we do pray here and there we do pray on zoom in different places but are we devoted to prayer all of us it’s this is in all team effort there’s nobody sitting on the bench in this one everybody’s on the field in the game that’s what devotion means if we’re going to win in this spiritual battle if we’re going to do things for God as a body then we must be praying that that is the stress of this passage here that we’re to De we’re devoted to it regular and constant prayer shows where one’s priorities are where one’s concerns are where one’s passions are placed it really implores us to remember prayer is always first and should always be regular always Christians don’t miss out on what this one thing that this is one of God’s greatest gifts he gives us in the use of our tongue is to pray to him and to pray together and really how do you learn how to prayer pray you pray with somebody who knows how to pray right when the disciples came to Jesus says teach us how to pray all right so Jesus did that and how did they how did they learn how to pray he didn’t necessarily have a lesson on this is no he prayed and they listened to him and then they began to pray like he did because Jesus always prayed in the will of God and so prayer together as a church body is the one great gift that God gives us and this is the First Transformation of this speech that he’s given us now I want you to notice in our passage there are two important actions connected with devoted prayer and if you notice it says in verse number two devote yourselves to prayer keeping Alert in it so the first action is to stay alert in it Christians if we are to pray in timely Effectiveness we cannot fall asleep at the switch we cannot fall asleep on our post now anybody who’s in the military if you fall asleep on your post you can get actually executed for that but it’s not a good thing to do because you are the Watchman for the enemy coming and this is how prayer is looked at in the church that we are the Watchmen The Watchmen who are awake and we are diligent in being awake just like Luke 18 chapter 1 reminds us that if we are without prayer if we don’t pray if we don’t stay alert then we’ll faint for it says this now he was telling them a parable to show that at all times they ought to pray and not lose heart so if you don’t pray you will faint and you’ll not be able to fight and not only that you’ll let the enemy into the camp now I did give this illustration uh in the past but I thought it was a good one because one of my professors Dr rasa who’s now with the Lord he wrote a large several volumes said on prayer and he was really big about prayer but he had one illustration about staying alert in his uh his work and he says that early American Cowboy Cowboys who took drastic measures to keep alert and hold fast to their work while guarding cattle at night is was exemplified by this idea that they would rub tobacco juice in their eyes to make them smarter or keep them awake to keep their eyes open and help the writers stay at their post and not grow weary I don’t men you do that uh but it would it just illustrates how important it is for us to stay awake in this area I I sometimes I see that the church is falling asleep here and I don’t I don’t want to be a church that falls asleep in this area because this my my friends this is Frontline warfare prayer is Frontline Ministry we are and why are we to stay alert because we are traveling through enemy territory right we’re aliens in a foreign land we’re not home yet so while we’re walking through this enemy enemy territory we will find that we need to be praying as the sister book of Colossians tells us in Ephesians 6:18 with all prayer and petition pray at all times in the spirit and with this in view be on alert again with all perseverance and petitions for all the saints so we’re on alert praying for one another that we would all stay strong that we wouldn’t walk away from the fa faith that we wouldn’t fall fall and not be able to get up prayer is often found in the context of spiritual warfare because it is Frontline Ministry and you’re needed on the front lines nobody’s in the rear we’re all on the front lines if we don’t get this this is not good we we need to get it and I I believe in the in Colossians he’s Paul kind of saving this for last as he does in Ephesians you know all these chapters in chapter six of spiritual warfare where did that come from Paul’s saying no you need to be serious that when you’re a Christian it is Warfare until the day you die this is not a smooth sailing this is not a Bed of Roses this is warfare that’s why we need to pray we need to be talking to the Lord about what’s going on in our life what we needs to be done and what his will needs to be done while we’re walking through this world as aliens and if you don’t pray you’ll be weak and faint oh yes you’ll get weary in the midst of spiritual battle but you don’t have to be weak and faint being weary is different you’re tired how many how many people have not been tired right life is tiring things that you have to deal with are tiring but it doesn’t mean you faint it doesn’t mean you give up it doesn’t mean that you’re weak and you can’t do anything no it means you’re strong in the Lord and being strong in the Lord Christians can show that they are in touch with Jesus the commander of the troops that Christians are to put on the whole armor of God while maintaining Constant Contact in prayer to God that’s who we are so Christ is is made real to us in prayer and we are not to give up and become discouraged when answers to our prayers are delayed remember that God knows how and when answer prayer our responsibility is to keep on praying and to trust God completely for the answer that will be of course according to his will and in his own time so stay alert so that you’ll be around for the answer too when you do pray so the the first action in devoted prayer is keeping alert now look at the second action in verse number two of Colossians chapter 4 it says there it says keep alert in it with an attitude of Thanksgiving now you know this is like the fourth time he mentions Thanksgiving in just a few verses and I’m thinking to myself when I’m studying this is it that we don’t get it is it that we don’t get this I mean the first time in Colossians 3:15 he says let the word of Christ richly dwell within you with all wisdom teach teaching and admonishing one another with Psalms and hymns and spiritual songs singing with thanks thankfulness in your heart to God and then in verse three a third time he says giving thanks through him to God the father and now again in the context of prayer he tells us have an attitude of thankfulness When you pray now we do know that believers who are full of gratitude to God for his gracious calling it will they will find it easier to extend to fellow Believers the grace of of the love and the Forgiveness uh of God and be able to put aside Petty issues that might inhibit the expression of Peace within the community we know that and we know that the lord loves to see those who serve in his church to maintain a cheerful and a thankful heart because both are the will of God and I already mentioned it seems like a very easy command and this is a command it’s another imperative to follow be thankful you would think well that’s that’s easy now why is thankfulness so unnatural to us though you may say well answering that question well we live on a planet that is has been corrupted by sin and where there’s too much suffering and evil so it’s hard to be thankful all the time Others May say well we we really don’t know God we we really don’t have a relationship with him we don’t trust him we don’t really like the way he does things so it feels normal to withhold thankfulness especially especially when we do not find much in our life to be thankful for I think that when that happens that we’re not looking very closely to what God is doing in our life but Romans already answered the question on why is it unnatural because in Romans says for they knew God and they did not honor him as God or give thanks why is that because human beings think that they’re wiser than God they listen to Satan’s Temptations to doubt God and to turn away from him of course this is really speaking of a man that is unsaved and unconverted but I do think that it spills over into the Christian’s life too but when someone hears the Gospel of Jesus Christ and turns from their sin and repents and believes in Jesus Christ as their lord Lord and Savior the spirit of God indwells them and begins to transform them and then they find out very quickly the Bible admonishes Believers to often pray coupled with Thanksgiving it’s all over the scripture I mean listen to Thessalonians chapter 5 verse 16 it says Rejoice always pray without ceasing ceasing in everything give thanks for this is the will of God for you so if you want to do the will of God if you are asking the question what’s God’s will it is God’s will for you to be thankful and be devoted to prayer that’s what’s God’s will is now I can get that practicing it is something else Philippians tells us be anxious for nothing but in everything by prayer and supplication with Thanksgiving and let your request be made known to God and then in Colossians chap 2: 6 and 7 we’re to overflow with thankfulness you know that means there’s a cup filled and it just keeps coming out right it keeps coming out that’s how we ought to look before God our thankfulness can’t be stopped you can’t put a lid on it it just keeps coming out and I believe the only way to have that happens is when Doctrine really takes root in your mind and heart and you realize very clearly what God has done for you and that you had nothing to do with it you couldn’t add to it you couldn’t take away from it but he did it and so you feel so humbled and so thankful that he saved you and he put you on a path that’s leading into the kingdom of God there’s not many things that could really divert your kind of you know get rid of your thank thankfulness it’s it just like overflows in every circumstance and relationship of life we have we we’re faced with the choice all the time how are we going to respond to it are we going to move move toward God in thankfulness or are we going to move away from God with ingratitude that that’s the two choices you have and believe me it’s not pretty to see a Believer that’s not thankful it’s not pretty because they’re not getting something or they’re so focused on their circumstance or on the people in that circumstance that they allow them to rob it right from them right and so they’re down in the dumps now because of it and being thankful doesn’t mean that you don’t hurt inside it it doesn’t mean that there’s not trouble in your life and everything’s going fine well in Danny that’s not what it means it means I’m thankful because of Jesus Christ and what he’s done and no one could change that because God doesn’t lie to us he tells us the truth you know I came across this little booklet done by Puritan reformed uh read it and um they had like six things in in that little book that it says as soon as you’re thankful this is going to take place and I thought I’d share those with you this morning uh because it is helpful to kind of like lift up or bolster what it says in our passage that as soon as you are thankful the first thing is you enter into the presence of God you are thankful you remember that you are living your life In God’s Presence he is listening to you and he’s involved in your life secondly as soon as you are thankful you start to see your life differently Through The Eyes Of God you no longer are problem centered but you are god- centered just like it says in Romans 8:28 all things work together for the good to those who love God are call according to his purpose right and then a third thing is as soon as you are thankful you defeat Satan’s efforts to control your interpretation of reality that was an interesting one and what is that Satan always always wants us to doubt God and turn away from him he’s done that in the garden he’s had a lot of training in that and he wants to do it you in your life that’s what he wants to do see be being thankful really AIDS us to trust the Lord in what he says about life just like again in Romans he who did not spare his own son but delivered him over for us all how will he not also with him freely give us all things see in other words God wants good for you he’s a good God and he wants good for you a fourth thing is as soon as you are thankful you begin to link your life to God’s promises you learn how to see your circumstances through the lenses of God’s word not the lens of your experience which Always dilutes devalues and diminishes God and that’s what happening to too M too much feeling centered stuff going on in our our life today people are hurt too quickly they run away from God because they they’re hurt it it they didn’t it didn’t go their way a fifth thing is as soon as you are thankful you start to see not only your situation but yourself your own heart through God’s eyes so so when you have a thankful heart you affirm that because of Jesus God is up to something really good in your life and you begin to notice that you canit that you’re weak and vulnerable and you still feel safe in God’s plan for you you can confess your sin and be confident that God forgives your sin why can you do that because the Bible actually says if you confess your sins he’s faithful and righteous to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from what all our unrighteousness so when we’re confessing the sin that we remember God’s cleaning you up from the things you stopped remembering and then the last thing as soon as you are thankful your Human Relationships get healthier because you are not sh you are shaped by faith you become more dependent on God and less controlled by your relationships with people see the thankfulness will prevent you from being judgmental or demanding of others or fearful of them or easily hurt I don’t have to be easily easily hurt when I’m thankful to God CU I know I don’t deserve what I already have and you know that too and that just keeps me humble thank you Lord for what you’ve given me thank you Lord for not only saving me but all the little things you do in my life every day for my family for my my friends for the the possessions you give me for living in this country all these things I mean the list goes on and on and on get up every day and make a long list of what to be thankful for and you won’t Grumble once in that day see the scripture informs us that if we are going to be devoted to speak to God In Prayer we must do it coupled with the attitude of Thanksgiving and believe me if you don’t have an attitude of Thanksgiving on your prayer who’s going to be the first one who knows about it it’s going to be God right in gratitude in our life is incompatible with genuine gratitude ingratitude should not be the normal default conduct of the genuine believer who is growing in his knowledge and understanding of God’s word giving thanks should be as Paul again in the sister book of Ephesians 5:20 always giving thanks for all things in the name of the Lord Jesus Christ to God even the father so you see rather than being discontented with what we have instead we take pleasure in our God in our home in our family in our church in our possessions in our occupation in our circumstances whether good or bad favorable or unfavorable we’re thankful and if you’re thankful it will rub off on someone else who’s not thankfulness is the key factor in worship and Brethren when we worship God intelligently we know who we are and we know what we are to do and this makes a satisfied happy and joyful people I like I mean if you go to the Psalms all you see is Psalms about thankfulness I like the Psalm 100 verse4 enter his gates with Thanksgiving and his courts with praise a lot of times praise and thank thankfulness are the word thankful are all interrelated in the Old Testament they kind of like go together so if we use the words Gates and courts it represents the temple of God and where men and women approach God’s presence the heart is engaged as one becomes excited to come into the presence of God with an attitude of Thanksgiving and praise so that’s how we should every time come before God and if we come before God in devoted prayer together and coupled with thankfulness that adds to our worship we’re able to lift up our words to God in worship and in singing that exalts his name and we really mean it and people say wow these people really they’re into this that’s that’s how it ought to be so it’s first Devotion to prayer but back to Colossians chapter 4 verse 3 and 4 that’s the first thing Devotion to prayer there is also to be Direction in prayer Direction in prayer notice what it says in verse number three now before I look at verse number three I must must say that prayer must have a direction to it because prayer is aiming at something if it doesn’t have a direction we’ll never know if we hit the target right we’ll never know if prayer is really answered so what is the direction a prayer at least in our text this morning we’ll see in verse number three praying at the same time for us that’s Paul Timothy and aerus as well all right so the first thing is what is it as well that God will open up to us a door for the word so Paul is saying listen while you’re praying Colossians pray for me all right because where was Paul he was in prison right he was in prison and he wasn’t getting out of prison he was in prison and so praying he says pray at the same time for me so here’s a prayer for something only God can do and what is that open open doors an Open Door stood for an opportunity for speaking the gospel the Apostle Paul is using actually in uh in the the text here a certain word that that produces a mood that he wants to bring forth to the reader and it it is it’s a subjunctive mood and the subjunctive mood indicates the relation of the action to reality it means the action is possible but it depends on certain objective factors now it becomes simple in a minute so viewing the action as possible and what is the action if the Colossians actually follow through on their prayer something will take place all right then God will respond to the prayer now anytime we pray for open doors you know you hear the thing you know when God closes the door he opens the window ah take that off your wall no God God opens doors right he opens doors but an open door doesn’t mean things are uh there’s not going to be trouble or antagonist in fact we find in scripture uh where Paul says in in Corinthians a y door for Effective service has open to me but there are many adversaries so anytime there’s an Open Door there there’s always an adversary there to preent prevent you from either praying for that door to be open or walking through it once it is opened and then of course there are some doors that are open but they’re not God’s open door and we have to be careful about those two in fact there’s an example in scripture of 2 Corinthians chapter 2 where it says I came to traz for the gospel of Christ and when a door was opened for for me my spirit was not handling it well and so I left there and I went to Macedonia and he knew and he then he says this he says be thank thanks be to God who always leads us in Triumph in the Triumph of Christ so God will always lead us there may be an open door but it’s not God’s Open Door it may be the open door you want so if getting back to this mood that if the Colossians do not pray and the subjunctive mood indicates the reality of this actually taking place open doors depends on some external conditions that the colossian Believers actually follow through praying as Paul requested that is what he’s getting there now for us the question would be and what if we don’t carry out out prayer for God to kick open doors for speaking the gospel what if we don’t pray that what will happen if we don’t pray that you know what will happen nothing will happen if we don’t pray that see the external condition for this actually happening is that we continually follow through in our prayers and if we don’t it won’t happen it was John Piper who said without persistent prayer we have no offense in the battle against evil individually as and as churches we are meant to invade and plunder the strongholds of Satan but no prayer no power so if we’re not Vigilant we will be ins snared by temptation our defense and our offense is an active should be always an active persistent Earnest believing a believing prayer force that comes from the body of Believers and so that’s a direction of of prayer I want to hit this target that Paul is asking uh the Colossians to pray so God would kick open doors for him for the gospel we are to pray that God would kick open doors for us for the gospel that loved one that you are thinking about but maybe not praying for or maybe you gave up praying for them because it’s been a long time and maybe their mind slipped your name slipped out of your mind or we’re going to mall evang evangelism on this weekend and we’re praying Lord kick open a door for us so when we pass out a track or we have a conversation with somebody that they would actually listen sin and that you would allow them to receive the word of God with power and they be saved or at least we can plant the seed water the seed and you bring the increase and so another direction that Paul asks for the Colossians to pray is found in verse number three and four where it says so that we may speak forth the mystery of Christ for which I have also been imprisoned that I may make it clear in the way I ought to speak and I want you to note in that passage Paul did not ask the Colossians for prayer to get him out of prison but for an open door and Clarity of speech prayer for the purpose of making clear that Christ himself is the mystery and just like Paul’s approach in dealing with the false teachers that we found in Colossians he did it by a positive setting forth of the truth of Christ from the scripture in the power of the Holy Spirit where it says in Colossians 1:28 we Proclaim him that’s what we do we Proclaim him so Paul’s not proclaiming something specul speculative or uncertain or some vague feeling or experience no he is proclaiming he wants to Proclaim clearly the truth about Christ and the truth about Christ from scripture is a very clear message and stated positively the clarity of scripture refers to its accessibility that the knowledge of God contained in the Bible has been revealed in such a way that it actually can be sufficiently understood and of itself and of those who seek it also and this is the content of the message M Jesus whom we preach Colossians 1: 27 to whom God will to make known what is the riches of the glory of this mystery among the Gentiles and what is that mystery which is Christ in you the hope of glory Christ in me the hope of glory that’s a mystery that’s now unveiled by God and by the preaching of the Gospel so in other words Christianity is Christ you can’t get away from that he is at the center of it all and your attitude and relationship to this person is sign of significant importance you don’t need an endless list of angels to have to go through to between God and man which the gnostics believed and which Paul was refuting in Colossians you don’t need that no Christ can be bring you to God because he is God I like 2 Corinthians 4:5 it says for we do not preach ourselves but Christ as Lord so it’s all about Jesus his person and the facts concerning him in him is The Treasure of wisdom and knowledge verse three of chapter 2 in whom are hidden all the treasures of w wisdom and knowledge and in him dwells the fullness of God so the Apostle Paul is saying things about Jesus that goes far beyond what people say today about Jesus that he’s a good teacher that he’s a good example that he’s a good man to follow and usually they go no further and even conclude that Jesus is not Divine and even he’s not God he was a good Prophet but he’s not Divine see that’s why we need A Book Like Colossians and that’s why it’s here in the Bible for us because if we didn’t have it we would all conclude that Jesus was an exceptional exceptional human being and that is about as far as we would go and usually go no further but if you look at scripture as I already mentioned in the word of God in Colossians chapter 1 verse1 15- 18 for he is the image of the invisible God the firstborn of all creation for by him all things were created in heaven in the heavens and on Earth visible and invisible whether Thrones or dominions or rulers or authorities all things have been created through him and for him he is before all things and in him all things hold together he is also head of the body the church and he is the beginning the firstborn from the dead so he himself will come to have first place in everything that’s who Jesus is but Satan wants to pull us away from that and he wants us to fall away from devoted prayer and prayer filled with thankfulness and a desire to want to pray to God to kick open the door so we can see your hand work in Saving other people and Lord when we do speak allow us to speak with Clarity so Paul wants Clarity in unveiling God’s Gra great secret and what secret is that the mystery which has been hidden from the past ages and generations has now been manifest to his Saints and what is that Revelation it is the revealing of the great Secret Of God was the love and mercy and grace of God that meant that for not meant just for G Jews Al alone but also For All Mankind that the gospel goes to everyone so now Gentiles don’t become Jews nor do Jews become Gentiles but both become one new person when they come to Christ in Repentance and Faith so the the question would be all right if the Colossians prayed this prayer was it answered well I want you to take your Bibles and turn to Acts chapter 28 which we read this morning and I want you to notice something because I can emphatically say yes it was answered and he ends actually the the the epistle the historical book of Acts in this way he says in Acts 28:30 and 31 it says he and he stayed that’s Paul two full years in his own rented quarters and was welcoming all who came to him and then verse 31 preaching the kingdom of God and teaching concerning the Lord Jesus Christ how with all openness unhindered was the prayer answered yes so it’s it’s always good to stick around for the answer because sometimes that’s why we some people conclude prayer doesn’t work because you’re not long you’re not there long enough to see the answer let me just close with this this morning especially really because the main thing is that the the highest use of speech is prayer there was a man named Jeremiah Lanier it was September 23rd 1857 he came to New York City and he was working in the financial district and it he says it wasn’t very uh it was wasn’t very good to be a Christian at that point wealthy Bankers were uh and real real estate speculators were uh thanking God for their wealth as and and right down the block there was all kinds of uh slums and poverty that was being unaddressed and so Jeremiah uh went there to uh do work in being somebody who’s going to be in Mercantile or you know like a pharmacy or sell all kinds of goods and that’s what he went to school or went to do uh learn there and so he finally uh went there as a nonbeliever and then he heard the gospel he he became a Christian and then he got connected to a church and he started immediately do an Evangelistic work with a lot of the the poor people there and so uh a church found out about him it was actually a Dutch Reformed Church and the Dutch reform used to preach the gospel back then this church was D Reformed Church you know and um so for 168 years in our church we’ve been preaching the gospel so some prayers have been answered there you know that we’re still doing it but this man what he did is that he he said I’m going to go and and so he gets hired by this church he goes out to The Community he’s handing out all these P pamphlets uh tracks and inviting people to church nobody came so he he comes and he says Lord what do you want me to do he prays Lord what do you want me to do and the answer that he got from the Lord is the Lord says I want you to pray so that’s what he did he says how am I going to reach these businessmen that are all over here so he starts a businessman’s lunchtime prayer this is what happened from 12: to 1: in the afternoon you come uh during your lunchtime and you can stay 10 minutes you can stay for the whole hour you can stay a half hour whatever you come and pray we’re going to have some a little bit of a singing we’re going to have uh some exhortation uh if anybody speaks any more than 5 minutes a Bell’s going to ring so we don’t want to waste anybody’s time we want we’re coming here to prayer so the first meeting night or first meeting afternoon uh what happens the first day Jeremiah half hour goes by it’s just him another half hour goes by one person comes at the end of that first day six people actually did show up the following week 20 people showed up the fourth week 100 people showed up then October 18th a financial Panic seized the city New York City this was in collapsing the economy into a deep recession so all these businessmen are are freaking out so what did they do they go to the prayer meeting and um in 6 months 10,000 businessmen came to pray they had to open up police departments and other churches and firehouses all these people wanted to come and pray they had to start a morning prayer because some guys couldn’t come in the afternoon they used still wanted to pray 2 years later it’s reported that it spread all across America reporting that 1 million converts were added to the church in America during that time and it started from one little guy asking God what do you want me to do and he started praying to God and God some of these men came and they weren’t converted but they heard everything was going on they started asking how can I be converted and they came they started coming to Christ and God saved a lot of people for that so I thought that story was very uh applicable to this point that we ought to be devoted to prayer and if we’re not we don’t know what’s going to happen but if we are we look for what’s going to happen and God answers prayer does he not answer prayer matter of fact you’re sitting here this morning because someone prayed for you that you’d be saved you’re sitting here today because someone prayed for you that you’re saved and if you’re here and you’re not saved someone’s praying that you will be saved amen am let’s pray Lord this morning Lord thank you for the word of God it so impresses upon our heart and our soul what is really needful in our life Lord sometimes we’re so concerned about the simplest smallest things and yet Lord the thing that is most important we neglect but I pray Lord that today we would stop neglecting those things and we would pray and I pray Lord that you would make us a people that is devoted to prayer and I pray in our devotion to prayer Lord we would be active in that in that Lord Jesus we would be praying and we would be filled with thankfulness as we are devoted to prayer and we would be alert as soldiers and that Lord as we do that we would be shooting at a target with direct prayers to the throne room of God and know Lord I pray as we do that we will learn how to pray more in your will and for your purpose and for the advancement of theur Church in the kingdom of God that we would have open doors for the gospel and that you would enable us to speak clearly those truths and that Lord we would see the results I ask you for that today in our family I pray in Christ’s name amen amen

  • The Imperatives for Transformed Workplaces

    The Imperatives for Transformed Workplaces

    In this sermon, Pastor Joe Babij examines Colossians 3:22-4:1 and the apostle Paul’s exhortation there as to how workers and bosses should live Spirit-filled, Word-filled lives in relation to one another.

    Full Transcript:

    Let’s take our Bibles and turn to Colossians 3 as we continue to move through this book. I’m going to be reading Colossians 3:18 – 4:1. It says,

    18Wives, be subject to your husbands, as is fitting in the Lord.19Husbands, love your wives and do not be embittered against them.20Children, be obedient to your parents in all things, for this is well-pleasing to the Lord.21Fathers, do not exasperate your children, so that they will not lose heart.

    22Slaves, in all things obey those who are your masters on earth, not with external service, as those who merely please men, but with sincerity of heart, fearing the Lord.23Whatever you do, do your work heartily, as for the Lord rather than for men,24knowing that from the Lord you will receive the reward of the inheritance. It is the Lord Christ whom you serve.25For he who does wrong will receive the consequences of the wrong which he has done, and that without partiality.

    Masters, grant to your slaves justice and fairness, knowing that you too have a Master in heaven.

    Let’s pray. Lord, this morning, as we come to Your word, we pray that You would show us from the Word of God how You want us to live everyday on the jobs that we have, with the employees that we should be, and the employers that we are under. I pray that as we consider these things that we would always realize that whatever we do, and whatever person has authority over us, You have authority over them, and we actually serve You no matter what we’re doing. I pray that would always be on our mind. I pray in Christ’ name, amen.

    The next set of verses that I just read have to do with how the Spirit-filled, word-filled Christian works. In other words, the imperative for transformed workplaces.

    I think you can see the transformative power of the Gospel in each part of a believer’s experience as they walk in the Sprit and grow in the knowledge of the Word and of Christ and is led by the Spirit of God. Transformation takes place in marriages between wives and husbands, in families between children and parents, and of course, in families between fathers and children.

    Today we will see the transformation of the Gospel in the workplace. Before I look at the text today, let me remind you of the principle. We have to deal with the principle that the Apostle has laid down for us in Scripture so far.

    That is that a Christian is to lay aside his sin, put on the clothing of Christ, and let the peace of God rule in their heart and the Word of Christ make its home in the saved sinners inner most being. That is the principle.

    Once that principle is understood and realized, then the practice of the outworking of that truth is noticed in a change in all believers, especially in an obedient and submissive heart.

    The parallel passage in Ephesians records it like this: be subject to one another in the fear of Christ. Submitting means to line oneself up under someone else. It has the idea of giving up one’s own rights or will doing so voluntarily.

    Why do we do that? In the Ephesian and the Colossian passage (Colossians 3:22), it says the same thing at the end of the verse. It says: fearing the Lord. Everything the Christian does is done in the fear Christ.

    This is not a horrifying fear. We had, as slaves to sin, a father who lied to us and kept us under the extreme fear of death, which was Satan. Our passage is pointing us to a healthy fear. A fear of God which we ought to have. The Bible teaches we ought to have it.

    This fear is not the fear of slave nor merely a fear of a creature to the creator. This is a reverential fear of an obedient child to a loving Master. Yet at the same time not taking the Master lightly or with indifference. Christian reverence rests upon the knowledge of God’s holy character and in His plan of redemption.

    A passage of Scripture that brings fear and holiness together is found in 2 Corinthians 7:1,

    Therefore, having these promises, beloved, let us cleanse ourselves from all defilement of flesh and spirit, perfecting holiness in the fear of God.

    The fear of God has everything to do with what we do every day. The thing that marks off the Christian from the man who is not a Christian is not merely that he believes in the Lord Jesus Christ unto salvation and trusts Him and His atoning work. He believes that, yes, but in addition, the life of a Christian is governed by Jesus Christ. Jesus is Lord and Master at all times and in all areas of our life.

    That means the Christian desires to please Him. They desire to please their Lord. At the same time, the believer desires not to disappoint, grieve, or hurt the One they love and submit to.

    We must, from time to time, ask ourselves are we disappointing Christ today?

    Wives, if we just look at the passage, are you disappointing Christ by not submitting to your husband as you ought to?

    Husbands, are you not loving your wives as you ought to and disappointing Christ there?

    Children, are you being obedient to parents with the proper action and attitude or are you disobeying the Lord there and disappointing Him?

    Fathers, are you leading your family by taking the spiritual lead and treating your children properly – not causing them to be angry or exasperated by your discipline and your family model? Are you displeasing the Lord there?

    All these areas of our life will bear the greatest tensions and stresses and strain. If you’re going to see the Word of prevailing in your heart and the Spirit of God leading you in your life then this is where you will see it. You will see it in these areas because these are the areas that we deal with the most every day. This is in-and-out living. This is a testing ground of how we are progressing in the Christian faith.

    This next area that we are looking at from Colossians 3:22, where it says slaves. This area could be the most demeaning, distasteful, and lowliest that a Christian can be in when it comes to their position in this world. Relationship between slave and master. Something that is comparable to that is employer to employee and employee to employer.

    Notice again in verse 22,

    Slaves, in all things obey those who are your masterson earth,not withexternal service, as those whomerelyplease men, but with sincerity of heart, fearing the Lord.

    Slaves is one who serves in obedience to another’s will. It’s a slave performing a service with unquestioning obedience. Either in a good or bad sense.

    In any place, the believer is to find themselves with the conduct that they ought to have in that situation no matter what the circumstances would be.

    Paul is dealing with the worst circumstances of the lowest place a human being could be. This is in a place where they are subservient to everything. They own nothing.

    I want to note that first century slavery was not identical to what slaves faced in the earliest century of the settling of North Africa. There is also a difference between first century slavery and the modern employee.

    However, the basic principle of labor and one’s attitude about labor is transferrable to those who make up today’s workforce and to whatever situation a person may be in. It is about our inner-heart and our relationship to the Lord as the Master of our life and how we are to respond to that.

    The Apostle Paul’s concern is not to overthrow the societal structure that one finds themselves but he is concerned about the salvation and sanctification of individuals. The progress of the Gospel and the visual transformation of those who have Christ as their Master.

    They should be different than the general population no matter what circumstances they are in. His concern is to be Christ-like in your behavior to the true Master Jesus Christ.

    If you notice in verses 22-24 it has these little phrases about slaves fearing the Lord. Verse 23, as for the Lord. Verse 24, from the Lord. Verse 24 again, the Lord Christ whom you serve. Chapter 4:1, master you too have a Master in heaven.

    All of these things are what the believer is focused in on. That is the Lord Jesus Christ.

    The principle in Colossians 3:22, slaves in all things obey, and then Ephesians, slaves be obedient to those who are your master according to the flesh. You are going to have earthly masters but you have one Heavenly Master – that is the Lord Jesus Christ. We are responsible as believers to the Heavenly Master. However, how we respond to our earthly master will tell how we are doing.

    The principle is obvious. The Christian is to conform to the circumstances and condition in which they find themselves. He is not automatically to break loose or free just because he has become a Christian.

    There will always be differences in social status even though all believers are in Christ. Never does Christ or the Apostle Paul tell anyone to change his social standing just because they are converted. In fact, the Bible’s instructions are just the opposite. Take your Bibles and turn to 1 Corinthians 7:20. This passage of Scripture does lay out some principles here.

    1 Corinthians 7:20-22 is a very informative passage on the principle. It says this,

    Each man must remain in that condition in which he was called. 21 Were you called while a slave? Do not worry about it; but if you are able also to become free, rather do that. 22 For he who was called in the Lord while a slave, is the Lord’s freeman; likewise he who was called while free, is Christ’s slave.

    In other words, if a person was under this position in the first century as a slave and they became a believer, then they were actually free as slave in their heart to the Lord. If they were called as a free person then they now become a slave to Christ. This is not the slavery of modern history. In Paul’s time, servants really were bondslaves who could not call their life their own.

    This is what is meant when Christ took upon Himself the form of a bondservant. It tells us in Philippians: He emptied Himself taking the form of a bondservant being made in the likeness of men. Our Lord made Himself a slave so that we can be free from the slavery of sin and its condemnation.

    If the characteristic of a bondslave is contrasted with Christ taking the form of a bondservant then we really are called to be this bondslave. A bondslave had no rights as a citizen. Christ laid aside His glory in the presence of God to come into this world who hated Him. A bondslave had no redress in injury. Christ opened not His mouth before His accusers and murderers.

    A bondslave had no property. Christ had no place to lay His head and was the poorest of men. A bondslave could be sold. Christ was sold for thirty pieces of silver – the price of a slave. A bondslave could be tortured and killed. Christ suffered for us – He was beaten and publicly humiliated and killed, the just for the unjust to bring us to God. Jesus was the greatest example of what it meant to be under slavery – a willing slave who willingly did that.

    What was the Apostle Paul’s view of being a slave? Romans 1:1, this is what Paul said,

    Paul, a bon-servant of Christ Jesus, called as an apostle, set apart for the gospel of God.

    Saul was a rebel of a man and persecuted the church of Jesus Christ. Once the gospel arrested Paul, he became a willing and obedient bond-slave of Jesus.

    Where did this whole concept of bond-slave come from? It comes from the Old Testament. Exodus 21:1-6. It’s an interesting passage. It says something that relates to what I am saying here. In Exodus 21:1 it says,

    Now these are the ordinances which you are to set before them: 2 If you buy a Hebrew slave, he shall serve for six years; but on the seventh he shall go out as a free man without payment. 3 If he comes alone, he shall go out alone; if he is the husband of a wife, then his wife shall go out with him. 4 If his master gives him a wife, and she bears him sons or daughters, the wife and her children shall belong to her master, and he shall go out alone. 5 But if the slave plainly says, ‘I love my master, my wife and my children; I will not go out as a free man,’ 6 then his master shall bring him to God, then he shall bring him to the door of the doorpost. And his master shall pierce his ear with an awl; and he shall serve him permanently.

    This is a person who willingly says, I will be under the authority of this person permanently. He had the mark of a pierced ear for that purpose. Everyone who saw him knew right away that he was a willing bondservant.

    Isn’t that really what happens to all real Christians? Even though we don’t all have literal pierced ears, we move from being slaves to sin to being slaves to righteousness. We are now enslaved to God who is our good and loving Master.

    That is exactly what we read this morning where it says in Romans 6:22,

    But now having been free from sin and enslaved to God, you derive your benefit, resulting in sanctification, and the outcome, eternal life.

    Christians have a Master in heaven they are to please. The Apostle Paul chose to have his ear pierced as a gesture of his permanent surrender to Jesus Christ, his Master.

    Galatians 6:17 says,

    From now on let no one cause trouble for me, for I bear on my body the brand-marks of Jesus.

    That’s the word stigma. It could mean tattoo mark. It could be brand mark. The brand mark for slaves were a pierced ear. In fact, the only people who are branded are slaves. Paul bore willingly the slave brands of the Lord Jesus Christ.

    In fact, back to Colossians, who is the founder of the Colossian Church? Epaphras. What does it say about him in Colossians 4:12? It says,

    Epaphras, who is one of your number, a bondslave of Jesus Christ, sends you his greetings, always laboring earnestly for you in his prayers, that you may stand perfect and fully assured in all the will of God.

    Everywhere you look in Scripture, you have this phrase that when you become a believer, you are actually a slave to Jesus Christ. Remember, Jesus is a good and kind Master. He is a Master that you want to have.

    If you consider yourself a bondslave because you have come to know Jesus Christ as Lord and Savior, and confessed Him before others, and have walked in the waters of baptism in obedience to Him, and now you desire every day to live for Him no matter where you find yourselves on this earthly level, then we are to have a certain behavior and demeanor on our jobs.

    There are four things connected to being a transformed employee under one major imperative. The major imperative is found in verse 22, it says,

    Slaves, in all things obey those who are your masterson earth,not withexternal service, as those whomerelyplease men, but with sincerity of heart, fearing the Lord

    The imperative is submissive and willing obedience. It’s the same word that is used for children to obey your parents. I like how he stresses ‘on earth.’ The primary teaching for the Christian is that his conduct and character are to be obedient.

    It’s to be obedient within the system in which he lives. Even though it may at times involve doing things in which he/herself would not choose to do or a place you would not choose to be. Employees are to be obedient, but not with eyeservice or external service, as those who merely please men.

    That means you look like you are working when the eyes of the boss are on you or do it only when you can be seen, then when the boss or master are absent, or not watching, the slave, the employee, becomes slothful.

    In other words, the Christian employee must not merely do the minimum, just enough to get themselves out of trouble. They are to do the maximum. There is a type of employee/slave that whatever they are doing, their eye is on the Master Jesus Christ, with whom they desire to please.

    There is another. If the boss is watching, he works hard and shows himself a very dutiful person, but as soon as the boss is gone, he does nothing but the bare minimum. This person doesn’t have his heart in his work. This attitude is completely unsuited to what is truly the Christian attitude.

    What is the Christian employee to do? Especially when the job is less than favorable and the boss is inconsiderate with his employees. The Christian employee is to be obedient to the boss, work hard, and give a day’s work regardless of the conditions and pay. The Christian employee does this because he is working for the Lord as a God-fearer.

    Some people will ask how can I serve the Lord? You can serve the Lord right where you work by having that attitude. God-fearers reverence God to the point where they care deeply about what He says and desire to submit to His authority.

    Part of His authority is His placing you where you are at. If we believe in the sovereignty of God then it’s no mistake where you’re at right now. You can kick at that all you want but that’s not the way to deal with it.

    We have a fear of God that encompasses reverence and submission to his and awe of the Lord. I like how the Apostle Peter put it: Servants, he said, be submissive to your masters in all respects, not only those who are good and gentle but also those who are unreasonable. That’s to be like Christ.

    The first thing that’s connected to a transformed employee is that bondslaves of Christ should do their work with obedience. The second one is found in Colossians 3:23. It is that bondslaves of Christ should do their work from a single and sincere heart. It says that in verse 22, but in verse 23 it says,

    Whatever you do, do your workheartily,as for the Lordrather than for men

    For who? My boss? No, as for the Lord, rather than for men. A Christian is to work hard within any system they live because they are working as a willing slave of Jesus Christ. Singleness of heart means that you do what you have to do with undivided attention. A sincere heart means the motive should be do to do the best work possible in the best way possible because we are Christians and we want to please the Master.

    That’s how we witness to our bosses. That’s how we are a good example to the employees around us. We work hard and we go above and beyond. That means, for the employee, that their time is not their own, it’s the masters. His money, property, equipment, supplies are not his, they are the company’s.

    We have no right to use our employers’ time even to evangelize on company time. Your lunchtime may be the time you can talk to people when they find you coming into the lunchroom reading your Bible. Let them see it. Sometimes when you’re on your phone they don’t know that you’re reading your Bible. You have to bring to your Bible – your big ol’ paper Bible. You can start witnessing to them this way.

    We are not to do our work grudgingly. Some jobs are not very pleasant. They can be dirty, smelly, and just plain tedious. You’re wondering, Lord, why am I here? The Lord has you there. You can witness to people that I can’t or the person sitting next to you can’t. You’re there to witness and be an example. You have to consider your life like that. Wherever I am, God wants me there.

    If you’re going to be grumbling, complaining, and whining about your boss and job then you’re not being an example. That’s the bottom line. We all have jobs that we didn’t like. All of us at some point in our life.

    I had a job one summer on a hot-dog wagon on the side of the road. It was a little stinky hot-dog wagon. It was our job to sell hot dogs. I said, okay, we can do this and make some money by doing this. We ate more hot dogs than we sold. Of course, I wasn’t a believer back then, and it didn’t turn out very well. We gave that up quick but it was an experience back then.

    We’ve all had times and jobs like that. As Christians, you can thank God for your job and glorify Him by working to the best of your ability and dedicating your work to Him.

    Colossians 3:17, what did that say up there?

    Whatever you do in word or deed, do all in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks through Him to God the Father.

    You want people to say to you, why are you always thankful? Why are you a person who always has a good attitude? You’re annoying me. Isn’t that what you want them to say? That is, again, an open door for the gospel. All of them are. You’re just not like everybody else. That’s how we adorn the gospel.

    Do you know what Titus says about this? Listen to this passage. It’s Titus 2:9-10.

    Urge bondslaves to be subject to their own masters in everything, to be well-pleasing, not argumentative, 10 not pilfering, but showing all good faith so that they will adorn the doctrine of God our Savior in every respect.

    That’s what we’re to do as Christians. It changes our whole outlook on the work that God has given to us.

    There’s a third thing that is connected to this major imperative. It is found in verse 24. It’s more in the positive sense. Slaves of Christ have an inheritance.

    You might think that slaves have no inheritance nor are they in a place to receive it. That’s true unless you are Christ’ slave. Notice what it says in Colossians 3:24,

    knowing that from the Lord you will receive the rewardofthe inheritance. It is the Lord Christ whom youserve.

    It is the inheritance that believers will receive that will be the nature of the reward – a fair recompense from a faithful service to the Lord. The slave of Christ has an unceasing line of thought. That means that they look beyond their earthly life and their immediate circumstances to the Lord and the reward that He has for them.

    Galatians 4:7 tells us this,

    Therefore you are no longer a slave, but a son; and if a son, then an heir through God.

    If you’re a Christian slave then you own everything. You are the richest person on earth because you are connected to Christ. We don’t have everything yet. We haven’t experienced everything yet but the Scriptures are saying to lift up your eyes and look beyond this life to a life that is coming.

    It’s not the first time we are introduced to the thought of an inheritance in Colossians. Colossians 1:12 says this,

    Giving thanks to the Father, who has qualified us to share in the inheritance of the saints in Light.

    The Father qualified us. Something has already been done for the saints. God has qualified us. That means He made us capable, able, suitable, and fit for the kingdom of God. God made us fit to share in the inheritance through the sacrifice of Jesus Christ.

    Why did He do that? Because we have no fitness. We never could have done this on our own. None of us are fit for salvation. None of us can enter the kingdom of God without going through the door to the Kingdom, Jesus Christ.

    There is definitely an illusion to the Old Testament again concerning inheritance of the ancient Israel when they entered the Promise Land. Each Israelite had an inheritance. An inheritance is something allotted.

    It’s something assigned or conferred by right position or relationship. It is not by one’s own effort else it is not an inheritance at all. An inheritance goes to those who are in the family. Who can claim this inheritance? All bondservants of Jesus Christ.

    When you’re in that circumstance, the Lord says to look to the reward. There’s nothing wrong to have a reward, to look to it, and to desire it.

    Our inheritance is salvation. This is what we inherit. It is what God gives us. It is what we participate in with all of the saints. Our inheritance is also the Kingdom of God.

    Brethren, salvation is so grand that we ought to wrap our minds around what we have as chosen in Christ Jesus. A persecuted slave-Christian may not have very much while living as an alien and a stranger in this world so we have to be reminded from time to time about the magnitude of our inheritance.

    Someone who does this in a masterful way is the Apostle Peter. He says to us that we have a sure inheritance that flows out of our salvation. This is what he says in 1 Peter 1:4,

    To obtain an inheritance which is imperishable and undefiled and will not fade away, reserved in heaven for you.

    It’s wonderful to obtain inheritance which is imperishable. That means there is no destructive force like a moth, rust, thieves, or any corrosive thing that can destroy it. He also says that it is undefiled. It is pure. Nothing can stain it, make it dirty, or impure whatsoever.

    God ensures that our inheritance will be free from death and decay. He ensures us that it will be free from uncleanliness, immorality, and spiritual impurity.

    Also, Peter says that it is certain. It’s an inheritance that will not fade away. It cannot whither or become worn. It will never be lost. It will never lose its vibrancy or delight. God assures that our inheritance will be free from the ravages of time – whatever time can do to you, it doesn’t matter, and it doesn’t change your inheritance.

    Our great God of mercy ensures His children of the eternal validity of our inheritance that it will never be polluted or subject to decay. It will never be destroyed.

    Some people will say that this sounds too good to be true. And you know what they say, if it sounds too good to be true, then it’s probably not true. That is true most of the time. However, in this case, something that sounds too good to be true is true because it’s backed by the character, promise, and power of God. That’s why it’s true.

    As a matter of fact, Peter says three other things about this. Number one, it’s reserved in heaven.

    To obtain an inheritance which is imperishable and undefiled and will not fade away, reserved in heaven for you.

    That means it is guarded in an eternal place. The word there is a military verb. It’s a military metaphor referring to a fortress with strong walls being guarded by a battalion of soldiers. It also says there that it’s guarded by God.

    This is the power only that God and the Godhead shares. God is the only who guards and keeps our inheritance for us. God is the guardian who keeps it safe for us. He keeps us safe to receive it in its fullness.

    It says in Peter that it’s not far off. It says in verse 5,

    Who are protected by the power of God through faith for a salvation ready to be revealed in the last time.

    Everything is ready, brethren. Everything is ready and complete for full salvation to be revealed at any moment. Our eternal salvation will be made visible to all of us.

    The people of the world, the people without Christ, have no inheritance waiting for them at the end of their existence on earth. Bondslaves in Jesus Christ are promised this inheritance. I don’t know about you, but in the midst of all of that it is encouraging to hear that coming from the Lord Himself.

    There is a last thing back in Colossians that is connected this imperative of employees. It’s that bondslaves of Christ have an impartial judge. Colossians 3:25 says,

    Forhe who does wrong will receive the consequences of the wrong which he has done, andthat without partiality.

    I can say it like this, no one’s getting away with anything. In this case, who are those who do wrong? It could be those slaves of Christ who wronged their masters.

    I’m going to get into a little bit another time but one of the reasons why Paul is writing Colossians is because he has a slave with him. That was Onesimus. What did he do? He ran away from his master. When he ran away from his master, he ended up getting saved because Paul witnessed to him. Paul is now bringing Onesimus back to his master.

    That’s why Paul includes this section in Colossians. He wants to make sure that everybody knows it’s not just about Onesimus and his wrongdoing, but now it’s about when he gets saved, he is coming back and making it right with his earthly master, since he already made it right with his Heavenly Master.

    If I read to you from Philemon it says in verse 16,

    No longer as a slave, but more than a slave, a beloved brother, especially to me, but how much more to you, both in the flesh and in the Lord.

    Paul is saying that Onesimus is no longer a slave, but more than a slave, a beloved brother. That’s what he says there.

    The second thing would be the masters of Christ who have abused their authority and have not treated their employees with justice and fairness. The Christian master is responsible, too.

    It could also include the wrongdoers that have committed the list of Colossian 3:5 and 8-9 where it talks about abusing the body in immorality, impurity, passion, evil desire, and greed that amounts to idolatry and so on. I believe it could mean all of these categories.

    In any case, everyone must be responsible for their own actions under the authority of Christ. Every Christian will stand before the judgment seat of Christ and give an account for their life. Do you know that, Christian? You won’t be judged for your sin to condemn you but you will be judged for your works.

    Slave and master stand on level ground before this impartial Judge. This discerning Judge to answer to their conduct. The Judge is none other than Jesus Christ.

    How are you doing in this area as a bondslave? Are you the employee that you ought to be to your employer? Or if you are an employer, are you what you ought to be to those who are employed by you? If you look at Colossians 4:1, which I won’t spend too much time on, notice what it says there,

    Masters, grant to your slaves justice and fairness,knowing that you too have a Master in heaven.

    The master could abuse his authority very easily. He can do it in a very simple way that the slave has no recourse to be able to refute what the master is doing. The Lord says to the master that you better watch out how you do it because you will also be judged. In other words, no one is getting away.

    Earthly masters are reminded that they have a Master in heaven who they are responsible to. They ought to be bosses that treat their employees rightly. Christian masters are to view themselves as under-masters with the Master Jesus Christ as the one they submit to and wholeheartedly serve.

    Masters are responsible to a higher Master who will show no favoritism. Christian slaves, Christian masters, employees, and employers serve the same Lord if they are a Christian.

    Are you submitting to the lot that the Lord has placed you in today? He placed you there to adorn the Gospel of Jesus Christ as a bondservant of Jesus Christ. One that you are willingly obeying. One where you have an attitude that is single and sincere. One that is a hard worker — whether you ever get complimented for that hard work or get any kind of benefits for it.

    We need to live before the Lord even if you never get any of that. Maybe you are the hardest worker on the job but never get noticed because you are a Christian.

    We Christians are to live as third-class citizens. There’s a little story that goes with this. In the days of the stage coach, a man undertook a journey where he was informed that there were first-class, second-class, and third-class passengers. However, all of the seats on the coach looked alike to him, so he purchased a third-class ticket, which was a cheaper ticket. All went well for a time and the man was congratulating himself upon having saved some money.

    Presently, they came to the foot of a steep hill. When the driver stopped the horses and shouted ‘first-class passengers stay in your seats, second-class passengers get out and walk, third-class passengers get out and push.’

    We need kingdom-workers that want to be third-class passengers and are fine with it. Those who will push. First-class passengers do nothing, they just sit there. The second-class passengers walk away from the real work. The third-class passengers are willing to bear the burden in the heat of the day are the ones we need.

    Work for the night is coming when no one could work. We need workers in the kingdom of God who are not willing to be noticed, have rank, or be praised – just workers. What do you want me to do? I am willing to do it. That’s what we want. A bunch of bondservants working together. Take off your rank.

    My son is in [], where there are small units, so when they get together, they don’t wear any rank. They are in a place where they don’t have to do that. They just want to make sure the other person knows their job well enough to keep them alive. That’s what we ought to do.

    Do we know our job as Christians well enough to be able to serve the Lord in this way that He is talking about? So that we honor Him and adorn the gospel? Whether we are working on our job or we are coming to the service of the Lord and doing work in the church, it’s all the same. We can’t be sitting down having our arms folded and say ‘let somebody else do it.’

    Just like Mark Twombly was talking about in Sunday School, which you ought to be going to, with the fundamentals of the faith. He has been talking about spiritual gifts and using that gift in the body because I need your gift and you need my gift. We work together to build the body strong and healthy. But if you’re not using your gift then you’re like the first-class passenger. The third-class passengers are using their gifts. That’s what we need in the body of Christ.

    I pray this morning as we think of these things that we will consider our own life, our own situation that we find ourselves in, and thank God for what He has given to us. If we have work, praise Him for it, because some people don’t have work. If He’s given you work then have the attitude that is going to adorn the gospel on your job. Amen?

  • The Imperatives for Transformed Families and Fathers

    The Imperatives for Transformed Families and Fathers

    In this sermon, Pastor Joe Babij examines Colossians 3:21 and the apostle Paul’s exhortation there as to how parents and especially fathers should live Spirit-filled, Word-filled lives in relation to their children.

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    amen and we need to keep them alive too amen all right Colossians chapter 3 let’s take our Bibles and turn there Colossians chapter 3 and if You’ been wondering where Pastor Dave is he’s on vacation for another couple weeks and he’s enjoying the nice warm California Sun this week Colossians chapter 3 I’ve been reading from Verse 18 to verse wives be subject to your husbands as is fitting in the Lord husbands love your wives and do not be embittered against them children be obedient to your parents in all things for this is well pleasing to the Lord fathers do not exasperate your children so that they will not lose heart slaves in all things obey those who are your Masters on Earth not with re external service as those who merely please men but with sincerity of heart fearing the Lord whatever you do do your work heartily as for the Lord rather than for men knowing that from the Lord you will receive the reward of The Inheritance it is the Lord Christ whom you serve for he who does wrong will receive the consequences of the wrong which he has done and that without partiality let’s pray father this morning again we thank you for the word of God we thank you for that we’re able to have it in our own hands and thank you Lord we’re able to hear it and we are actually able by the spirit of God to do it and so I pray that we would Lord be able to carry out the word of God every single day of our life and I pray that you would be honored as we grow and mature in Christ so Lord get us out of the baby nurse nursery and get us back on our feet as young men and let us start walking like spiritual fathers and I pray that for all of us in Christ I ask it amen I’m going to focus as I did last time on one specific passage of scripture verse number 21 of Colossians chapter 3 3 now before I get there I want you to notice the first word there it says fathers fathers now last Lord’s day we learned that children who are controlled by the spirit and you are word filled need to be aware of their responsibility in their action to be obedient to parents and in their attitude to honor them because that is really a place of blessing that’s where God is honored the most and that’s where the person themsel is honored the most this Lord’s day I’m concerned to show how important fathers are to the leadership of their families now let me read a quote that brings to mind to the mind of fathers the awesome responsibility and power they actually have over their children and it says this it says men the mere fact of fatherhood has endowed you with terrifying power in the lives of your sons and daughters because they have an innate god-given passion for you the terrible fact is we can either Grace our children or damn them so men as fathers you have such incredible power and you will have this power until you die so in a sense fathers have the power of life and death concerning their families so fathers are called to be loving leaders and leadership in the home means seeing that all members of the family are cared for physical welfare their food clothing shelter all of what is ordinarily what is ordinarily called Necessities must be provided for yet if we were to put a finger on a principal area of failure among fathers or potential failure it would be in the area of spiritual leadership in the home the father who abdicates his responsibility for Spiritual discipline and training of his children to his wife is putting her in a place where she is not able to bear that alone if this is the case she finds it necessary to say to her husband more often than she would like honey let’s go to Sunday school let’s go to church as a family let’s read the Bible let’s pray see leadership in these things often is driven by the wife rather than the husband however this role reversal brings with it dire consequences because children learn largely by example they learn that the church is for women they learn that they can do without it they learn that Christianity is not a very manly religion and conclude that it is fine for little children and women but men can take it or leave it now yes Christ is presented in scripture as a real man the very God that he is see Jesus experienced the blessing of a quality life where I ended last time saying Jesus kept increasing in wisdom and stature and in favor with God and Men you see Christianity is actually a manly religion it has a savior who was so much a man that he died he did not fear death he went to the cross to bear the guilt and penalty and wrath of God in the place of his people he was a man a man who loved so dearly that he was willing to give his life for his his people the church and those of course who put their faith and trust in him find life through his death so fathers who seek to imitate Christ’s loving leadership they must be real men who are willing to do what they must to be examples of Christ to their families that mothers who take seriously their responsibility to see to it children are properly trained with a blessing which will be a blessing actually to all now we all know that that doesn’t happen perfectly that happens with a lot of flaws but it can happen as one becomes a Christian and has the holy spirit of God and the word of God in their hand from last week the most basic obligation children have toward their parents is that of obedience it is about children acquiring the knowledge to live wisely and of course experiencing when they do the blessing of a quality life fathers have a lot to do with a child’s quality of life now as we come to our text this morning this Lord’s Day a question questions actually arise immediately from the passage and I want again you to notice chapter 3 verse number 21 it says this again fathers comma so the questions are why did the Apostle Paul address fathers why didn’t he address mothers also after all don’t mothers from the earliest time in the child’s life bear more time and influence on them than fathers do now we can answer that question yes however there are at least two reasons why the Apostle Paul addresses specific specifically fathers he does it here and he also does it in the parallel verse in Ephesians chapter 6 and the reason the first thing is this that discipline and governance of the home is given to the father so the first reason is that fathers are God’s ordained head of the home and are the ones whom God has vested his authority for discipline and the proper training of the children now even when the Apostle Paul addresses pastors young pastors he says in Timothy that there’s a very high standard and and I believe that this standard should be a standard for all men and what is the standard in 1 Timothy 3 verse4 it says he must be one who manages his own household well keeping his children under control with all dignity and then it says this in in parenthesis and if a man does not know how to manage his own household how will he take care of the Church of God if he can’t do the little league how can he do the big league well all men need to know how to do the little league which would be their family and there’s a number of ways in which they might manage their own households yet in all the father others must be in control and be aware of everything that happens in the whole in the home god holds him responsible for example in the passage we read this morning in Deuteronomy six fathers are directed by God in that passage as the ones who must answer questions to their children when are they’re asked in addition they must teach their children of about God about his commands about his ordinances and whatever his else his word says about what he requires and it’s done how it’s done in a a formal way and it’s also done in an informal way but most of the instruction is done in an informal way as it’s addressed in the passage in Deuteronomy chapter 6 where it says and you shall teach them diligently to your sons and you shall talk of them when they sit in your house and when they walk by the way and when they lie down and when they rise up so this is what a father does as he’s moving around through his day and his kids are following him around he’s teaching them and he’s teaching about the Lord he’s teaching about relationships he’s teaching you about them he’s teaching them about Sin he’s teaching them about God’s Redemption and it’s do it’s done on a normal basis like you know driving in the car sitting at a restaurant wherever you are sitting on your couch at home he’s instructing he’s not necessarily getting out a book and says get your pen and fill in the blanks no he’s showing them by example it’s a constant conversation an example every day for the most rest of your life so that is the first thing is that the fa the father is finally responsible for what happens and what doesn’t happen in the home and so that means that he’s given the discipline and governance of the home that’s all given to the father a second thing we find in our passage is that the duty of the father is expressed in a negative imperative and this is the second reason that it it that is found in our text why Paul addresses father it is a negative and it says and it is what fathers are not to do now I want you to see what it says here in verse 21 of Colossians chapter 3 it says fathers do not exasperate your children now I I I think to myself as say wow that’s pretty direct and that’s directed at fathers the word the word exac aspirate actually means it’s used in a bad sense here to to mean to make resentful to irritate to Rouse to anger you think fathers have the ability to do that you better believe they do but sometimes they do it and they don’t know they’re doing it the passage of scripture here says fathers you better know whether you’re doing this and when you’re not doing this because it means everything concerning the child and their future and how they’re going to look at a family how they’re going to look at life how they going they’re going to look at the world so if this action is in progress the Apostle is saying stop it discontinue it it seems it is not uncommon for fathers to fall into this kind of pattern of relating to their children in fact in Colossians they were very influenced by the Roman government government and the Roman principle was it was called Patria potestas and it what it meant is that fathers had unfettered Authority and Power in dealing with their children in any manner they wished however we see here in this passage the transformative nature of the teaching of the Gospel that reminded Christian Christian fathers that God has established boundaries for the use of their Authority that God has delegated to them from heaven and not only that but fathers are to exemplify before their children how the heavenly father and the Lord Jesus Christ already treats their children and how do they do that with Mercy with Grace and with with love and yes with discipline even if we go back to the first couple verses of Colossians we find right in verse number two it says to the Saints and faithful brethren in Christ who are at colassi Grace to You and peace from God the father so this grace and peace is from the father and having God as father only comes by having Jesus as Savior and Lord so Christians are children of God and therefore have a new father the father of the L Lord Jesus Christ who loves them and provides everything for them giving them everything for life and godliness now let me just mention again the parallel passage in Ephesians chapter 6 and verse number four where it says simply this fathers do not provoke your children to anger so Paul uses in Colossians the word to exasperate and in Ephesians he uses the word anger now putting these two passages of scriptures together we get a fuller picture that a father must guard against allowing either themselves their wives or any other person in the family or outside the family to provoke their children to anger he is to guard them in that way and this includes from Colossians remember Colossians is about exposing false teachers this has to do with false teaching too because in the backdrop of this bad behavior of fathers is the teaching of the false teachers that could be supporting this harsh treatment and remember the two greatest failures of the teaching of Colossians were its disparaging of Christ and therefore distorting the Christian life so if teaching dethroned Christ is not only robs him of his rightful place of preeminence but it distorts all the foundational doctrines of the Christian faith and of the Christian Life and the Christian life becomes merely what a set of man-made rules and regulations with no spiritual power and no ability to deal with the sin nature to put sin to death so false teachers and their teaching if acted upon will lead people into becoming grace abusers and grace Killers a Grace killer is someone who’s a legalist too many a lot of rules and so they opt for giving a list of dos and don’ts to accept not only to AC be accepted by your father but to be accepted by God They Don’t Really Leave Room For Gray areas Fellowship is based on whether uh they’re in full agreement with the right standards that’s more important and relationships are less important all also there are those who are Grace abusers they give license to people listen very few rules do what you want no boundaries so they go too far and set aside all self-control they take Liberty to such an extreme that they begin serving sin again so if I as I mentioned last time the the fifth commandment puts parents in in um in the place in which they are personifying Godly character before their children then fathers should not be a stumbling block before their children by giving them the impression that if they cannot please their Earthly father how in the world they’re going to please the heavenly father that’s a very bad impression so what is the reason in Colossians for this command to fathers well look again with me at the passage because it gives us the reason notice what it says in chapter 3 verse number 21 it says fathers do not exasperate your children so that they will not lose heart so that they will not lose heart the phrase means don’t take the wind out of their CS it further means to have no Spirit or courage to be disen heartened dispirited or broken in spirit we can just use the basic word to discourage them it is when a child loses the will to please his or her parents giving up giving up on and writing off their parents’ discipline in disgust so what causes exasperated children to turn their backs on their parents and to close their ears and their minds and even their hearts to their parents it’s the wrong kind of discipline it’s the wrong kind of teaching see children feel that that they cannot please their parents or their father specifically and they quickly give up trying choosing rather to be silent but often when they’re silent bitterly they conform to the expectations that is expected of them counting the days or the years until they can be free of his tyranny and or they just openly Rebel we’ve all seen this happen right it could even have happened in your own personal family that this this particular thing I think all of us as I was even studying this passage of scripture I always remember things in my own life in which me and my father didn’t always get along and when we didn’t get along or I I I I heard my him and my mom arguing about something it kind of turned me off you know and I started withdrawing and I’m sure there’s many examples we can give uh when we deal with our parents how we felt about them so will our adult children what would they say about us well they say you never talk with me you never were there for me you never kept your word you didn’t listen to me when I was speaking you were always yelling at me you didn’t understand what I was going through often you only loved me when I made you look good you were never satisfied I never heard dad you were proud of me you always sat in front of some media and didn’t pay attention to what was going on you embarrassed me in front of my friends you never touched or hugged me you and Mom were always fighting and arguing you didn’t trust me you didn’t let me make my decisions when I was mature enough to do so you always you were always at work hardly ever home you never took time to have fun with me you said mean things that I’ll never forget you told me I never amount to anything you made my life actually miserable you were too rigid and unreasonable you never helped me feel good about myself you told me to do things that you wouldn’t do and then in the end when I needed you you left I don’t know about you I don’t want those things being said about me by my kids I’m sure there are some in there they could say things right about you and I all right this is all placed on in scripture on the father so what are some common sense causes that could exasperate children now not necessarily mentioned in our text but I’m saying Common Sense well here’s the first one how about underd discipline unannounced rules that are made known only after the child has broken them that provokes exasperation when rules change day by day a child doesn’t know where they stand when rules are enforced only at the whims of the parents and the child becomes confused because that kind of rule is not really a rule and usually unclear rules and penalties are usually unknown that exasperates children so kids finally throw up their hands and say what’s the use in trying to keep the rules you never know what they are or inconsistent dis displine today I got away with breaking the rules yesterday I was overly punished for breaking the rules what’s going to happen tomorrow frustrating unpredictable parents parents you need to be predictable your kid should know what you’re about how you’re going to respond so young people I would like to say this want rules they want to know where the limits are and here’s some counsel some things that I’ve learned the father should sit down with his wife the mother of his children and they should come up with a set of rules and at the same time the punishment for breaking those rules and then sit your kids down age appropriate of course and communicate to them the rules and the punishment for breaking them why do you do that so that they will know ahead of time just what will happen then the parents are to be consistent in enforcing them so parents if you are inconsistent and undependable you will be disobeying this very CA command in the text especially fathers fathers do not exasperate your children if you do so that they will uh so they will not lose heart and if you do not keep that then you will be Paving the road to for them to potentially be provoked in aspir uh exasperation and anger towards you and your wife it’s really better when you’re bringing up kids to have few fewer rules to formulate formulated specic specific specifically around obedience the action of obedience in the attitude that should accompany obedience for instance let’s make a rule when Dad when the dad and the mom tell the child when I call you you are to come at the first call that’s obedience and if you do you will do well but if you don’t come when called the first time that’s Disobedience if disobedience comes to light then the child is told that the penalty will be that they will meet the parent at their bedroom door and then they will receive in inside the bedroom in a controlled way three wax with the rod of Correction applied to their hind end that’s pretty simple to understand isn’t it I think all kids could understand that when I first started doing this with our kids I didn’t know what I was doing but at that point I started studying The Book of Proverbs and from Proverbs gave me very good instruction on what to do and I be began to apply this to all our kids my wife and I and we were amazed how quickly they learned and they stopped the behavior that we wanted them to stop but as a pastor I have sat sat down with people about these very biblical principles show them all the text that the Bible says and they says oh I couldn’t do that and some even says that’s child abuse I don’t think so this is wisdom that comes from Heaven to the parents and believe me if you get your children to listen to your voice early when they become teenagers they won’t be exasperated they won’t be exasperated so if the child does not obey the parent the first time according to the established Rule and penalty right if they don’t obey who’s in charge the parent or the child I tell you what when your kids don’t obey you you’re no longer in charge they’re in charge right you have given them Authority that they don’t know how to handle so you can teach discipline better with one rule properly enforced than with 15 rules that you never really follow up on once you get a result from one rule then you can add a second rule that’s I think the best way to do it I know that even some counselors have uh written books on that is the best way to do it in fact the example we have about that principle is the Lord God himself well how do I know that that well the Lord only gave 10 commandments for all of life only 10 and they’re very short some of them so they were to be taught they were to be memorized and they were to be lived out and if they were taught memorized and lived out today there would be a lot less war and a lot more peace with people so in the Garden of Eden there was just one rule for Adam and Eve Obed obedience centered around that particular Rule and the penalty was also clearly spelled out Adam and Eve were told not to eat of that tree all the rest of the trees were theirs but this one tree was off limits listen what it says and they had one rule it says in Genesis 2: 16 it says the Lord commanded the man saying from any tree of the garden you may eat freely but from the Tree of the knowledge of good nil you shall not eat and what was the penalty he spelled it out very clearly for the day that you eat from it you will surely what die you will surely die so long before the sin God said don’t but if you do this is this will be the consequences and when it happened God follow through and man die died and plundered the whole human race in the fall into sin so it was one act of Disobedience to God with very clear Rule and the penalty of that of breaking that rule and that was we suffered that consequence today the same is true when you uh when the Israelites went into the promised land God God’s rules and penalties and rewards were made very very clear if you read through the Old Testament you’re going to find there’s a chapter in the Old Testament about the Mount of blessing and the Mount of or and cursing and the people would read the blessing and then they would go back and forth and read back and forth the blessings and the cursings why do they do that you know what so they would know what are the blessings and if I break the blessings and don’t keep God’s commands here’s the curses see that’s true so the blessings of God were spelled out for obedience and the curses and disob obedience plainly listed all was laid out ahead of time see this is God’s pattern God told them that if they sin they would be scattered among the Nations he told them the awful Siege of the city that it would be destroyed he told them all these things long before they entered into the Promised Land they knew exactly what penalties were to be and and what they uh what was to come about if they kept them and if they broke them so the people failed to obey God’s clear command and when they did God follow through with the curses so when our children don’t obey I mean don’t they disobey that’s very painful one thing that we cannot do is we cannot change we we cannot manipulate their will in the sense where we can make them do what we want them to do they have their own will they have their own personality and but much of the sorrow that we experience as parents of wayward children comes from the self-doubt and guilt that we are prone to feel feel when there’s failures in our children and we ask questions like what did we do wrong did I love him or her too much or not enough what did we say or fail to say that would have turned his or her heart towards us and towards god well it was John MacArthur who said this uh when he was writing about children he says equipping a child with spiritual TR truth is no guarantee he or she will follow Christ I know many diligent parents he said and grandparents whose Hearts have made have been made broken by a family member’s rejection of Christ we can only plant the seeds by teaching and living out the truth how they respond is out of our hands now as truthful as that is it is as painful as it is truthful from the standpoint of human responsibility both parents and children make choices for which we are held accountable ultimately however we must rely on God to do in our lives and in the lives of our children what we are unable to do ourselves what does it say in psalm 27 unless the Lord builds the house those who build it labor in vain you know that the Lord has has to pour out just as much grace to save children from a believing family as an unbelieving family so we parents are not in control of our children’s Destiny we are power is to create faith in our children’s Hearts while we can encourage our children to hunger for wisdom’s feast we cannot make that choice for them only The Sovereign L The Sovereign Lord can change a child’s heart and that’s because as dear as they are to us our children are Sinners by Nature so biblically speaking there are no no good kids we may assume that our children are good because they aren’t in serious trouble and they are reasonably compliant but such an assessment is based on outward behavior and not the inner heart as much as we want to believe that our children are good it will only be from a human standpoint you’re good but you’re not as bad as that other person so I guess you’re good but we need to realize that ultimately the question is good of goodness doesn’t have to do with what we perceive or think but whether our child truly has received Christ as his or her own Lord and savior so much grace is though available in a Christian home and if a a father is following the word of God in his Christian home there he will be the authority and there’ll be lots of rules but there’ll be boundaries and there’ll be penalties for breaking those rules but along with that there’ll be a lot of love and there’ll be a lot of confidence built into the the child in a lot of security and even going with that a lot of fun you just enjoyed life nobody was perfect in that situation but you just put God’s principles into practice and you saw them work now what are some other Causes That Could lead to the exasperation of children I had to think about some of these things of course being overly uh overly strict to control your child you’re you’re more like a policeman and rarely give your children Freedom also elevating expectations that are not appropriate to the child’s makeup or age always pushing for achievement and making the child reach goals or do things that is beyond their ability when they keep failing to reach the goals of the parents for of of the parents expectations the child concludes I can do nothing for them that will be enough and so what that’s exasperation they don’t understand me unjust rules and penalties or responsibilities laid Upon a Child what about unreasonableness a parent who is unwilling to hear his child’s case instead parents as children go grow older allow them to explain their position it may be valid it may not be valid they may deserve punishment but that also they may be right you know I grew up in a home where the kids are not to speak when the adults were around did you goow a home like that a strong Catholic polish home uh uh uh uh no no so I didn’t say much around the adults and if I did say things around the adults I better duck because I would get now my parents weren’t biblical Christians they had no knowledge of those things and in the and at the end I had a great relationship my parents my father came to know the Lord my mother came to know the Lord it it was just but it was a long process you know and uh you have to listen to your kids when they get to a certain point you have to listen to them even you know they may be more reasonable than you sometimes comparison to other siblings oh don’t do that ever why aren’t you like your brother or sister oh no don’t do that each child is uniquely made different by God Parents should nurture them based on who they are their talents their gifts their physical intellectual abilities and also their bents towards sin children are created so different one doesn’t sin the way the other one sins but they both sin so you can’t treat them alike in that way if you do then you’re to break their spirit because they will never be their brother and sister what about divided Authority mothers and fathers who disagree on various rules and penalties in the home they have two different ideas about punishment and where how does it it results in this unagreed rules and unagreed penalties when they disagree well nothing ever happens they never carry anything out actually what happens is chaos and confusion and then children are smart enough to know that when their parents are in agreement they learn how to get their own way by setting one parents against another they’re smart they are smart what about abuse of any type physical verbal or mental abuse that should never be in the home it could be you ever hear of disciple decimal uh deciple discipline you know deciple another way of saying is yelling it really just creates frustration and Chaos for all the parent uses deciples to get attention and to increase the the decibels increase volume until they finally comply and the child concludes I don’t have to obey Mommy and Daddy till they put on their mad voice and you know your children knows your voice right they know when you’re being funny and and and serious they know when you’re um being uh at the point where you better come or else but if your children are not obeying the first time you’re not in control if you have to yell you’re not in control they’re in control what about the lack of the Father’s Love and nurture not being an example always withholding your approval and encouragement only telling your child when they’re wrong never when they did something right and then they’ll just another one neglect No Boundaries no love which leads to no confidence in security see neglect for sure will spell trouble David King David neglected Absalon his son and abson became a great heartbreak in David’s life and US parents really can’t afford the price of being so busy that we don’t have time for our kids so that is the negative part of a father but there is a positive part Paul did not bring it up in Colossians he brought it up in Ephesians and the positive the duty of a father is also expressed with a positive imperative and what is that positive imperative the imperative is this in Ephesians chapter 6 verse number four fathers don’t provoke them to anger Colossians don’t exasperate them what but bring them up in the discipline and the instruction of the Lord pretty simple there I just going to go through some of these uh quickly so parents are responsible to humbly honor the Lord and Faithfully obey his word in training their children although it is true that God doesn’t absolutely guarantee success in the response to our faithful parenting the Bible does make it very clear that parents are responsible to train their children according to God’s principles that is their job and the first one is to bring them up and that just simply means to feed them to nourish them to bring them up in a good wholesome environment and in bringing them up in that environment to use your power to direct your K children so they don’t uh and you don’t leave it for someone else use your power to restrain them do it in a calm and controlled and respectful man manner use your power to test and judge them to be fair and balanced with them secondly from our text you’re to discipline them education by means of discipline training by verbal reproof and or argument that means also applying to their gluteus maximist the needed pressure to get them to listen to your voice because a child by nature is sin bound and so a father needs to reprove his child from errors we are to diligently discipline our kids in the hope that God will work through our discipline and nurture them and draw them to the Lord Jesus Christ someday actually this Hebrew word in the Old Testament for discipline is really the the the discipline or training of the individual in areas where he or she is unruly and does not want to be told and of course a parent should know those areas so he’s to instruct them to train them to discipline them to correct them and many times to do that with the rod when they are younger and if a parent used uses the rod applied in a very controlled and safe and consistent way to the gluteus maximus of the child the child will listen to the voice of the parents and they will become obedient and they will do it quicker than you think and then as they get older you have to change your methods of instruction and AD admonition and discipline and when you do that uh you learn a child well enough to know what they like and they don’t don’t like and when they don’t obey you you take away what they like right like on a nice beautiful day they want to go outside and they play you say come over here sit by the table you you weren’t treating your sister nicely and you broke one of our let’s say that was one of our rules let’s sit down here 500 times you’re going to write straight across on that line right I will be kind and nice to my CH sister something like that and you know and all a sudden and if you go off that line you have to start all over again you know because what happened is that when I did that the first time when our kids the line started getting like going south and I said well what happened to that line so I had change that up a little bit but it works but you have to know your children and you have to learn how to use those things in a very good way uh to be able to adjust them and direct them in the right manner because a child I mean a child is somebody that you have to apply for the force necessary to cause them to follow your verbal in instructions you have to do that and also the pressure to hold them back from what they would do if they were left to their own desires if you said to your kids listen make your own meal eat what you want well what what are they going to oh yeah mashed potatoes string beans meat right no chips soda right if they continue to do that their health is not going to do so well it’s but sometimes that’s the freedom that sometimes parents give their kids on all areas and it doesn’t work well for them in the future it really does not the Bible says that discipline your son and he will give you rest he will Delight your heart Proverbs 19:18 discipline your son while while there is hope and do not desire his death Pro Proverbs 23:13 do not hold back discipline from your child although you beat him with the rod he will not die see the Lord encourages us to train our children because we might be the very means he will use to rescue our children from destruction and protect them from the foolishness that already resides in their own heart and then of course not only are we to bring them up discipline them we are are also to instruct them and what do we do to instruct them men where it says in in Ephesians to instruct the instruction of the Lord or by means of like it says in Proverbs 29:17 correct your son and he will give you comfort he will also Delight your soul so again parent parents accountability to develop in their children a taste for righteousness to develop in their child a submissive and respectful demeanor to discipline the will toward obedience and as a parent does that they’re observing their kids they’re understanding that they have a fallen nature and that they’re going to sin they’re observing their child’s way like it says in Proverbs there’s a way all right that that word Derek is used all over the place in Proverbs all right there’s a certain way about each child there are certain bents towards towards sin there’s certain bents towards righteousness there’s certain gifts and abilities you’re recognizing this so when a child go grows older you can give them some counsel on on what they should do you know maybe a child says you know I want to go to college and you say to them you know what I think that you so skilled with your hands college is not going to be a good place for you you need to go to trade school because you can use those skills in in a better way to be a plumber or electrician or something else and not College hey we know a lot of college kids today they graduate with a degree and they’re working at Starbucks and McDonald’s seems like some of the jobs are drying up so you’re steering your child away from their natural bents to sin and you want to build up Godly character you want to teach your children wisdom from the word of God you want to instill dignity and respect in them that they would increase in knowledge and stature and in favor with God and men and then you want to try to remove all Tendencies to Prejudice where it says in Titus to speak evil of no one to love people to treat people no matter who they are where they come from how they look how they’re dressed what they eat what culture they have to treat them with respect because respect will get you a lot of ground to bringing the gospel to them right so even though there is no easy method to ensure well-balanced children parents are like Farmers parenting is plowing and digging and raking and planting it’s weeding and cultivating and irrigating and then waiting on the heaven until the Harvest but you never can give up you never can step back and even after they leave the home you’re still parenting different role you’re more like a a counselor to them and hopefully they do come to you for counsel and that’s when they do that’s a lot of acknowledgment that you did something that you ought to have done so here are some some some several ways to get started number one create an environment that is encouraging and healthy in your home in this en environment children should be able to feel appreciated and cared for it and love a place that they can find emotional and spiritual and physical comfort and protection your home should be a Haven it should be a place you rest and enjoy life if it’s other than that you’re doing doing something wrong secondly create clear rules and penalties to protect from exasperating your children let them know where the lines are and show them what happens to people who refuse to live under the wise rule of the word of God and God himself and give them insight and insensitive incentive and encouraging encouragement and then thirdly would be to create good good reasons and incentives for right choices if you obey this will happen if you disobey this will happen and if you do what is right there are rewards and benefits that come with it then once you do that let them choose their consequences and if they choose wrong choices they must pay for their wrong Chas choices and I would say this to parents at this point do not always want to rescue your children you can’t always rescue them they have to learn that sometimes their choices are going to have consequences that only they can deal with always looking over their shoulder of course always wanting to make sure they don’t fall too far right so what will our children say you weren’t perfect but I didn’t I didn’t expect you to be you were always there when I needed you I always knew you loved me we we used to have so much fun as a family I still remember some of the talks we had I’m so thankful I had you as my dad in mom I always knew that I could talk to you you made me always feel so special and you actually came to trust me when I was making decisions and supported me you made it when you were wrong and I’m glad you didn’t always let me have my way you gave me room to be myself you made me feel good about myself I remember the stories that you used to tell me I can’t believe how patient you were with me you gave me a love for nature you gave me a love for people and you gave me a love for God I knew I could always trust you I always knew that you wanted the best for me you showed me how to care for others and I was proud to have you as my my friends to meet you I know you you’d love me no matter what you taught me how to make my own choices you let me learn from my own mistakes you knew I I always knew you always tried to keep your word that’s really how we want our kids to view US don’t we so fathers you are given responsibility that comes from God fathers you are a to avoid the negative imperative to live in a way where you cause your children to be angry or to be exasperated and fathers it is your job to implant in your kids a positive and consistent example of what God requires in the home and when you do that everybody’s the happier but also the church is the stronger and the society and Nation are stronger because that’s the Next Generation amen let’s pray Lord thank you again for your word Lord it seems like when we we look at your word we’re just touching the Hem of the Garment on the wisdom that drips from it and so I pray Lord today that you you would bless fathers that you would give them Lord the desire to want to get to the place if they are not doing what your word says to start doing it and if some men here are not fathers but are future fathers you would help them to remember the instruction from the word of God and I pray Lord that even we as being in a relationship with our parents if any of those bad things happened with us and our parents Lord help us to be able to have the wisdom to know how to communicate with them now and that Lord you would even take away some of the things that we did that kind of destroyed our relationship and Lord please rebuild this with our parents and for all the young children that are here I pray Lord that I know they have many voices speaking to them from the world but I pray Lord your voice would be louder than all the rest and they would listen to you that to obey is pleasing to the Lord because it leads to all other the all really all the rest of the goodness of life and Lord give us all wisdom together to help each other with our even with our own children to be able to instruct each other other and help each other about based on what we know and what worked for us and how the word of God was implemented that we can share it with those who don’t know it yet and I pray Lord bring it all together so that you may raise strong biblical families and that you would raise strong biblical children who know you as Lord and Savior and are willing to go out into the world and be an example and to be a testimony to the Great Name of Jesus Christ That Others May hear the gospel and be saved and I pray this this morning in your name amen

  • The Imperatives for Transformed Families and Children

    The Imperatives for Transformed Families and Children

    In this sermon, Pastor Joe Babij examines Colossians 3:20 and the apostle Paul’s exhortation there as to how children should live Spirit-filled, Word-filled lives in relation to their parents.

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    thank you praise team for ushering us to the Gates of Heaven this morning we are back in Colossians and um try not to lose my voice this morning I’ve had a a bout of something I just messes with your voice and so um I have my Ginger and my honey and lemon drink here up here in the Pulpit so if I lose my voice I we’ll just have a word of prayer and go home all right but Colossians chapter 3 and uh I’m looking at verse number 18 through verse 21 let me read that this morning verse 18- 21 Colossians chapter 3 it says wives be subject to your husband as is fitting in the Lord husbands love your wives and do not be embittered against them children be obedient to your parents in all things for this is well pleasing to the Lord fathers do not exasperate your children so that they will not lose heart let’s pray father this morning as we look at this passage in the context of this book give us instruction this morning as to parents and children how that all works Lord in a way that we hold to the promise that’s connected to this passage the promise of a long and Abundant Life so I pray Lord that you would just give us ears to hear and a will to receive the word of God so that we would implement the principles found therein and these imperatives that are so important for our forward growth in Christ Jesus and bless us in that way I ask in Christ’s name amen so we’re looking at this passage of scripture but I’m going to focus in this morning on one passage one passage and that is the passage that says children because I’ve already covered verse 18 18 and 19 children be obedient to your parents in all things for this is well pleasing to the Lord now so far in the book of Colossians I have been saying all along that the new self is the new creature in Christ and on and only the Christian has the capacity to consider themselves dead to sin and alive to God with the ability given by the holy spirit of God to actually serve and please God no one has that ability unless a Christ they’re a Christian unless they have the spirit of God and that’s including in our passage children loving God loving God’s word and loving God’s son includes hating sin with the desire to pursue righteousness therefore salvation is not a matter of improvement or Perfection it is a matter of comprehensive Pro Progressive transformation and what is that that is to be like Christ that is where the spirit of God is taking all of us is to be like Christ as much as possible in your life and children who are controlled by the spirit and who are word filled need to be aware that their responsibility is to be in their action obedient to their parents and in their attitude honor them and the Bible kind of like goes back and forth with these two terms of obedience and honor they kind of dovil together and this Lord’s day I’m concerned to show children and parents that they can be submissive to their parents because this is truly the place of blessing you want to be blessed you want the honor of God upon you you even want to be happy then this is where it happens when children learn to be obedient to their parents and learn to honor them so there is something very sacred about the family in scripture about the relationship between parents and children so special to God is this relationship that in the Old Testament God told Israel in the Ten Commandments if you want to have a time of blessedness and happiness in this new Promised Land if you want to go on living under the blessing of God then you must keep the fifth commandment and the fifth commandment reads this in Exodus we read it in Deuteronomy in Exodus it says the same thing honor your father and mother that your days may be prolonged in the land which the Lord your God gives you so notice that this command is smack right in the middle of the 10 and it is the first of God’s ten commandments that ends with a promise the first four didn’t the the next section of the decalogue will will not this one does so this obviously becomes a very important point in all of our Lives because we all have parents all right we all have parents in some respect we all have Guardians over our lives if we didn’t have natural parents then maybe we were born into a family or we were adopted whatever it may be somebody has authority over you and that person is considered uh to be someone that you are to obey and honor now what is the promise well the promise is that if you honor your father and mother yours will be a long full life full of blessing now if you want to live a blessed life a full life under the blessing of God observe and keep this commandment God is pleas with his people to keep this commandment the fifth commandment has been referred to as a transitional commandment this is because the family structure lays at the foundation of all other forms of authority and obedience in the culture this is where they learn it if they don’t learn it there they usually don’t learn it out there so it’s the job of the parents of course they’re the ones modeling this before the children that ought to be taking place and that is definitely in the mind of Paul here in Colossians what is he actually doing in chapter 3 you know what he’s doing he’s going back to the foundational doctrines in Genesis and he’s saying listen these false teachers are not teaching this and they have no results but you as a Believer when you put these and Implement these principles you will have results now the conscious real real ity when we come to this fifth commandment is that we humans created in the image of God are responsible for our character we are responsible for our actions we are justly held accountable for habits and words and deeds so then this fifth commandment is the bridge between our responsibility to our God and our responsibility manward parents do in some sense occupy to their children the place of God just think for a moment much of what and who you are comes from your parents from our parents right our voice length and shape of our limbs our height the color of our hair the strength and clearness of our sight the soundness of our brain our muscular vigor whatever constitutes our weakness in our power was largely determined for us by what our parents were we also were and are dependent upon them for food and clothing and Care without which we would die we were and are dependent on their wisdom or their whim on their harshness or their kindness for our happiness we we depend on those things and really for greater importance for our happiness because it starts right in the family it starts with mother and father and children all these influence us and gives us Direction and form as to the development of our character so here’s the Prof ity of the Fifth Commandment that we alone are responsible for our actions honor your father and your mother this is this is the first place that we will learn how to interact with others whether we come from a good family or not so good we are still responsible as to how we respond to the parental relationship now as we come to Colossians chapter 3 we will find in this this one verse in verse number 20 and this is another imperative it’s another command and there are three things that we can learn from this imperative this morning and the first one is it’s to be taken seriously secondly it has a comprehensive component to it and thirdly it redirects one’s attention on Jesus that’s what it does and I want to look at the first one this the an imperative that is to be taken very seriously notice verse number 20 the first part of that verse notice children be obedient to your parents again an imperative a command it means very basically other places it’s translated to listen you got to listen first before you obey you have to process that before you can actually obey actually as other places it means to submit to to be subject to and the ultimate idea of the relationship between parents and children is to be found in the relationship between God and all mankind honoring parents and God are closely related so give honor to where honor is due the Hebrew word for honor is the word kabad which means weighty to be weighed down with respect it means to honor your father and mother is a very serious and weighty commandment don’t think it’s just something you can take or leave it’s something you need to not only understand but actually to implement in your life to honor one’s parents means much more than obedience obedience is included but further it is to give your parents a place of superiority to hold them in high esteem so the parental relationship is the first and most important relationship it is a relationship that will shape all other relationships that you have of course there are all kinds of exceptions that is good parents with bad kids and bad parents with good kids it’s out there you we know we all have met people in situations like this so God places a special value on Parental Authority the parent and child relationship is the first place where we learn what it is to have someone in authority over us and how important that is remember last time we looked at verses 18 and 19 and it said wives be subject to your husband so the context is still about being subject being submissive to someone who God placed in the order of things over you and so in the home is the place that we learn it the most we learn to listen we learn to obey even when we are told things to do that we don’t want to do it is a place where children learn how to honor and respect others and what it means to worship God and carry out the first four commandments so honoring parents includes several actions some positive some negative excuse me for example honoring your parents has positive actions to it and what are some of those uh and right here in verse number 20 it says children be obedient to your parents that means listen to them listen listening comes before obedience that the word children Techna here in the Greek does not refer specifically to young children but to the time children are under the tutelage of their parents and where they learn to submit to their Authority so the age could range from infant all the way to a what they call a child adult from 13 years old to 30 years old usually depending on whether the child is still in the home home under the authority of the parents yet children are to honor their parents the whole of their life so other words obedience bleeds into honor obedience could end at one point when you leave the home you get your own family and now you have your own responsibility to raise your children but the honor for your parents goes on the rest of your life but it starts with obedience if you do not obey them you’ll probably never honor them for whatever reason uh people won’t now if you were to make a distinction between obey and honor that means you switch from obedience to honor obey has to do with action and like Disobedience or uh obedience and honor has to do with Attitude respect or disrespect so those both things are together it’s like what it says in Ephesians because Ephesians also brings this same passage up but expands it in Ephesians where it says children obey your parents in the Lord for this is right honor your father and your mother which is uh the first commandment with a promise it’s to be noted that when Paul applies the Commandment in Ephesians to the Christian reader he omits any reference to the land of Israel and Universal izes the promise and so how could we ever keep that promise by the permanent indwelling of the Holy Spirit and we have the whole word of God so Colossians is talking about being word filled Ephesians talking about being spirit filled they’re the same thing you can’t have one without the other you have to have both of them just like what are the parents actually going to teach their kid their children well just take go back to I’m going to be looking at some Proverbs go back to Proverbs for a minute look at proverbs 23: 22- 26 notice what it says here Proverbs 23:22 again Paul’s not he he’s not preaching the New Testament in Colossians he’s preaching the Old Testament because the Old Testament New Testament are hand and glove they go together right so he’s telling us what it says in Proverbs and what’s Proverbs all about proverbs is all about how to raise Wise Kids while you’re driving from them foolishness right being naive and ultimately scoffing at things right so we want to raise wise children notice what it says in verse 22 of Proverbs 23 listen to your father who begot you and do not despise your mother when she is old buy truth and do not sell it get wisdom and instruction and understanding notice verse 24 the father of the righteous will greatly rejoice and he who SES a wise son will be glad in him let your father and your mother be glad let her Rejoice who gave birth to you give me your heart my son now notice what the last part it says and let your eye Delight in my ways you you know what you have there you have the word gets people to listen and then you have the modeling look at me as your parent See How I Live Now that that lays a lot of weight on parents because you can’t wiggle out of this you can’t give this responsibility to anyone else you must take this responsibility and really consider it to be one of the most important things that you’re called to do on this Earth is to be able to raise people raise children to be wise and you know what that’s a lot of work and it never ends just because your kids grow up and leave the home done then then there’s always communication but if your children honor you when you give your two cents after they leave the home they’ll take it and they’ll listen to you not all the time but you got to say well okay you’re a man now you’re a woman now you have to make your own decisions but I pray you make the right one right but most of the time your kids even me when they’re kicking sometimes against you they they they listen to you you know they may not never tell you that uh but they will put it into practice but nonetheless there’s the word and there’s modeling your I Delight in my ways and so as the parent is living to honor God they are teaching their children to do that now just going back to Colossians you’ll find that when we were in Colossians you find that the signs of honoring and loving your parents come how where well in chapter 3 verse number 12 when mercy is taught in the home and kindness is taught in the home and humility and gentleness and patience and forgiveness are taught in the home and when it is taught it is caught also by the kids and so when you both parents and children are doing this and putting these things into practice unity is kept relationships are built and it leads to spiritual maturity in christlikeness and spiritual fulfillment that is the blessed life that is part of the promise that is connected to this small passage of scripture here but all connected to all places in the word of God it also involves as I said positive things like listening and it also involves adhering to and imitating their teaching again without turning there Proverbs 1 verse number 8 hear my son your father’s instruction and do not forsake your mother’s teaching indeed they are a graceful wreath to your head and ornaments about your neck meaning what when children honor their parents this way and listen to their instruction it looks beautiful you don’t have to worry about going to a supermarket and your kid lying down on the floor screaming and kicking cuz they can’t have you know their favorite cereal they’re going to it’s going to be beautiful because they’re going to listen and then people say to you how how do you get your kids to listen how do you get your kids to listen man I want to get I want I want to I want that but I can’t do it well of course it they have to have the spirit of God too and the word of God to be able to do that it doesn’t it’s just not something you can give them and they can do it so you have to give the gospel that means so the best way to show yourself a fool at least a child is to think that your parents are fools The Book of Proverbs reiterates the admonition to honor one’s parents extolling them as The Fountains of wisdom Proverbs says again 101 a wise son makes his fathers glad and a foolish son is a grief to his mother so obedience and honor Fosters self-discipline in the home and it brings about stability it it brings about longevity meaning that children won’t do foolish things will will will shorten their lives right God will give them the wisdom not to listen to their friends that say take this drug or go over here or be involved with this thing which will could be a very dangerous and then uh possibly their life will be shortened obedience properly Springs from reverence and respect and vice versa also honoring your parents by avoiding negative actions so honor is equal to obedience and dishonor is equal to Disobedience disob obedience is shown in Acts and attitudes of children when they display a reckless disregard of Parental advice and a lawless demand for Freedom which really threatens the family life and produces some of the most serious societal problems of our present day and the present day of other nations too when people act out not in respect to other people but in hatred towards them and that’s what we have going on in the world today these principles in the Middle East were taught when they were young and so when they get older what would you expect this is what they were taught so a child who violates the the the word of God concerning their parents punitive measures were to be taken in the Old Testament which included really disinheritance and sometimes even death so avoiding negative actions like what not cursing your parents Exodus 12 2117 he who curses his father or his mother shall surely be put to death wow I don’t know about you if I was back in the Old Testament and I heard that say I’m I think I’ll obey my my father and my mother right I don’t want to get put to death and they actually did that in the Old Testament also not treating them with disrespect or dishonor like it says in Deuteronomy 27 in verse 16 cursed is the one who dishonors father and mother and all the people shall say amen and then of course not stealing from them Proverbs 28:24 he who robs his father and mother and says it is not a transgression it is a companion of a man who destroys also it’s not striking your parents Exodus 21:15 he who strikes his father and mother shall surely be put to death and then of course just blatant Disobedience to parents where in Deuteronomy it tells us in verse number 18 If any man has a stubborn and rebellious son who will not obey his father and his mother the mother and father shall seize him and it says they shall take him to the Elders of the city and the the sons and this son of ours they will say to the elders is a stubborn rebellious son he will not obey us he’s a glutton also and a drunkard then all the men of the city shall Stone him to death so you shall remove the evil from your mist and all Israel will hear and fear I don’t know about you that would make me afraid but see that’s the seriousness of the Commandment that’s app we don’t use these results today but if we don’t discipline our children if we don’t tell them what is right and what is wrong what is God’s way and whatever other which every other way then what happens that there will not be Unity kept in the home or in society and then we know that lawlessness cannot gain the upper hand if it does it must be dealt with and it must be removed and it should be removed at the family level that’s when you deal with with that kind of things that kind of attitude uh that come from children because they have a sinner sinful heart right we should know what sin is more than anybody else they have a sinful heart right they’re going to disobey they’re going to lie they’re going to do things that they’re not supposed to do we already know that we did that so we’re no different than them but once we get the word of God and now we have transformation going on in our life and we know what is right then we want to pass that down to our kids right because I didn’t have this when I was young I didn’t have the word of God I wasn’t a Believer when I was young not not until I was like 21 22 I became a Christian and and so when I came to the word of God I say wow that’s that’s something I that that is true that’s the way it ought to be you know and I didn’t learn that I thank the Lord that the Lord did give me a decent family they uh there was obedience in the home there was uh retribution maybe not the kind that the Bible talks about but there there was and it did Keep Me In Line uh it did keep me in line and I did have uh a respect for my mother and father and I think one of the reasons why is because I was I did learn the Ten Commandments and the Ten Commandments I I would repeat those and repeat them repeat them it’s stuck in my head that’s what the Commandments say and I want to honor God didn’t know what I was really doing back then but it turned out to be uh something that the Lord did but again going back to Colossians what are the signs of Dishonor and disrespected Colossians Colossians 3: number 5 therefore consider the members of your Earthly body to be dead to what immorality all right impurity passion evil desire and greed which amounts to idolatry so that in the home that you are teaching your children to avoid shameful desires and sinful uh sexual sin and impurity and lust and greed and idolatry and then also in Colossians 3:8 and9 they also are to avoid anger and malicious behavior and slander and dirty language and lying and when they do that the parents and the children are to do these things put them to death so it doesn’t destroy relationships to rid ourselves from these things because they are they will break uh Unity within the home and they end up crushing the people that God is granting to a particular family so that means the general principle was Disobedience and dishonor promote a lack of discipline which in turn brought instability a shortened life and the lack of well-being within the home now there obviously uh there’s obvious difficulties that rise out from this subject some young people may say today that their parents are not lovable uh and therefore they cannot obey and love them or that they say that my parents are not wise and therefore I cannot obey and respect them or someone would say that my parents are unre unreasonable and selfish and have vices and sin and temper and and speech problems and therefore it is impossible for me to honor them now there’s not a few children I’m sure that in our days who are inclined to take that position at first hearing that could seem to be reasonable enough but if the tables are turned would the children want the parents or Guardians to judge them with the standard that they’re judging of course not see the word of God gives warning to the church because worldliness has come into the church and some consider this teaching to be old-fashioned and too restrictive and Satan has done a good job destroying the family and now his Target is children that’s what the target is now so you destroy Society you destroy the family you get to the children there’s nothing left and then of course you attack the church and the word of God and that’s where it’s going next in his plan the world could not be disorganized in all its rebellion and all the things going on unless this the mystery of lawlessness was going on behind the scenes and Satan was was pulling the strings everything is being set up for the time that the Antichrist will sit on the throne and and Proclaim himself God and people will say wor worship Him and there will be one world government and one monetary system and one religion uh and everybody will be controlled and they will know where you are all the time they will know what you spend things on they will have algorithms to what you desire what you don’t desire what you buy what you don’t buy so the day has come in which irreligion and godlessness and lawlessness are permeating everything including the home scriptures description of lawlessness is clear in Romans 1:30 what does it say slander haters of God insulin arrogant boastful inventors of evil evil disobedient to parent of course second Timothy brings it up again Paul speaking to Young Timothy being the pastor there at Ephesus he says you men will be lovers of self lovers of money boastful arrogant revilers disobedient to parents ungrateful Unholy so children who are disrespectful and dishonoring to their parents are a picture of sheer ungodliness and lawlessness and one of the most striking striking displays of lawlessness is the observable arrogant unashamed Disobedience to Mom and Dad when it’s seen in public there’s nothing more ugly I believe in society than this there’s nothing worse that characterizes a generation than Disobedience and action and disrespect and attitude towards parents because if that’s happening in the home it will happen towards God but in the end our parents who had us loved us just the way we were because we were their children and their loving love transfigured us and most parents love us in spite of our faults and shortcomings don’t they that’s what we do with our kids and young people I would say this that your parents who have lived in the world 20 or 30 years longer than yourselves have found some things out worth knowing of which you know nothing if you are silly enough to dispense of all their experience and what they have learned from the word of God you are tolerably certain to suffer for your Folly anyhow when you come to scripture it says honor your father and mother so do not express habitual contempt for what you perhaps rashly supposed to be your parents ignorance or prejudices that if you knew a little more of the world you might possibly see in them a power and a wisdom which as yet you and your youth have not yet discovered or experienced so the bottom line is that Authority came to be generally disregarded and the whole structure of society when it is disregarded dissolves so disobedient children reflect upon their parents and are ashamed to the home and to the church so to fail to teach children to to obey is to disobey God and being really bring disrepute upon his name as well as making children unpopular with everyone else so spoiled youngsters make poor employees they make poor employers they make poor husbands poor wives poor parents they in the end become Misfits in society so today many push aside God’s rule to not spare the rod and substitute reason with your child now it would be fine if they were reasonable but little children and rebellious teenagers are not reasonable so as long as they are eating and sleeping at home they should obey their parents so parents complain that I could do nothing with them the fact of the matter is that many parents do nothing with them when they were small and now that they’re big they can’t do nothing with them they did nothing to disciplin them they didn’t put out making rules and setting boundaries for them and that if you break the rules and you move past the boundaries there are consequences that’s a loving home that does that because that’s how the world is set up is it not there’s always rules I mean let’s face it when you come to a stop sign if you decide not to stop at a busy intersection what could happen right by chance you can get through it and nothing happens but try it again and your chances aren’t going to be very high so in the Old Testament the bible really tells us Micah tells us listen when disorder comes into the family and in relationships and into friendships and into the neighborhood this is how it sounds the prophet Micah recorded it like this do not trust in a neighbor do not have confidence in a friend for her who lies in your bosom guard your lips for Sons treat fathers contemptuously daughters rais up against their mother daughter-in-law against her mother-in-law a Man’s enemies are men of his own household so to despise those who brought them into the world and nurture of them to adulthood is a sign of the times difficult times will come and this is part of it because men will be lovers of money and self and disobedient to parents and of course lovers of pleasure rather than lovers of God it all takes place in progression and it starts right in the home right with Obe obeying parents so is that important it’s heavy it’s weighty it’s a weighty command to us we would we should take it seriously now that that leads me to my second point and it’s this it’s this the second imperative that we can learn from what we can learn from this imperativ is that is it is an imperative that has a comprehensive component to it back in Colossians chapter 3 notice the second part it says children obey your parents what in all things in in all things why all things well just consider that for a moment because children are born with a sin nature so already they are born with no knowledge so they’re naive they’re born with no wisdom so prone to foolishness and left to themselves prone to self-centeredness and wickedness also it is the parents who who have been given by God the authority they have the authority to do what they have the authority it says in the word of God to direct their children they have the authority to direct their children it says in Proverbs 29 in verse number 15 the rod and reproof give wisdom but a child who gets his own way brings shame to his mother also they have the power to restrain them proverb 29:17 correct your son and he will give you comfort and he will also Delight your soul and then they have the power to actually test how things are going and then judge how things are going in Proverbs 29 and: 18 where there is no vision the people are unrestrained but happy is he who keeps the law now that no vision means There’s No Boundaries There’s No Boundaries you give your children to say no you can’t go further than this if you do there’s going to be consequences so the P the power has been given and Authority has been given to parents the force necessary to cause them to follow your ver your verbal instruction and listen to you the pressure to hold them back from what they would do if you left them to their own will and desire and of course the adjustment of pressure to to evaluate how far your CH children come so you can dispense Rewards or take away rewards you can do that based on their action of obedience and their attitude of Honor towards you as a parent and it’s to be done in all things now there is a third thing that we learned from this per imperative and it’s the last thing in Colossians chapter 3 verse number 20 it says children be obedient to your parents in all things and notice for this is well pleasing to the Lord now get this if the desires of the parents and now the desires of the children are to obey their parents and for what reason that it’s well pleasing to God Brethren a life Liv with the that goal to please the Lord is the blessed life that is the blessed life so honoring your parents comes with a promise in Exodus that your days may be prolonged in the land so honoring parents brings goodness into one’s life in fact the honoring of one’s parents leads to a lengthening of one one’s days at the results that in um excuse me is insured by fearing the Lord like it says in Proverbs 10:27 the fear of the Lord prolongs life but the years of the wicked will be shortened so living long in the land for in the Old Testament was more than just chronology the phrase uh really has to do with Abundant Life if you want to enjoy the full bless blessing that God has for you in this life you will listen to your mom and dad so honoring parents does come with a reward and that is part of the reward and Ephesians is the one who expands on that that you as you honor your parents it’ll be the first commandment with promise so that you may be it may be well with you and that you may live long on the earth so think with me for a moment picture a child who starts to learn God’s commands and for the first time after listening and honoring his parents he begins to say wow this is not just for the Old Testament Israel this is for the church This Promise is repeated in the New Testament so if I actually do this I have a promise that comes to me and first first A promise is something that has a positive characteristic to it attached to it which creates in the Child Hope and anticipation let me use a weak illustration of a father promising his child a big old sloppy Banana Split at the end of a day that he was obedient what does it creating a child it creates desire what is a child thinking of be by the end of the day I’m going to get a banana split and I like Banana Splits I don’t know about you I like Banana Splits right and I’m looking forward to that so it creates desire but it also creates anticipation to want to continue to do what’s right that’s what is in the heart of a child that’s in our hearts too when we have a promise and then also so kids that when you honor your mother and your dad you actually gain the respect and trust and freedom you actually crave that’s where it comes from that’s part of of the promise it’s like what it says in Deuteronomy 10 the Bible says and now Israel what does the Lord your God require from you but to fear the lord to walk in all his ways to love him to serve the Lord your God with all your heart with all your soul and to keep his Commandments and his statutes which I am commanding you today for your good I like those endings that the scripture has if you want to be live a happy life do this and there’s a promise connected to it a promise connected to it and the the the the thing when you when we think about that this Divine command is coupled with a Divine Assurance of blessing and to all whom it is obeyed like secondly if it puts the onus on the one making the promise who’s making the promise well the parents are making the promise because the parents are in the place of God but God makes the promise too so in other words somebody has to deliver on a promise which causes an atmosphere of mutual trust a child learns to trust their parents which in turn they learn to trust the Lord they learn to trust the word of God early in their life early in the development of their character so their action of obedience will lead to their attitude of Honor so it’s also a promise that bears benit benefits for parents in later years when your children do come back to you when your children do ask you for advice when your children do respect you and talk to you to other people with a in an honoring way see that means that you are receiving the promise of this child learned something you know of course many times parents say you know what I didn’t have really much to do about it it was all God who did it and and that’s that’s true in one respect but God gives us a responsibility to carry it out and there’s a third thing is that a young person would be motivated to go on to listen to the voice of God and that is the goal the goal is your your children listen to you so when you give the gospel to them they’ll listen to God and then beyond the home they’ll live for the Lord without you being there and maybe that’s the greatest blessing a parent could have is that that’s not a guarantee but is is a blessing to know uh your kids or one of your kids or some of your kids are living for the Lord and that becomes a a part of your prayer list always praying for them always praying them that God would transform them that God would grow them to Christ’s likeness and God would just make them people that when you’re not there they’ll just carry on and they’ll pass the Baton to the Next Generation to their kids that’s the goal that’s the goal and when that happens and we they know that God takes his children by their hand that he cares for their welfare that he makes known to them his will in the word of God and he marks out for them the way of Happiness when that takes place and see that is the beneficial part of it that so that a child learns early to listen that listening and obeying to those in authority over them is beneficial for them and it is motivational to them it’s well pleasing to the Lord and if we look at Colossians isn’t that what the book of Colossians started out saying isn’t that the prayer of Paul for the children that just got saved look what he says in Colossians chap 1:9 and 10 he says for this reason also since the day we heard of it we have not ceased to pray pray for you and to ask that you may be filled with the knowledge of his will in all spiritual wisdom and understanding so that you will walk in a manner worthy of the Lord to please him in All respects bearing fruit in every good work and increasing in the knowledge of God see that is the goal and parents were a part of making sure that goal happens obeying is not always easy whether you’re a kid or whether you’re an adult sometimes it means obeying when you don’t understand sometimes it involves obedience when you your personal desires are in direct opposition to your parents’ desires yet if children you are to honor God then you must honor your parents’ desires not sometimes not when you think you are right and they’re wrong always and of course we’re talking about Christian parents here in scripture and kids mark this down obedience comes easier when there is a proper respect for your parents it’s easy to respect some it’s easy to obey somebody you respect but if you don’t respect them it’s very hard to obey anybody of course I I have to say this that this is not necessarily a promise of a long life in the world in every instance as a result of obedience to God or every obedient person would live to a ripal age but the general tendency is that keeping the Divine precepts issue in a prolongation of life and the Pres preservation of Health in other words a quality of life somebody could live a a short life life and have a quality of life someone could live a very long life and have no quality in their life so this we pass on to our kids a desire to have a quality of life and where does that start obeying your parents in turn would you obey the Lord and so Obedience of children to wise and loving parents results in habits of Industry self-control self-respect of faithfulness and kindness and worship towards the Lord which are absolutely a guarantee of success and of a long continuance of an abundant life and and so why is that because the person willingly lives in the realm in which the word of God is desired delighted honored and practice where obedience is practiced where sobriety is practiced where Temperance is practice a balance of all things where hard work is practiced where contentment is realized where tempers and passions are controlled where sexual Fidelity is practiced where Integrity kindness and love our practice where worship of the Lord is a daily realized and practice and prayer to the Lord is a regular part of the day and week expelling worry from the thoughts and showing dependence upon God and of course preaching the preaching of the word of God is heard regularly and practiced that they’re not only just listening to you they’re listening to the preached word and the preached word you want parents that goes along with what you teach them because the preach word is going to do way more than you can when they get it and they they absorb it and then they put it into practice so all these and more have a way of preventing the wear and tear on the Constitution to the general prosperity and well being of a person who pursues God’s wisdom and of course the main one of the main things is that Mom and Dad aren’t sad when children obey they’re glad that’s what the Bible says they’re glad but when when uh the children are not obedient mom and dad are not happy parents are sad when they see their child swell up with pride by thinking he or she is right when no grid to measure what they are saying but by their own standard he or she thinks they are right and Mom and Dad are full of baloney parents have grief because they see what’s coming in this life and the next when their children do not obey like Proverbs 12:15 says the way of a fool is right in his own eyes but a wise man is he who who listens to counsel parents see danger if the child’s future maybe they may see injury or death Maybe by drugs or by misuse of a car or by picking evil friends or by catching some communicable disease in a relationship with an evil man or a woman and mom sees that if not by premature death possibly by jail or prison or just grief and pain and restlessness and unhappiness and pointlessness and loneliness that comes because people don’t obey none of this is a quality of life but a joyless misery who wants to live like that see that’s part of the promise the promise is if I do this then God is going going to bless me with an abundant life so young people when you obey several Pro positive things take place number one you avoid conflict and you when conflict comes you know how to deal with it properly you make your parents glad don’t you want your parents to be glad kids don’t you want your parents to be glad yes do I hear an amen from the kids amen amen oh come on amen amen all right okay also you feel glad yourself you avoid dangers and difficulties that your parents foresee but you can’t see because you’re a youth and lack experience you please God you learn to enjoy the life God has given you not always looking over the fence to the greener pastures God’s blessed you with with a life he’s given it to you and you are thankful for it and if God’s given someone else A Life That’s way more seems abundant than yours got thank God for them too God’s given them that to them and not me that’s all right because greater uh we’re we’re all heading to the kingdom of God where God’s preparing a place for us and where he is we’re going to be also right that’s what we’re looking forward to even if we lose everything lose it lose it all we may lose it all but we learn to enjoy life the life that God has given to us and become increasingly thankful you want to dispel worry in your life be thankful when you wake up in the morning have a list of 10 things you’re thankful for and include people in that and even possessions can come at the End Amen I’m thankful for a car that doesn’t break down but I’m thankful for my wife I’m thankful thankful for my kids I’m thankful for my church for my brethren when if you have a list of thankfulness it kind of like pushes out grumbling and complaining it’s there’s no room for it every day wake up and have a list of thankful things to to repeat back to God you know uh Mr uh Lloyd Jones say don’t listen to yourself talk to yourself talk to yourself what what I’m learning in the word of God tell myself did I set something off over there so anyway young people if you haven’t been doing well in this area if you haven’t been doing well in this area then today today show your parents that you mean business and prove it to them by practicing it every day it may mean it may mean that you must come and repent and believe in Jesus Christ as your lord and savior because you haven’t done that yet you haven’t you haven’t been saved so you really can’t do these things unless you’re saved you can do them grudgingly you can do do them with your will to a certain point but you can’t do them in the spirit where the spirit gives you the results of them it also May mean that you need to yield yourself to the holy spirit’s control so that he can use you as an instrument of righteousness in your home and I want to end with this take your Bible and turn to Luke Chapter 2 Luke Chapter 2 the ultimate example the ultimate example of a child and parent relationship that’s honoring to the Lord is found in Luke Chapter 2 of course this is the relationship that Jesus Jesus Christ has with his parents let me just give you the background of this passage at at the point Jesus was growing to be a man and begin to show independence from his parents at the age of 12 he was taken to the temple in accordance with the Jewish com uh custom to go to the Jerusalem to celebrate the Day of atonement as the holy days had come to an end and everything was heading everybody was heading back home to Nazareth Jesus and his parents became separated when Joseph and Mary Mary could not find him in the midst of the Caravan searching everywhere they headed back to Jerusalem and found him Jesus in the temple talking with the elders asking questions back and forth and when they found him after three days of frantic searching I don’t know about you but if your child is not in your view for a short period of time and you think they’re gone you go crazy right well that’s what happened to Mary and Joseph right here they were going crazy they were frantically searching for him and J jesus’ parents directs him when they find him to come home with him and what does Luke 2:51 tell us how Jesus responded well notice what it says chapter 2:51 and he went down with them and came to Nazareth and he continued in subjection to them his mother treasured all these things in her heart so in other words Jesus willingly put himself under the authority of his Earthly parents when maybe the desire of him at 12 years old was to be with his heavenly father but he submitted to them see Jesus willingly put himself under their Authority the authority of his Earthly parents until his public Ministry at age 30 and Jesus experienced what the blessing of a qualified or a Quant quantity of Life how do I know that look in verse number 52 of Luke 2 it says and Jesus kept increasing in wisdom and stature and in favor with God and Men is that a blessed life that’s a blessed life that life is a life we can live too that’s how we live it and we please God and so that’s the action that Jesus had of obedience to his parents at the age of 12 but Jesus as a man at the hour of his death what does he do in John chapter 19 what does he tell what does it tell us about his attitude it says Jesus showed honor to his widowed Mother by entrusting her to John’s care where it says there that the soldiers did these things by standing by the cross of Jesus where his mother and his mother Sister Mary the wife of cleopas and Mary Magdalene when Jesus then saw his mother and disp and uh and the disciple with him he loved standing nearby he said to his motherwoman behold your son and he said to his disciple behold your mother and from that hour the disciple took her into his house in other words he honored his mother till the last minute these are the things that we can do all of us can do this kids you can do this if you are a Believer you can do these things and that this imperative you can consider this morning as very serious that also this imperative is to be lived every day this is not something just thought about for a few minutes and then it passes from you it’s every day and then this imperative keeps your attention on Jesus he is the example and what is that uh attention is that it says in Colossians in verse number 10 that I do things because it is well pleasing to the Lord that’s the Abundant Life amen let’s pray Lord thank you again for your dear people thank you Lord for the word of God it is amazing that it exposes so many things it reveals to us everything that we need for life and godliness and it gives us the very guidelines as parents to raise our children and also Lord as children to be obedient to their parents to know that when they are there is a promise and a blessing that comes with that that they can actually live a life an abundant life when they obey the Lord and I pray Lord that you would instill th these TR truths and principles in all of us so Lord we can pass on to the next generation of baton that is worthy of serving

  • The Imperatives for Transformed Marriages

    The Imperatives for Transformed Marriages

    In this sermon, Pastor Joe Babij investigates Colossians 3:18-19 and Paul’s first explanation of how life as the new person in Christ should transform household relationships. The first relationship Paul considers is the marriage relationship, and Paul gives commands to both wives and husbands.

    1. The Imperatives for a Transformed Wife (v. 18)
    2. The Imperatives for a Transformed Husband (v. 19)

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    let’s pray Lord this morning we thank you for bringing us together we thank you Lord for the Liberty that we have in Christ we thank you Lord for the word of God that gives us Clarity on how to live so Lord move out of our hearts and Minds to things that are the old part of our life and move in the new and I pray Lord the old would never get back in there so we can live out what you’re working in US that we may hope obey you Holy Spirit as you bring the word to Bear upon our mind and heart we would be listening really hearing and then taking what we heard and thinking about it considering it evaluating our own life by it and then making the needed changes that we know we have the power to do by the spirit of God in our life so Lord we can maintain that atmosphere of joy and peace that you give us and the Bible says no one’s supposed to take away and so I pray you bless us especially in this area that is so important in the church and in society and in the world itself that of marriage and I pray in Christ’s name amen so let me just bring you up to speed so far we have been learning that the new self is the born-again self it is the new creature in Christ and only the Christian only the Christian has the capacity to consider themselves dead to sin and alive to God with the ability and and really will to serve and please God so loving God’s word and loving God’s son includes hating sin with the desire to to pursue righteousness therefore salvation is not a a matter of improvement or Perfection of what had previously existed it is a matter of comprehensive transformation that when you put on the new clothes that we have been talking about in Colossians you won’t want to take them off again because you will begin to experience the fullness of the Christian Life and what is that to be like Christ that in Colossians the Apostle Paul presents us already has presented us three lists list that expose sins of attitude sins of behavior and sins of speech and as these lists buy these lists we can actually evaluate our progress in spiritual maturity and Christ’s likeness well list number one was found in chapter 3 verse number five and this is the list of sexual attitude and behavior what is that list shameful desires sexual sins impurity sins we think about that are impure lust idolatry the list is found in verse number five of chapter three and three and we are to put these things to death it says and these are and why are we to do that because these are destructive and they will destroy relationships and they will destroy churches we’re to put these off because they’re dirty and they are contaminated and they will contaminate Us in Even in our relationship with Christ second list is found in chapter 3 verse number eight nine this is the list of the sins of speech anger malicious behavior slander dirty language lying we are to rid ourselves of these things because they are relationship Breakers they are unity killers and there are peace crushers we’re to get rid of them and then there is a list number three in Colossians chapter 3 verse 12 and 13 and this is the list of the signs that you are making progress in your life and what are these particular signs of Love well Mercy kindness humility gentleness patience forgiveness the Bible tells us put these on why do we put them on because these Cape Unity they build relationships they lead to progress in spiritual maturity and Christ’s likeness and spiritual fulfillment so in other words put off the old and put on the new put on the new clean clothes clothing of course the clothing I speak of is not physical clothing but spiritual clothing the clothing that you and me are to put on are the same clothing that Jesus wore while he walked on this Earth Jesus is the model upon which we are to Fashion our daily lives the clothing that is fashionable in the kingdom of God never go out of style and then that means the mercy all the way to the Forgiveness never go out of style so believers can no longer operate on the basis of sinful desires and old passions these are all past the Apostle Peter wrote I beloved I urge you as aliens and strangers and that’s what we really are in the world as we become Christians to abstain from fleshly lust which wage war against the soul so there is an assumption here in this passage that us Believers in Christ can carry out what scripture is urging us to do that is to abstain from fleshly lust so therefore Christians are to avoid or keep themselves free from the impulses that belong to the flesh the craving of the sinful man is called the lust of the flesh that anything in the world system can become a source of sinful desire the fleshly body can be the source of sensual sensual desires and lust and these desires can extend to food and to drink into sexual gratification and Beyond desires which reach out for an object in order to find some pleasure and some satisfaction in this life the only thing is that the real satisfaction comes in Christ that the spirit is the renewed power of the new man Galatians tells us but I say walk in the spirit and you will not carry out the desires of the flesh and as Christians we have a new nature but we also have a remaining old one in other words the new nature does not alienate the flesh so the Christian Christians have to struggle against the flesh until they enter Glory until God takes us out again Galatians 5 17 says for the flesh sets is its desires against the spirit and the spirit against the flesh for these are in opposition to one another so there is a Warfare have you experienced it yet between the new man the spiritual and the old man the flesh however the war is not a war between our souls and our bodies because our physical body is not inherently evil we are to have a counter Warfare is really necessary against the inner Rebel in our heart and be sure of this that the in word sinful desires continually wage spiritual battle against this spiritual soul of the believer so then the rebel voice needs to be turned down to a faint mutter and the spirit’s voice speaking through the word of God needs to become consistently stronger and louder and the flesh must be weakened and the spirit must be strengthened so then the Christian first undresses himself and herself with old clothing of the old clothing and disposes of the stench riddled sin contaminated clothing in order to dress himself herself suitably that the Christian now is ready for their journey through this life and I believe that all that in Colossians comes before the passage of scriptures we’re going to look at this morning you must be doing these things if these other things are going to take place so the Christian is now ready we’re ready to be introduced to the last week the threefold need to plot along successfully to make progress and what were those in verse number 15 Let the Peace of Christ rule in your heart and the Peace of Christ brings unity and the Peace of Christ also upholds thankfulness in The Believer and remember a Believer who is thankful because all these things are talking about living a transformed life in the life of other people in the life of the church with other people and so that means that a grad a heart Philip with gratitude to God uh know that knows that they’re called by God will extend to their fellow Believers and people themselves the grace of love and forgiveness and to put aside Petty issues that might inhibit any expression of Peace within a community or in a family so that’s the first thing the second priority for progress is to let the word of God dwell verse number 16 let the word of Christ richly dwell within you and of course this is the message that proclaims Christ in other words put the message about Christ at the center of everything and let that message take permanent residence in your heart so that it will issue in a transforming power not only in your your own life but in the life of the community and how does that happen in verse number 16 by teaching all right as you teach and admonish one another with all wisdom Psalms hymns and songs of the spirit teaching remember is the positive presentation and proclamation of Christian truth it’s implanting the truth in your mind God always implants the truth in your mind first right to push out what’s in there the wrong ways of thinking and deciding things and he puts in your mind the truth it’s not your personal opinions they must bow to the Christ’s words and it’s not your personal feelings we seem to live in a very feeling driven Society that even your feelings must yield to what Christ says it’s not even your personal ideas they must also be adjusted by God’s word so that’s the teaching part of it and then there’s the admonishing in verse number 16 and as you teach and admonish one another with all wisdom admonishing remember digs out the error it gives warning about the danger of straying from the truth and it gives an instruction that’s put into the Mind regarding belief and behavior they go together you can’t say one thing and do another opposite of what you’re saying they go together that’s what the spirit of God’s doing he’s making your belief line up with your life so when we in our gathered worship we need to be teaching admonishing one another so the word of Christ has central place in our life in our worship uh in everything we do that it would dwell richly within our hearts the core of our being our emotions our intellect our volition would be drenched with the word of Christ until it it takes residence in your heart and your mind until it fills up every nook and cranny every corner of your being and controls your thinking and then your actions come from that so as our life becomes more like Christ we find ourselves constantly repeating and rejoicing over the truths of scripture and this means that the object and focus of a word-filled person is not themselves or their problems they are occupied with spiritual spiritual things meditating upon in the enjoyment of those things and they have a Joy inside of them that is expressed outwardly in Fellowship to family and to Brethren and when the focus of the believer is heart is the Lord then Christian Joy will be present it will be present in our hearts and this is the spirit of God it’s producing and if of course it says there by Psalms and hymns and spiritual songs and this singing is to God first and then it’s coupled with gratitude I’m so overly thankful about what God has done in my life that he’s saved me he opened up my eyes he convicted me of sin and led me to himself to know that I can’t do anything to save myself he did it all and by faith I trust in him when I and you realize that that should only produce Joy because all of it is done by God God is the initiate initiator of our Salvation not us God is but when we understand that say wow God reached out to me who am I I’m nobody right and God did that and so that produces gratitude in your heart and of course when you’re filled with the message that proclaims Christ in that way it shows up in your conduct in everyday living so scripture concludes that these expectations will be the Touchstone of Christian conduct and make the test of what is right and wrong very clear to the believer that we are to live so the name of Christ prevails and that’s in verse number 17 where we left off last time it says and whatever you do in word or deed do all in the name of the Lord Jesus giving thanks through him to God the father so to do all in the name of Jesus means that we act with his approval and show him to others in everything including what we say and what we do this shows what it means to Bear the name of Jesus Christ and remember the name of the Lord does stand for his person it stands for his character it stands for his will what he wants for you so we Christians should act in concert with the nature and the character or of God in other words as scripture says we’re being transformed into the image of Christ and we’re living that way not remember it’s not a perfect thing but it’s a progress so in this section of Colossians we’re going to look at this morning it refers to living together with God’s people within the gathered Community of Christ church under Christ lordship how the reality of our Union with Christ and the transformation of the new self shows up in various kinds of relationships that we are going to experience or we’re going to live in so we don’t have to look too far to find out what kind of spiritual progress that we have in our spiritual maturity but that spiritual progress does have results to it and one of the results of being word filled and being controlled by the spirit of God is the word submitting where you all submit we’re submitting to Christ the Supreme condition of the filling of the holy spirit is surrender it is submission to Christ the knowing and the doing what the will of the Lord is so there is a divine order there’s a divine order we are called to submit to that Christians who are controlled by the message that proclaims Christ our first to submit to the Lord giving ourselves over to however the Lord arranged things and this must come first because all authority is under Christ who already learned that in Colossians chapter 1 verse 16 where it says for by him all things were created both in Heavens and on Earth visible and invisible whether Thrones or dominions or rulers or authorities all things have been created through him and for him and then it says in verse 18 He is the head of the body and then in the end of verse number 18 so that he himself will come to have first place in everything well that starts right now that starts the moment you become a new believer that starts right when you become a born-again Christian so submission to one another would imply that one is willing to submit to those who God says has the authority whether it be in the home whether it be in the church whether it be in society scripture deals with this Authority structure in three different ways in marriage wives to husbands in the family children to parents and in the household servants and Masters and ins which bleed into society too so all of us are called to positions of authority but all of us are also called the positions of subordination submission to Authority that God sets up God’s structure no one no one is exempt from submission to Authority no one so in the passages before us this morning there are two groups I’ll only deal with a small portion of that but two groups those in subordination and who are they the wives the children and the slaves and those the one in authority and who is that husbands fathers and Masters now this morning I’m going to look at verse number 17 and 18.

    actually 18 and 19.

    coming out of verse number 17 and notice what it says and I’ll read Verse 18 and 19 of Chapter 3 of Colossians wives be subject to your husbands as is fitting in the Lord and husbands love your wives and do not be embittered against them and then I’ll pick up the next time children but this morning wives and husbands so the first thing I’m going to mention is the imperative for a transformed wife remember everything that went before that those list of things people are putting off the wife is putting off things she’s putting on things so she’s grown and progressed to the point where now Paul feels it’s important within the colossian church and for us to give instruction teaching to the wife about what is important and it’s interesting in Ephesians and Colossians he doesn’t start with the husbands he starts with the wife and this is what he says to the wife there’s two things here that submit is God’s command for the wife in verse number 18 notice wives be subject to your husband some I think Ephesians says your own husbands and of course this of course means to willingly put yourself under the authority of the husband because that’s how God created it to be now I was reading a some material and I came across this story about a famous pianist named patervisky he’s the one that’s famous for the Minuet and G and of course he was uh in his day he was known as a very important person like a rock star a very well known he became a politician also a diplomat and this story uh is a life from his life it’s a story about his life but and and it really it had had to do with this uh that he was playing at a a college uh and he was playing the piano and this woman was there named Dwight Mrs Dwight Morrow and just after she celebrated her 20th anniversary Mrs Dwight Morrow sat at a dinner next to padovisky and was reminded of a Time when she heard the great pianist from the gallery seat at college asked if she often went back to her alma mater and uh yes I like to go back she said and sit in my old chapel seat thinking how much happier I am now than I ever thought I would be she answered him becoming interested padovisky stopped eating you don’t mean to tell me he said that you are happier now than you thought at 18 you would ever be and she said yes indeed and Mr marrow as Mrs marrow answered him and Patrick bowed deeply and said to Mrs marrow I have to meet your husband see the story says a lot about the character of the husband because of the happiness and the joy of the wife but it also says that the wife must have understood submission in order to have such a joyful marriage it looks like both the husband and the wife learned their god-given roles well to produce a story like that so the biblical roles of husband and wife have been designed by God to produce unity and order in the home and in the church that men and women are both to be fulfilled and honored through proper role relationships in the marriage if both the wife and the husband are dressing the part that is putting off sin and relationship killer is actually ridding themselves of those very things and replacing them with righteousness by putting on the new self that they will be standing on the foundation of gospel Grace in which the commands of God will be their pleasure why because they know they’re chosen they know they have been made Holy by God and they know they are loved by God so if the wife understands her role that God has designed her for she will gladly submit to her husband the term submits is used in a military sense of soldiers submitting to their Superior so technically it refers to willfully putting oneself under a leader so the wife willingly putting herself under the husband it’s the picture of soldiers in a regiment soldiers in line under an officer the soldier is no longer an individual anybody who’s been in the military knows that you’re no longer you’re owned by the government and they tell you what to do so he’s a member of a regimen and all of them who are members of the regiment are listening to the commands and instructions with the which the officer is ensuing see the soldier signed away his rights to order his own life so he’s a person under Authority if he begins to act on his own he is guilty of insubordination which has severe penalties in the military so the vast difference between military subordination and biblical submission is one is forced and the other is voluntary see the wife is to voluntarily do what the soldier is forced to do and under the lordship of Christ she follows God’s commands with joy and with thankfulness a next thing in this passage in verse number 18 it says she is to submit submitting to God’s arrangement for her life it says wise be subject to to your husbands as notice is fitting in the Lord Verse 18 fitting what is right what is proper what is one’s duty what should or should not take place in that relationship so what should take place in the home that is fitting and proper is the voluntary submission of the wife to her own husband based on her recognition of God’s order so the motivation for that is God not her husband she’s to do it to her husband and the term fitting also used in Ephesians chapter 5 verse 4 which gives some sense to the term let me just read it to you it says there must be no filthiness or silly talk or course jesting which is not fitting but rather than giving of thanks for so for a Believer there are certain things that just don’t fit anymore if a child of God is to be an imitator of God Ephesians chapter 5 verse 1 which we read this morning certain things are no longer proper among Saints only those things that are fitting in the Lord willful submission of the wife is fitting and proper in other words it looks right when you’re a Christian that’s the way it ought to be that’s the way God designed it so what is fitting and proper for believers is not determined by the culture or by government or by the latest fads blowing through the wind of the world system but by Christ our vertical relationship with Christ rules our horizontal relationships in this life Christ defines what is proper and fitting so Christians must reject the societal Insanity that is going on today submission is the piece of clothing the wife is to where to do her part in duty to her Lord because she loves Christ so wives peacefully get along with their husbands because they are not insistent on their own way for a spear-filled believer Unity is an essential in dealing with their spouse spirit filled and word filled Believers are subject to others as it says in Ephesians in the fear of Christ and the reason why they strive for our harmonious relationship in their home is because they genuinely fear God and they want to do what he says in fact the reverence they reverence God to the point that they care deeply about what he says in the word of God and desire deeply to submit to his his authority because his authority always comes first so their Godly fear encompasses both Terror and reverence submission and awe they go all together and that the inner motivation of a word filled in a Spirit-filled person and in this case a wife is to give herself willingly under the submission of her husband now theologically if she’s been growing in the knowledge of the word of God and she knows the scripture especially that of the fall of mankind into sin then she knows that the fall with all his consequences harmful to women did not arise from her her being Eve being subject to the man the exact opposite happened that when Eve abandoned her role of submission to Adam and decided to take matters into her own hands the fall came so Eve determined to lead man rather than follow and what happened disaster ensued and were you still experiencing that disaster today so in the fall what happened that the role relational principles or relation principles were comprised by uh compromised by sin and When sin entered into the world something of those roles of husbands and wives were corrupted it ruined the Harmony and unity of marriage it twisted man’s humble loving headship into aggressive dominance for some men and for others lazy indifference it twisted also woman’s intellect willingly joyfully expressing submission in a manipulative scheming and a vying for control and even unashamed Defiance of the husband’s headship and of course culture Society the sinful heart all fueled that and it does not make for a good atmosphere within marriage but now that the woman is being transformed a transformed wife living under the lordship of Christ she is willing willingly submitting to the God’s command and to his arrangement for her life it is her continuing desire to make progress in her spiritual transformation so in other words this wife her goal is to progress in this continuing thing now it’s easy to start something it’s much harder to continue something right so we want to be continuing this and that’s what a wife is doing she’s continuing in what God designed for her and she knows when she does that she’s pleasing the Lord and then when she pleases the Lord she knows the Lord is going to do something within her home that she cannot do herself he’s going to transform even others now that leads to the next imperative the imperative for a transformed husband and look at verse number 19 of chapter 3 it says their husbands love your wives let’s start right there that means that’s a positive command husbands love your wives and it is a command these are commands these are not suggestions these are commands husbands put on the Garment that binds everything together love your wives the husband the husband is to love his wife continually the present tense coupled with the Positive expressions of that love love on a regular basis and remember it’s a uniquely Christian love that is based on Christ love this is not any kind of love matter of fact the world doesn’t even know how to define love but the Bible does and love is first a commitment that I’m going to come commit to this relationship I’m going to give it all that I have so who of us really can fully understand the love that Christ has for the church scripture speaks of the breath and the length and the height and the depth of the love of Christ which surpasses knowledge which it does only from scripture really can we know about the love of Christ for his people in fact if I were to pick out some characteristics of that love from scripture it would be it would be something like this that his love is unconditional in this sense that God demonstrated his own love toward us in that while we’re yet sinners Christ died for us he’s the one who just demonstrated the Love by dying in the place of Sinners also his love is volitional he chooses to love us I like what it says in the Old Testament concerning the nation of Israel the Lord did not set his love on you nor chose you because you were more a number than any other peoples for you were the fewest of All Peoples why did God choose Israel because he decided to do it why does he choose us because he decided to do it that’s why he does it also his love is an intense love it says now in scripture now before the Feast of the Passover Jesus was knowing that his hour had come and he departed out of the of this world to his father before he departed out of this world to his father having loved his own it says who were in the world and he loved them to the end it was an intense love also it was an unending love from Romans chapter 8 shall what shall separate us from the love of God which is in Christ Jesus nothing will separate us it’s an unselfish love it says in the canossa’s passage in Philippians he emptied himself taking on the form of a bond servant and being made in the like of likeness of men leaving Glory so he can die on the cross for you and I also is a purposeful love that when God loves us it works for our Improvement for our development for our happiness for our welfare for a goal and then it’s a sacrificial love which is most common in our understanding of scripture he loved us and gave himself for us so in love he bore the guilt and the penalty of sin and the wrath of God and the place of his people in love he personally bore our sins in his own body on the cross so that the penalty and the power and the devastating effects of sin in our lives might be broken forever also it’s a manifested love Christ manifested his love in words and in Deeds he loves us the Bible says he shows us he loves us he protects us he prays for us he guards us he strengthens us he helps us he defends us he teaches us he Comforts us he chastens us he equips us he empathizes with us and provides all our needs that that’s what he does this is then the standard by which a husband is to judge his relationship with his wife but I say this that no husband has ever fully loved his wife that way and not to that degree not to that extent but it is the goal toward which every husband is depressed that’s the model which he is to follow that the husband submits himself to his wife by lovingly and selflessly taking the initiative in putting her needs before his own that the husband and wife submit to one another according to the wise order established by God this hierarchy order hierarchical order reflected in marriage established from creation and the concept of an equal submitting to an equal at least spiritually a wife to her husband is based on the relationship between the father and the son within the Trinity that’s a theological thing that’s happening within the marriage relationship well you know what even in Corinthians where it sets up for us this particular point where it says but I want you to understand that Christ is the head of every man and the man is the head of a woman and God is the head of Christ and surely every husband ought to spend much time thinking about what this means in terms of his marital relationship and certainly every husband should frequently examine himself to see where he is failing to love his wife as God commands him to love her are you really loving your wife as you love yourself are you really pressing toward the goal of loving your wife as Christ loved the church is the love that you have for your wife unconditional volitional intensive unending unselfish purposeful and sacrificial is your love being manifest in numerous and continuous ways throughout the different phases of your marriage see these are the questions that every husband should be asking himself and perhaps his wife about himself are you loving me the way you should am I loving you the way I should but the husband I tell you what theologically must not forget and I think this is where we forget men that the wife has been given to us as a gift as a gift she was made by God to be a helper she was created from man for man and led to man that this serving role is a noble and valuable role not a demeaning one and Men I I think we we need to model male headship in the home and in the church that God always puts somebody on the point no organization ever will Thrive for long with nobody in charge including the home but management by consultation is a different matter if my wife is a helper to make actually my leadership better than you know what here’s where our wives are helpers and valuable to the to us husbands her wisdom her common sense her cool level-headedness her strength of character her love for people and even sometimes her steel trap logic constantly helps us Partners like our wives we would be dumber than a post if we fail to consult with her not only does she bring the benefit of a female perspective but she balances us improves us in our leadership and restrains some of our excesses as wannabe Macho men that’s what she does see we can’t forget that man we can’t leave her out of the equation how this headship principles applied that is the spirit behind it it makes all the difference I have personally I personally have never encountered a Godly female who in principle had any problem with considerate sensible and male leadership in fact Christian women cry out for Spiritual leadership from their husbands but headship and dictatorship are two different things male headship is not male tyranny it has everything to do with responsibility for others especially his wife and accountability to God that’s what leadership God’s given men we can’t opt out of that something that was given to us we must take it and use it and then as we use it we love our wives and then we find a very joyful happy marriage and home life but there’s a negative command I want you to look at it chapter 3 verse number 19 there’s a positive command and here’s a negative command husbands do not be embittered against them you got that this is a command in our passage given to the husband that if he violates this imperative he will put a kibosh on any unity and peace that he has gained and enjoyed in his home he will be in Disobedience to God’s clear command to love his wife because he is not loving his wife as a prized vessel as it tells us in First Peter you husbands in the same way live with your wives in an understanding way as with someone weaker since she is a woman and show her honor as a fellow heir of the grace of Life why so that your prayers will not be hindered so if you don’t treat your wife life forget praying God doesn’t even want to hear you he wants to hear repentance towards not treating your wife right so what is the command the husband is not to do husbands do not in bitter be embittered against them the verb means of friction caused by impatience or Perpetual irritation or fault finding actually it is a word used in other places like in Revelation to say that the waters were bitter and became undrinkable it also has a sense of hostile feelings towards your wife it could be that his bitterness will be like bitter water that goes into the stomach and causes a violent reaction as Bitter Water becomes undrinkable his life will become sour and unbearable he has walked off the path of transformation and has quenched the spirit of God he is now in the flesh he is put on the old dirty garments again see bitterness we really ref reflects the the general sense in scripture of wickedness and a refusal to obey and worship God in Ephesians bitterness tops the list that symbolizes every form of malice where it says in Ephesians 4 31 let all bitterness and wrath and anger and clamor and slander be a put away from you along with all malice see bitterness can show up in many ways in the home it can show up in the man being silent doesn’t talk to his wife anymore it could be show up in a man being absent I’m going to just work longer hours I don’t want to go home to that it could be abuse verbal mental emotional physical sometimes it could be the man manipulating withholding money from her all kinds of things come out when somebody’s bitter the Bible warns us don’t let a root of bitterness get in any relationship or in Hebrews see bitterness is a wicked thing it’s a demonic thing and Men you notice why God why did Paul pick this one out because this one has so much stuff going on with it it’s connected to so many different things the habitual attitude of bitterness that some may show their wives will reflect in the rejection of that love Christ has for his people the husband has put back on the old stinky sin-filled stained garment and remember sin will always take you further than you intend to go it will keep you longer than you ever wanted to stay and it will make you pay more than you ever imagined it would cost he is not loving his wife like God loves him he is not being a leader and an example he was created by God to be I remember when Jane and I were visiting in Israel and we were visiting the site that most historians archaeologists and Bible scholars believed the actual place that John the Baptist was baptized it was a historical site that was inaccessible for many many years because of the wars and conflicts and Border disputes between Israel and other nations so we could only go to this baptismal site of Jesus by walking on this very narrow wooden path in our tour guide warned us that it was for forbidden for anyone to step away off the wooden path because he says we know including him on others that the path has been cleared of landmines but the area on either side of the path was not cleared of the ground of explosive devices well rest assured nobody walked off that path including me and Jane actually the Greek construction of our text when the president imperative is coupled with the negative it points to a habitual action and what the habitual action of the husband is to be continually is do not be embittered against his wife if he does he would be like stepping off the wooden path I just mentioned into a spiritual Minefield in which he gives advantage to the devil and the scripture warns us over and over again do not give Satan the advantage because if you do he will take it and especially when it comes to the marriage or the relationship between a man and woman in marriage so as husbands submit themselves to the Lord as their head they will take the attitude towards their wives that is honoring to God if a man is living under the lordship of Christ since the lordship of Christ is the focused of this section and should be the focus of all of our Our Lives the emphasis on submission to the Lord Jesus is best captured by Colossians 3 17 whatever you do in word indeed do all in the name of the Lord Jesus giving thanks through him to God the Father the husband is to submit in a matter that is appropriate for those who are in the Lord in other words the husband is forbidden by God to become bitter towards his wife he is forbidden by him that’s a command so you know what don’t even go there don’t even get close to going there if you even get feelings in your mind and your heart towards your wife that are ill feelings go right to God and confess them to him and ask the Lord to help you to put on those things that are going to be beneficial to keep that marriage strong and peaceful and full of joy and without this tug of war between the husband and the wife see that’s what God wants that’s what a spiritual marriage is that’s what a transformed marriage is that’s what a marriage that is progressing in is and I would say that after what 43 years we’re going to be married that’s a long time I think we’ve been through the mountains The Valleys a lot of the valleys and we’re gone through it and I would say that the only thing that is beneficial to me getting where I’m at is the word of God and the spirit of God and what the Bible teaches because men we can all go off and women we could all go off all you have to do is listen to the world just a few days on the radio from morning to evening and you’re gone already you gotta you gotta fill your mind with the word of God keep going back to the word of God keep preaching it to yourself when you’re driving in the car you keep preaching it to yourself until you get it but until you do it until you continually do it so husbands and wives are you progressing in your spiritual majority that are in line with the imperatives today if you are continue if you’re not repent and put off these old sinful garments and do it for good lay them aside for good and then you know what Press On put one foot in front of the other breathing out breathe in and out and do the next thing that honors God and believe me that will produce a joyful life a progressive life a stable life a life that you can go into the world and be a testimony for Christ amen let’s pray Lord thank you again thank you again Lord the word of God is powerful and holy spirit thank you so much for convicting us of sin even sins Lord the Holy Spirit as a Christian when we definitely are struggling sometimes in our marriage and things aren’t always going the way we want them to and I just pray Lord that when that happens we would come back to the word of God to the Epistle of Ephesians and Colossians to what how God designed everything in Genesis and begin to think on the very principles you laid out and the imperatives you you have given us that when we obey them you give us everything we need to carry our relationship with our wives our family and our church and our children you give us what we could never have gotten if we did it our own way and so Lord I pray that you would bless marriages blessed give wisdom to the husbands give wisdom to the wives that they would have humble moldable hearts and that they would want to put these things into pretzel into practice even today and then every day forward they would do this including myself and I prayed this Lord and you’re a holy and precious name in Christ I ask it amen

  • Partakers With Christ, Part 4

    Partakers With Christ, Part 4

    In this sermon, Pastor Joe Babij examines Colossians 3:15-17 and the fourth aspect of the new self in Christ that, according to the apostle Paul, believers are to put on by faith like new clothing. After some review, Pastor Babij explains the three central priorities of the new self.

    The New Self Puts on New Clothing (vv. 10-17)
    A. The calling of the new self (v.12a)
    B. The character of the new self (v. 12b-13)
    C. The cohesion of the new self (v. 14)
    D. The central priorities of the new self (vv. 15-17)
    D.i. Let the peace of Christ rule
    D.ii. Let the word of Christ dwell
    D.iii. Let the name of Christ prevail

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    okay you take your Bibles and turn to Colossians hope I didn’t forget how to preach it’s been a while but thank you for being here being ready to look at the word of God and we’re going to be looking at Colossians chapter 3 specifically um verses 15 to 17 but I’ll probably have to do some review to bring you up to date let me just pray father this morning thank you for bringing us here we know Lord in our life Christ is to be exalted and Lord the spirit of God is to be obeyed as he applies the scripture to our heart and Lord every one of us are not where we ought to be spiritually we all need to grow more we all have areas that we need to defeat sin and put it to death and we need to put on righteousness all of us are there so I pray Lord that for us as a congregation our desire would always to be progressing forward not going backward and I pray as we do that we would grow in Holiness and godliness and that we would honor you in our words and our Deeds and I pray this in Christ’s name amen as we are in Colossians um Colossians really has a warning about false teachers so a person really shouldn’t carelessly follow just anybody any personable religious leader merely because they talk about Jesus or maybe they urge audiences to receive the spirit Jesus is quite popular among worldly people but not the true Jesus the popular Jesus may be the baby Jesus in the manger at Christmas time or the Buddy Jesus of Nashville gospel music or the success counseling Jesus of positive thinkers he may also be the Romantic Jesus of the Christian crooners or the rhythmic Jesus of Christian rock or even the reforming Jesus of the Liberals but none of these are the Jesus preached by the Apostle Paul and the apostles therefore not the real Jesus who saves men and women from their sins Jesus in reality is the Lord Jesus Christ the offended creator of the universe who had died for men and women on the cross to redeem them and by shedding his blood to wash away their sin and then he rose from the dead to be set far above principalities and Powers and might and Dominion in every name that is named Jesus is above all and finally it is Jesus who shall judge the quick and the dead at his appearing and his kingdom so the Lord Jesus as he really is is not the popular Jesus of shirts and bumper stickers of politicians and entertainers he is the despised one rejected of men so they crucified the Lord Of Glory and they would do the same today we would do the same today he is the Mighty God the perfect man the only savior the Eternal King the Lord of lords and all God called teachers will preach not an imaginary Jesus who appeals to the flesh but rather the true Christ of creation and salvation who appeals to the spirit the redeemed spirit of God and so if one gets Jesus right they will get the Christian Life right but if one gets Jesus wrong one also gets a distorted view of the Christian Life and I have observed many today have a distorted view of the Christian Life so when we come to Colossians we find that Colossians gives us a picture of the lifestyle that leads to Dynamic Holiness it is the picture that we are very familiar with from the scriptures because it talks about the putting off and the putting on of sins and the putting on of righteousness and every time we do put on clothes it should remind us that of our sin before a holy God that your sin has made you unrighteous and unfit for the presence of God and it should also remind us of the basic message of the Gospel that God sent Jesus to die outside the Gate of Jerusalem to take away our sins to cover us up with his perfect righteousness and to give us new clean clothes to give us New Life by his resurrection so Jesus provided the righteousness we needed and took upon himself all the Wrath that we deserved so there’s this is where the Resurrection Life the life that we have now as believers is observed by others there must be this putting off before there can be putting on we are not just putting on clean clothes but clean a clean new self and the Bible connects clothing with righteousness and the believer is clothed with the righteousness of Christ so by the transformative power of the Gospel of the Cross of Christ Jesus is making a new Humanity the community of all kinds of people groups that bear the image of God by putting off the old practices and putting on the new Humanity that bear the image of that of the Creator so no one could break down the barriers between all kinds of people groups in the world and all the differences they bring in that’s where all the conflict is when it’s the differences in social things in the religious things and ethnic things and geographical places people live in the education that they have in the the economic situation that they’re being they’re in are all differences and distinctions and it would be impossible to conquer these distinctions and unified people into one body impossible but there is one there is one who does the impossible and that is Jesus Christ and right now all who come to Christ in Repentance of their sins and faith in Jesus as it says in Colossians 3 10 it says being renewed to a true knowledge according to the image of the one who created him so to be renewed in knowledge points to a reversal of the effects of the Fall through the new creation of God’s creative act in Christ Jesus that all distinctions between different people groups are null and void for those who are in Christ they mean nothing at all of course the world wants to make them something so the the divisions continue on so since Christ conquered all and removed all these distinctions All Peoples can be unified and participate together in one body achieved by Christ’s death and resurrection and where does it all lead to well Colossians 3 11 says but Christ is all and in all that’s where it leads that Christ in Christ all are one all are Unified so let me just bring you up to the speed a little bit from where we were where we’re going that there are certain distinctions of the new self that we see in scripture in verse number 12 of chapter 3 there’s the calling of the new self it says so as those who have been chosen of God holy and beloved the first thing is that there’s a calling that God calls you to Salvation and the message we receive about our identity really does shape our lives in very powerful ways who we understand ourselves to be matters how we live our lives long before Adam sinned God already decreed and determined salvation for sinners in eternity past before there was even in heaven and earth the father chose a people in Christ who would be saved from his from his Wrath and this selection was not based upon any foreseen faith in those who he chose nor was it promised by inherit goodness instead according to His Infinite love an inscrutable wisdom God said is affectionate upon his elect each one chosen was predestined by the father to be conformed to the image of his son and then to sing forth his Praises not only now but forever so your new identity shows you are in the kingdom of God or you are not in the kingdom of God it shows that you are a kingdom kid or you are not a kingdom kid and last time we stepped into God’s closed closet and we started selecting clothing that Jesus wants us to wear that reflects a kingdom kid living in this world and we see a comparison there’s two ways of life that are compared the first one in verse number five through seven is is gives a list of five vices that we are to put to death and what are those vices well in verse number five it says there immorality impurity passion evil desire and greed which amounts to idolatry that all these vices are manifestations of the worship of idols and the loss of contentment in Christ the worship of gold and not God and where people are greedy in their hearts they lose sight of God with a mad desire to get things covetousness is a sin of always wanting more never being Satisfied by your circumstances or by what God has given you or by that fact anything this is idolatry and covetousness really puts things in the place of God so if someone would think at all whatsoever that God could Overlook habitual patterns of sexual Covetous idolatrous sin they would be actually believing a lie and just because our culture has subtly normalized sin and we live really in the middle of a highly charged sexually intoxicated culture that is no excuse to have the influence of the world affect how we live instead we are to put those things to death and as Christians you are now in a new position you can stop the reign of sin in your life and live a holy life see Christians have to consider that they have to get that you don’t get it right away but you get it as you’re in scripture you’re learning the word of God and there is a motive behind wanting to learn those things in verse number six it says because of these things the wrath of God will come upon the sons of Disobedience that the motive for holy living is the wrath of God God is angry against sin that’s why the father had to send the son to die in the place because his anger had to be poured out on someone and Jesus was the only one qualified willing and able to receive that anger and then take care of it and satisfy the justice of the father so this if there’s also a humility that comes when we understand holy living because such conduct doesn’t belong to our past if you notice in verse number seven it says and in them you also once walked when you were living in them so we all all were there weren’t we we were all living in sin in some kind of sin we were all habitually doing something that Dishonored God and committing idolatry every day of our life doing what we wanted what we thought was right isn’t that the American way anyway and maybe there’s no better way to stay humble when dealing with our own sin and the sins of others then to know where that we are enslaved and engage in a sinful habitual lifestyle until we have made Are Made Alive and repent of our sins and Trust Jesus Christ as our Lord and savior see we used to walk in them we still live in those sins but these these are all in your past and don’t go back to those sins anymore and as far as Colossians concerned the false teachers which he’s exposing here spiritually they taught that any kind of spiritual fullness has to be found beyond the world of things and persons and so they concluded and reasoned that since our bodies are part of the evil universe it doesn’t matter what you do they can indulge every fleshly desire for whatever is done from their perspective cannot be contaminate the spiritual part Within they taught that spiritual reality is found through special knowledge and subjective experience and ritual religious observations totally divorced from daily life or even from reality so if we are to fix our eyes on Christ which it says right here in our text verse 2 of chapter three sets your mind on the things above not on the things of the earth if we’re to do that then the demand that we should have is not for perfection right now we should be focused and be satisfied with the progress of our spiritual maturity that’s where we look how are we progressing in Christ are we progressing in Christ how we’ve grown more this year than last year so what what should we expect fullness in Christ to be to be like should it be some Supernatural or some ascetic religious experience what are the marks of holiness we really shouldn’t expect spiritual fullness to be marked by the spectacular even though God does the spectacular but that doesn’t Mark most of our Christian Life it should be marked by the common goodness expressed in the mundane everyday life see God wants us to live right there he wants us to live right there godliness in human flesh lives a Jesus kind of life Jesus didn’t have a place to lay his head you didn’t really have an address he was almost like a nomad moving from place to place teaching living on sleeping on the ground lived a very humble low life that’s what he lived and yet God he did exactly what God wanted him to do so where is it to be found where’s fullness spiritual fullness to be found it’s to be found in our devotion and growing love to Jesus and in our loving relationships with other people in other words holy living the fullness of living our relationship with Christ is to be sought in the context in the context of living out life in this world every day such as putting off sinful patterns in verse number eight if you notice he gives us a general list of those sins put off anger wrath malice slander abuse of speech put them all off take off those dirty clothes that’s part of this existence that God’s called us to and then he says in verse number nine then then discontinue this one do not lie to one another since since you laid aside the old self and it’s easy it’s it’s evil practices so lying includes untruth part truth conveying wrong Impressions exaggeration and so on and so forth which distorts the facts God says let’s listen to if we do that with each other we will never be able to establish trust with each other or neither will be able to accomplish anything if we lie to each other but we’ve all lied we’re all guilty but it should never be our default we have to put it to death death to the old way of life should be a reality in everyday practice in fact it means to wipe out to to utterly slay not simply to suppress it or to control evil acts and desires but to put them to death in our Passage the decisive Act is to strike dead the bodily members so that being dead they shall become incapable of being used for any of the vices listed in the passage so clothes are the first things people see what do they see when they see your life do they see these old things or scripture gives us also a comparison for the second things to put on we take something off and put something on but notice the second list from verse 12 to verse number 13. here’s the designation of the new self the character of the new self Five virtues to put on so putting to death sin putting off the dirty garments of unrighteousness means as uh we as Christians cannot stay neutral but must put on clean clothes to put on the virtues that exemplify the character qualities of the Lord Jesus himself and of those who are God’s beloved elect and what are they put on verse number 12.

    a heart of compassion that’s to be like Jesus put on kindness that’s to be like Jesus put on humility that’s to be like Jesus put on gentleness that’s to be like Jesus put on patience that’s to be like Jesus and then two ways to carry out those five virtues verse number 13 what do you do it where do you carry them out bearing with one another write it amongst each other that’s how you carry where we carry them out see that’s where we have to see the progress and then notice in verse 13 not only do we bear with one another that means bearing long with and putting up with a great deal of injustices and even unpleasant circumstances without retaliation or Revenge that’s how Jesus dealt with us and so the second thing he says there and forgiving each other in verse number 13 He says and forgiving each other Whoever has a complaint against anyone just as the Lord forgave you so also should you so has the Lord forgiven you has the Lord dealt along with you and been long suffering and patient with you yes so see we have we have really no wiggle room that when it comes to other people that we can dig in against them if we’re going to be like Christ if we want to go back to the old flesh that’s what we’ll do we’ll say no I have my rights you know what for a Christian you have no rights the only right I have is to live like Jesus right that’s the only right I have and that’s the only right that will give me fullness of life and that’s what I want I want fullness of life I want to enjoy what God has given me not keeping digging in against him and of course there’s a third distinction he mentions in verse number 14 what holds it all together look what it says in verse 14. beyond all these things put on love which is the perfect Bond of unity some have referred to love as I mentioned already as relational glue it’s the it’s like the outer garment that goes over all the other clothing and it holds it all together that’s what love is all right and loving others is to be like Jesus so then the new self is the born-again self it is the new creature in Christ and only the Christian has the capacity to consider themselves dead to sin and alive to God with the ability and the will to serve and please God we never had that ability before now we have it by the spirit of God and by the word of God that loving God’s word and loving God’s son includes hating sin with the desire to pursue righteousness there’s never this vacuum that’s nothing there’s nothing in that space there’s always something in that space always something in that space that means that salvation is not a matter of improvement or Perfection of what had had previously existed it is a matter of comprehensive transformation or progress in Christ like this that’s where we all need to look are we making progress so when you put on the new clothes you don’t want to take well when you put on the new clothes you really don’t want to take them off because they will only begin to stink if you do not keep them on you’ll begin to experience the fullness of the Christian Life when you keep these clean clothes on you and when you put on these new clothes you won’t want to take them off and what do you what does that mean what will it make it look you look like well you’ll look like Christ you’ll act like Christ that the Christian first undresses himself of the old clothing he disposes the stench riddled sin contaminated clothing in order to address himself suitably the Christian is now ready for his journey through this life so here in this passage there’s really a threefold need to prod along successfully to even gauge your project progress this section of early Colossians refers to living together with God’s people within the gathered Community of Christ Church and two words are used again that are imperatives and these means that they’re they’re just not things to consider lightly they’re actually we are to given we are to give them serious thought and and practice that these commands now apply more specifically to the inner disposition of the believer the inner disposition to be a regular and to have a regular pattern of putting off the old and putting on the new in our daily life and this inner disposition is to be regular it’s to be actually habitual it is to outflow it’s the outflow of one’s calling that leads to putting off putting on demands of the Gospel that leads to peace which brings uh that Christ brings and gives to us so now this morning let’s look at verse number 15 because now we look at the central priorities of the new self and there are at least for this morning three of them Central priorities of the new self in verse number 15 it says this Let the Peace of Christ rule in your hearts so what is the central priority the first one is let the peace of God rule the phrase in your hearts shows the hiddenness of the CR of Christian growth and maturity not everybody sees what’s going on in your heart but God sees and you often know what’s going on in your heart so here this ruling Christ’s ruling is going on inside of you and this growth is seen in the peace loving temper which governs our words and our actions someone said it like this it’s the calm mind which is not ruffled by adversity or clouded by sin or a remorseful conscience or a disturb disturbed by any fear it’s a piece that rules in the heart and the term the very Greek word for this term rule means to judge or to be in a position to decide to decide something or to control that Christ’s peace must be the final decision it is the Umpire over our Wills over our passions and over our our emotions and only a real born-again Christian can have this peace now how is that that Christians are at peace with God well if you notice in our passage in if you go to chapter one verse number two it says to the Saints and faithful brethren in Christ who are classified Grace to you and peace from God the Father and then in Colossians chapter 1 verse number 19 and 20 for it was the father’s good pleasure for all the fullness to dwell in him and through him to reconcile all things to himself having made peace through the blood of his cross and through him I say well the things on earth or things in heaven so when we are at peace with God the Christians have something what do they have they have peace of conscience there’s there’s nothing to condemn you anymore because there’s no Compton condemnation to those who are in Christ it also means that you’re free from the bondage of your own sin and you can now serve Christ without guilt and get up every day and say Lord I’m your servant take care of me today as I go out into this hostile world I’m going out in your name make me an instrument in your hand give me victory over my remaining sin over my enemies and the allormen and temptations that are going to be presented to me in the world almost every day without fail I have peace of conscience though I know who I am I know what God wants me to do I know what dirty clothes look like and how they smell and I now starting to know what new clean clothes look like and I’m starting to do that every day and then what else do I have I have access to God there is nothing to prevent from enjoying God’s present there is there is freedom to go into the Lord with holy boldness in prayer and to speak the Lord as a member of his family to have regular and deep fellowship with the Lord Jesus I have access to God also I have no fear of hell there is nothing not one thing that can send you there if you know Christ because Christ have has been punished in your place and therefore Justice his Justice cannot touch you again because the justice has already been satisfied and then what do I have I have expectation of Heaven that’s what I do I have an expectation of Heaven look at chapter 3 verse number one therefore if you have been raised up with Christ keep seeking the things above where Christ is seated at the right hand of God see I’m looking forward to heaven sudden death means sudden Glory there’s also peace in Providence every day there is a potential to have my peace robbed from me and I want to take care of that too and then of course it leads to peace with people like Romans says if possible so far it depends on you be at peace with all men so how does this piece ruling in your heart work here’s an example suppose a person has been unjustly insulted two thoughts maybe presented to his mind the one urging him to retaliation and vengeance and the other two patience and restraint these wrestle with one of one another in his mind so if the Peace of Christ stands as an Umpire over your emotions and your will and your passions you’ll receive a prize and the prize will be you’ll lean towards patience and restraint see the proof the pr the the Peace of Christ prevails so you see this piece is not simply to be present but it is to be exercised it’s to have Supreme control within us this is all happening in our heart right we can fake it on the outside but in the heart you can’t each individual believer is responsible to make certain that Christ reign Christ Reigns in the heart and from his heart in his relationship with others see this is how you begin to gauge your progress this is what the child of God looks like when they are putting into practice the word of God and walking in the spirit as it says in Matthew blessed are the peacemakers how will they look they will be called sons of God don’t you want to be called the son of God but this also brings us to another place in in our verse in chapter 3 verse 15 it says notice this it says to which indeed you were called in one body it helps you keep the unity that God has given to us the Oneness of the body is this fear in which the Peace of Christ is to be carried out and actually realized you see when God summons us and transforms us from the realm of sin and death to the realm of righteousness and life he calls us and chooses us not simply to be his people that’s part of it of sure but to live a certain kind of life a different kind of life we have been called together as one unit and the peace of God gives us or Aids us to help us keep that unified body all we have to do is step into the Flesh and we already are causing divisions right like it says in Philippians these two women are are not getting together there’s the vision among you there’s Strife among you take care of that that’s what Paul tells the Philippians right take care of that little bit of strife there because that little bit of stripe ends up being a big ordeal and then notice the next thing he says in verse number 15 and be thankful now Brethren I don’t know about you but believers who are full of gratitude to God for his gracious calling of them will find it much easier to extend to fellow Believers and other people the grace of love and the forgiveness that God gives to us and to put aside Petty issues that might inhabit the expression or destroy the expression of Peace in the community it’s easy to do when you understand who you are what God’s done for you see so so I don’t go back to that old way no this is this is what pleases God but that’s what brings fullness spiritual fullness to my life that’s that’s what we maintains the peace in my heart that maintains the unity in the body when I’m like that and you know in this short uh short section of scripture three times he mentions thankfulness here in verse 15 then notice in verse number 16 he says let the word of Christ dwell on you richly with all wisdom teaching and admonishing one another in Psalms hymns and spiritual songs singing with thankfulness in your hearts to God and then in verse number 17 whatever you do in the word indeed do all the name of the Lord Jesus giving thanks through him to God the father so it’s all about Jesus Christ all of it’s about Jesus Christ the lord loves to see people who serve in his church to maintain a cheerful and a thankful heart both are the will of God even though oh preacher and Pastor CH Spurgeon in the 1800s said when joy and prayer are married their firstborn child is gratitude it seems very you know what when I say this is a command this is an imperative seems when I read it it seems an easy command to follow it does be thankful and I’m sure if I were to personally ask you are you thankful You would reply of course pastor if I rephrased the question and asked you have you honestly given thanks to God in everything well now now you’re meddling now you’re stepping on toes so have you given heartfelt thanks in other words to your poor health or your unrewarding job or lack of work for less than an ideal marriage or ongoing family struggle for an unstable financial situation for not having your prayers answered just quite the way you would like for unfulfilled dreams and unreached goals for broken and difficult relationships for lost opportunities Brethren I do not need to remind you to give thanks when all is well I have to remind myself I need to give thanks when all is not well because you know what that’s where I grow in spiritual maturity when I know that what’s going on in my life God knows all about it it’s no mistake no mistake at all anyone can say and give thanks when they have good health and abundant food and a secure and rewarding job it’s easy then thank you so we may may need to conclude that there is much more ingratitude in our life than genuine gratitude but the scriptures are teaching us that should not be normal it should not be normal or the default conduct of the genuine believer who is growing in their knowledge and understanding of the word of God see we must be thankful it is a command to do it and when I obey when I love Jesus I do what he says and he says to me be thankful so let the peace of God rule in your heart is the first priority of the new self the second one in verse number 16 is this let the word of Christ richly dwell within you you notice how it’s using the within here so this is going on inside of person so let the word of Christ dwell the better rendering of this phrase Let the the word of Christ richly dwell within you is let the message that proclaims Christ dwell in you in fact Paul uses it in a different way in chapter 1 verse number five where he says because of the Hope laid up for you in heaven of which you previously heard the word of Truth The Gospel see the word of Truth the word the gospel or the message that proclaims Christ it’s always the centrality of Christ in Colossians in other words put the message about Christ at the center of your corporate worship experience and let this message about Christ take up permanent resonance in you and among you so the message has a transforming power in the life of the community so how how does the message have a transforming powering the life of a community will notice in verse number 16. it says there’s two things it tells us there as you teach as you teach well you know what what is teaching teaching is really the the positive presentation of Christian truth teaching plants the truth in the mind so it gets hold of the conscience and it transforms the will so you go from understanding or listening to something to actually doing something now that that shift doesn’t happen right away that takes a constant word of God being taught to you personal opinions must bow to Christ’s word personal feelings must yield to what Christ says and personal individual ideas must be adjusted by God’s word so that’s one way this transforming power comes from most of a second way is really kind of like goes along with teaching but it’s the word in our text as you teach and admonish one another now what is an admonition as compared to teaching admonishing really digs error out it gives warning about the dangers of straying away from the truth it’s the word nephetic new fetic counseling instruction put into the Mind regarding belief and behavior so there is belief but how is belief affecting my behavior and many times when anybody counsels Pastor Dave council’s what he’s doing actually is really showing where error has gotten in there a misunderstanding about how you live the Christian life has gotten in there takes the word of God and what does he do he reminds you of what belief is and what your behavior ought to be as far as that belief and then when you put it into practice he can’t make you do that when you put it into practice you know what happens spiritual transformation spiritual fulfillment happens but until you don’t put into practice you don’t get there so the you wanted to get down in our gathered worship we must be teaching and admonishing one another so the word of Christ has central place in our worship and is made to dwell richly in our hearts that the central core of our being our intellect our emotion our volition is being repeatedly drenched with the word of Christ until it takes residence in your heart until it lavishly fills every nook and cranny and corner of your being and controls your thinkings and your actions and it says there in our texts and how do we how do we do this with all wisdom well what’s wisdom it’s the ability to use knowledge in the right way the Wise Way for what reason so you can do the right thing and then you could help other people do the right thing because if you notice in our text we’re to teach and admonish one another so sometimes we have to come alongside each other and say you know what you say you believe this but you’re not doing it this is what you need to do now if they have the receptive spirit and if they have the peace of God and they’re really a Believer and they want to keep the unity know what they’re going to say let’s talk about that because I want to correct my behavior that’s what a Believer does foreign but you know how he does it from our passage of scripture it looks like he does it also through music music is a great means of teaching however it must be real music and not just a sensual beat with the psychic psychedelic sound spiritual songs are based on biblical Doctrine and consist of words and sounds that represent and honor the Lord what did Jesus say you know what Jesus said to those disciples walking on the road to Emmaus after the resurrection this is what he said to them these are my words which I spoke to you while I was still with you that all things which are written about me in the law of Moses and the prophets and the Psalms must be fulfilled so what happens is that if you look at Colossians chapter 3 verse number 16 it says let the word of Christ dwell richly dwell within you with all wisdom teaching and admonishing another one another with Psalms and hymns and spiritual songs now let me just say that being word filled and being Spirit-filled is something by quite very practical it first comes when someone has realized what God has done for them in Christ and with us understanding they feel they no longer belong to themselves they have a new purpose in this world to show the world that the Lord Jesus has delivered them from sin and that they have made they have been made holy and God is preparing them for heaven so being word filled and being Spirit-filled is related not to the realm of the euphoric experience but to the ethical rigors of the Christian Life The Putting on the putting off the putting off the putting on that both Ephesians and Colossians the Believers have already received the Holy Spirit and the New Testament knows nothing of a Believer who has not received the word and the Holy Spirit been baptized in the spirit and been filled with the spirit as our life becomes more like Christ we find ourselves constantly repeating and rejoicing over the truths of scripture that’s what we do we go over them over them all the time and songs help us to do that we end up singing and even whistling songs we capture biblical Concepts and teachings and principles in the songs and that means the object in focus of a word filled person is the Lord not themselves not others not their problems they are occupied with spiral spiritual things and meditating upon the enjoyment of them they have Joy inside that is expressed outwardly in the fellowship to their family and to their Brethren and when the focus of the believer’s heart is the Lord Jesus Christ then Christian Joy is present in spiritual Fellowship we address one another not with worldly chatter but as it says in scripture which Psalms hymns and spiritual songs well let’s just take our Bibles for a moment and just look at a few passages that mention actually the word Psalms the word hymns and of course the word sing or things pertaining to the Holy Spirit just to give you a sense that when somebody is singing this what does come out of it what is the what’s the context of what they say look at psalm 95.

    just a few verses there verse number one through six I’m not going to read the whole thing but I want you to notice in Psalm 95 verse number 1 this is a Psalm spoken of really about the nature and the work of God the father and of course other Psalms God the son it says in verse number one O Come let us sing for Joy to the Lord let us shout joyfully to the rock of our Salvation let us come before his presence with Thanksgiving let us shout joyfully to him with what with Psalms right but notice in verse number three for the Lord is great A great God and a great king above all gods in whose hand are the depths of the earth and the peaks of the mountain are his also the sea is his for it is it was he who made it and His Hands formed the the dry ground come let us worship and bow down let us kneel before the Lord our makers you see that a person is filled with the character of God and what do they do they sang these songs on the way to Jerusalem usually on the high holy days and they would sing them over and over again repetition is so important in the Christian life especially when it comes to theology about who God is so we sing psalms about who God is and then another one you have to turn there but in Acts chapter 16 and verse 25 to 31 remember Paul and Silas are in jail and what are they doing the Bible says in verse number 25 and about midnight Paul science were praying and singing hymns to the praise of God they’re singing they’re in jail they’re in stocks they’re in and jails or not nothing like they have today they weren’t getting three squares a day and they didn’t have climate control they were in stocks it was damp it was a dungeon what it was and they’re there what they’re singing why they singing they’re singing about the so great of Salvation it doesn’t give us all the context of what they’re saying but if you notice in verse 31 they said the the jailers are listening to them and they’re saying these guys are singing and they’re in this position in their life how this is crazy this is nuts but what they have I want and what does it say it says Paul said don’t do harm to yourselves for all here and he called for lights and rushed in trembling with fear and fell down before Paul and Silas and after he brought them out he said sirs what must I do to be saved and they says believe on the Lord Jesus and you shall be saved in your household you’ll see you’ll be saved so obviously they were singing about salvation they were singing about salvation in Christ Jesus that’s what they were singing about and these soldiers wanted it now I don’t know about you that’s about the worst situation you could be in to be singing uh hymns and yet look at the outcome is the results God wants to bring but spiritual fullness to Paul and Silas and of course other places in scripture spiritual songs usually directed at the holy spirit of God and pertaining to the spirit like in Revelation where it says and they sang a new song and what are they saying worthy are you to take the book and break its seals for you were slain and purchased for God with your blood men from every tribe and tongue and people and Nations you see how they understood the gospel they understood what Jesus did they understood the purchase that God had to make for that person to be saved see that just brings to us joy and then in Revelation 15 they sang the song of Moses and the song of the Lamb these are like two bookends and what do they sing this is what they sang grade and marvelous are your work so Lord the Mighty the righteous and true are your ways King of the Nations who will not fear O Lord the glory of her name for you alone Are Holy all the nations will come and worship before you for your righteous acts have been revealed see their writing and singing about what God has done who God is what God has accomplished so the word filled believer joyfully exhorts and admonishes their Brethren to worship their lord and practice Christ’s a christ-conscious life and all the music comes out of a transformed heart when a person is at peace with God and the Heart indicates not so much the place but the manner the attitude in which they are to sing so teaching christological Doctrine naturally leads to doxological response everything’s focused on Christ he is the center of all Theology and if anyone diminishes or minimum minimizes who Christ is and what he has done they are in Jeopardy of being a heretic and that is who the false teachers were doing they were minimizing who Christ was and then how is all this thing to take place notice in version back to Colossians chapter 3 verse 16.

    singing to God that’s who you sing to and then what you sing with gratitude in your hearts so where does this un inner singing and gratitude show up if we have been living filled with the message that proclaims Christ it will show up in conduct of everyday living or it will expose you that you have not been singing to the Lord or been truly thankful in your heart that’s will it’ll show for example if somebody’s always worried worried is a killjoy it kills a genuine attitude of thankfulness were we really really reflects doubt upon God and makes really us miserable it makes us grumbling and complaining as we Mumble under our breath I don’t think God you know what I’m really going through or maybe God you made a mistake in regard to my situation but a defeated and unhappy Christian is no example of the message that proclaims Christ who would want that I’m trying to get delivered from that Brethren if you are in that condition today bring it all to the Lord cast your care on him trust in him he will give you the peace of God that guards your heart and mind so you don’t get caught in that vicious cycle of worry like a broken a tape going on uh so scripture concludes these exhortations with a touchstone of Christian conduct and makes the test of what right what is right and what is wrong very clear to the child of God we we this is not something that you can’t figure out this is something that we know very clearly so we’re to live so that the name of Christ prevails so what do we do let the name of Christ Prevail look at verse number 17 and I’m coming to a close here look at verse 17.

    it says whatever you do whatever you do in word and D or D do all in the name of the Lord Jesus giving thanks through him to God the Father so do all in the name of the Lord Jesus means that we act with his approval and we show him to others in everything including what we say and what we do and this shows up this really shows what it means to to Bear the name of the Lord Jesus Christ and remember the name of the Lord stands for his person and his character and his will so we Christians should act in concert with the nature and the character of the Lord this is the third time it tells us to give thanks and notice we give thanks through him through Christ however we we really can’t be honestly thankful if we don’t honor him by our words and our Deeds one one best way to test action is really can I ask the question can I do it calling on the name of the Lord can I do this thing I’m going to do calling on the name of the Lord or does it disrupt peace or does it violate the word of God or does it bring dishonor to his name and then another test as far as the a word is concerned can I speak it and in the same breath name the name of Jesus can I speak this thing to this person and at the same breath name the name of Jesus so remember if we are to fix our eyes on Christ it is not the Perfection of your life but it should that we really should demand upon it will Thou come when we appear with Jesus in glory right now we should focus and be satisfied with the progress of our spiritual maturity again are you progressing in these things are you satisfied are you satisfied so I say May the spirit of the Lord bring conviction so he the Holy Spirit and you can make adjustments in your life so that you will make progress and in making progress you will experience spiritual fulfillment so that’s where he comes in fact when I bring pick this up this passage up next time notice where it it actually shows up in verse number 18.

    wives 19 husbands 20 children 21 fathers 22 slaves bosses employees that’s where it shows up so that’s where the Lord wants us to live right there and all of us live there no but none of us can get out of there but what’s the point in Colossians in chapter 1 verse 28 this is what Paul says we Proclaim him admonishing every man and teaching every man with all wisdom so that here is the the conclusion the results so that we may present every man complete in Christ that’s the goal of the holy spirit of God to present us completing Christ how far are you from that goal I pray that you see progress and I pray that that progress would be enjoyed by you as God is working in your life and it gives evidence to your own salvation and makes you a Christian that could actually be used in the body amen